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A sketch portrait of someone I miss so much 😢❤️

Blue rose. Color pencil art.

Colored Pencil art 🖼Jelly Fish 🐟

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What a cutie⭐️ here is a fun fact, “Koalas can sleep up to 18 hours a day.”

What is Love?

Wanting to be seen and heard. Wishing to be wanted. Is that just a dream? Everyone is looking for that someone that missing piece that makes their world a little better. Does that really exist? Or is it just something that came out of books, and movies. We dream of the romances that are initially fake. In the end we find a person and try and fit them into the stereotype’s that we develop from what we watch, hear and read. You say you are happy you even start to believe it yourself but, in the end it’s not real. You have dreamed of the white picket fence the dog and children, with a husband that greets you with kisses when he comes home from work. Instead the reality of it is, you have a husband who barely pays attention to what your saying. It hasn’t always been like this. You try and get his attention but, he never seems to notice. Every outfit or lingerie you put on doesn’t even receive a reaction. Then you ask yourself, “does he even love me?” Or perhaps, “does he like the way I look or find me remotely attractive?” What’s is the point of living like this. If we insist on conforming to the stereotypes of society, the least we can do is find someone that notices us and the little things we do. Instead we hold on to the person that we bet on. The years that we put into trying to make a person something they are not. Sometimes that spark that love that used to exist doesn’t last forever. A person loses interest. Instead of just leaving you ask him, “do you still care, do you still love me or even do you find me attractive?” Suddenly you begin to realize it’s just a waste of time you are going to get the same answer. He doesn’t like change, he is used to having you around maybe he forgot what love is really like. He says he will change to keep you around, but he won’t really do it. There are kids to think of, so he tries to push it off, and when he knows he can’t push it off anymore he pretends as if he is changing. Then he goes right back to ignoring you. Is that happiness? Is it what you want forever. To keep hoping and dreaming of the person you first fell in love with to reappear. Or are you finally going to come to terms that he doesn’t exist anymore?

Feeling a little artistic lately

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Oh Christmas Tree 🎄

What a beautiful view ❄️

Happy Holidays 🎄

A jellyfish, if you watch it long enough, begins to look like a heart beating. It doesn't matter what kind: the blooded Atolla with its flashing siren lights, the frilly flower hat variety, or the near-transparent moon jelly, Aurelia aurita. It's their pulse, the way they contract swiftly, than release. Like a ghost heart-- a heart you can see right through, right into some other world where everything you ever lost as gone to hide.

Beauty you can find at home

A little sparkle never hurt anyone 🎆

It is not the walls that make the city, but the people who live within them. The walls of London may be battered, but the spirit of the Londoner stands resolute and undismayed.

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Amazing what you can capture just by walking down the street of Fisherman’s Warf

The Expectations of a Hispanic Husband

Traditionally a hispanic wife is expected to cook, clean, take care of the kids and make sure their husband is always taken care of. This is still expected today. What my husband and many others don’t realize is times have changed. Now most wives have full time jobs and possibly working the same hours as their husbands. Now when we get off of work we are just as tired as them, so doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry and taking care of the kids just is no longer possible. The question is, why do they still have these expectations? Is it because that is the way their mothers were? Or maybe because their mother never made them do their own laundry and cleaned everything for them. There are a lot of factors that play into this. All I want is to make my husband happy, just as I’m sure all of you do, but I won’t be killing myself to do it. He understands this now but, at first there were many unrealistic expectations. I know many women with hispanic husbands who expect the tradition hispanic wife. Now don’t get me wrong I am sure other races have some of the same issues. This is just a huge part of hispanic culture. Moms used to raise their daughters this way, making sure that they never let their husband want for nothing, and to always keep them taken care of.

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