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“I plant roots so deeply in the people I love that I always lose a piece of myself when they go.”

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there is a distinct difference in being nice vs being kind. niceness is reactionary, an extension of societal imprinting related to appearing civilized and pleasant. it’s automatically saying “hey, how are you?” when greeting someone.

kindness is very different, it looks like saying, “hey, last time we talked you mentioned [thing], what happened with that? did you get it figured out?” it comes from a place of sincerity and fosters genuine intimacy between you and others.

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“The minute you realize your worth you shift your energy to attract new people who VALUE your worth. It’s starts with you first.”

— Penny Pandemic

amargedom

“You have a place in my heart no one else ever could have.”

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amargedom

“Be of good heart.”

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lovelysuggestions

if you don't know what to be, be kind.

lovelysuggestions

you spend so much time taking care of everybody else, but you need to remember to treat yourself the way you treat others.

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amargedom

““Please, I want so badly for the good things to happen.””

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naturaekos

“You will never be able to escape from your heart. So it’s better to listen to what it has to say.”

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knifenymph

don’t ever dumb yourself down for people. don’t end long thought processes with a dismissive “if that made any sense haha..” or an “i guess” or a “but idk!” speak your mind, truth, and heart and don’t water yourself down for anyone. your message will be received and understood by those it is meant for, and if not, people who truly care will ask for clarification. you are allowed to have complex thoughts. you dont need to earn your right to speak