Early next morning [16th July] we had Holy Communion in the church, St Mary Magdalene; nothing could have been more happy or beautiful. All the morning went in pottering about, talking and dressing. Ory and I saw a good deal of one another… Polly and Constance were bridesmaids, Bernard was the best man. Noel proved a most excellent organizer, and so with the church fully decorated with white flowers and lilies and with plenty of music and a general feeling of happiness all round, Ory and I were married on 16th. July 1901…
Edward Adrian Wilson, Diary of the Discovery Expedition, p. 27
Life decided that the anniversary should escape my grasp, so I’m hoping this will make up for it at least to some extent!
As weddings runups go, this was a particularly complicated one. Despite having been engaged for over two years, the question of whether it would go ahead depended on the question of Ted going South – should they even get married at all with the high chance that he’s not going to come back? Are they going to have time to pull it together? The answer was yes, and they pulled it together in two weeks, before having three more together before Ted was setting sail for the Antarctic.
It must be said that it’s very much a family affair. The service was taken by Ory’s father, Rev. Francis Souper, in her home church, and in conjunction with Ted’s uncle, Will Hopkins. Bernard, the best man is Ted’s brother, recently returned from the Boer War; Noel is Ory’s brother, the eldest after her; and while he was organising, their youngest brother Adrian was the organist. I’ve saved Polly and Constance til last – Polly’s one of Ted’s sisters, whilst Constance is Ory’s only sister – seen respectively on the far left and far right of this wedding photo. I’m not quite sure why the quality has Done That, but That it must do, apparently!
It seems to have gone down well with the local papers, both in Cheltenham and in Hilton. I’ll leave this post with two extracts, taken from Cheltenham in Antarctica: The Life of Edward Wilson, by David Wilson (Ted’s great nephew), and David Elder, p. 53.
“A fashionable wedding was solemnised at Hilton Parish Church, Hunts,… The bride looked charming in a dress of white satin, trimmed with chiffon and lace, and she wore a tulle veil with a wreath of real orange blossoms. She also carried a bunch of white trumpet lilies.”
“Peals were rung on the bells…. The pathway over which the bride and bridegroom walked… was strewed with flowers by the schoolchildren…”