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Don’t let fear ruin your dream Melissa

[thoughtkick]

“I hope one day we can forgive each other for not being what we wanted each other to be”

— Kriti G.

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“People grow apart, and sometimes, there’s nothing anyone can do about it.”

— Jay Asher

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“No matter how bad it is, or how bad it gets, I’m going to make it.”

— Les Brown (via marijuanamodels)

[redrola]

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“You’ll never find peace of mind until you listen to your heart.”

— George Michael

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“A beautiful thing is never perfect.”

— Egyptian Proverb

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“I’ve found that growing up means being honest. About what I want. What I need. What I feel. Who I am.”

— Epiphany

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“Sometimes all you can do is lie in bed and hope to fall asleep before you fall apart.”

— William C. Hannan

[glowdetails]

heart details, carolina herrera fall 2021 

[friends-daily]

The One Where Everybody Finds Out (1999) ||| F.R.I.E.N.D.S: The Reunion (2021)

[nessa007]

#matt leblanc and joey tribbiani are basically the same person

[aspiritualwarrior]

“…go inside and listen to your body, because your body will never lie to you. Your mind will play tricks, but the way you feel in your heart, in your guts, is the truth.”

— don Miguel Ruiz 

[latenightcornerstore]

DEAR TEENAGERS AND YOUNG ADULTS BECOMING SEXUALLY ACTIVE FOR THE FIRST TIME:

1. DEMAND condom use 2. Hold your partners accountable for what happens in the bedroom. None of this “baby I can’t control myself around you” or “I just wanted you so bad” bullshit. 3. Coercion is real and it’s very scary and hard to identify in the moment. Establish a dialogue with your partner. Be clear on what you both want. Be clear on what you don’t want. Your boundaries should ALWAYS be respected. 4. Sex can be really emotionally and physically over-stimulating the first few times; don’t be afraid or ashamed to ask your partner to slow down, take a break, or even stop. 5. Focus less on pleasing your partner and more on exploring your partner. Everyone’s body is different and there are no “tricks” to better sex. Chances are, if you psych yourself out worrying over how well you’re “performing” then nobody’s going to have a good time. 6. Ask questions, offer suggestions. Despite what porn has probably taught you, talking during sex isn’t weird or taboo. Your partner isn’t a mind reader. They don’t know what feels good to you. [Pro-tip, a looot of people without clitorises aren’t fully aware of just HOW sensitive a clitoris is. They can be a little rough with them. Tell them to chill!!!!] 7. Your sex life is YOUR business. Don’t ever feel ashamed of how many or how few sexual partners/experiences you’re having. Do what you want, touch the people who want to touch you back, forget the rest. 8. DON’T FAKE YOUR ORGASMS!! Don’t fake your orgasms!! DON’TFAKEYOURORGAMS!! If your partner isn’t getting you there, let them know! Tell them how!! 9. There is more to sex than orgasms. Sex is a really cool way to establish intimacy and trust, to have a fun time, to relieve stress, to explore a person’s body and bring them pleasure. Don’t get me wrong, orgasms are really cool and good, but your sex life is going to be a lot better if it doesn’t revolve around them. 10. LEARN ABOUT YOUR BODY!! This goes for everyone, but ESPECIALLY if you are a person in possession of a vulva, you have been discouraged and even actively kept from vital knowledge about your anatomy! Do some google searches, buy a human sexuality textbook, masturbate. 11. Virginity is a useless concept. It’s completely okay if your virginity is something important to you and I’m not trying to belittle that idea. Just, for the record, in the grand scheme of things it’s not a big deal. Literally nothing about you changes just because you bumped uglies with someone else.

This has been a public service announcement from your friendly internet poet.

[flameysaur]

Talking about sex when not being sexy is the best first step to having sex. Don’t talk about it to turn on your partner, just discuss it casual. Talk about your thoughts and feelings, what you think you want, what scares you, what interests you, etc. Like anything you can think of. It makes the act easier and can help you establish boundaries before the act starts. Try doing it on a phone or over text so you know sex won’t start. Sometimes the distance helps you be honest.

[psychonaut-lisa-frankenstein]

i like how positive this post is and how it isn’t gender specific <3 <3 <3

[abadmeanman]

Some solid stuff here!

[angelwarm]

i hope that one day i will finally be ok….i’ll make a cherry pie when it is all over

[angelwarm]

today is the day

[itoldyouthings]

i think the way that teenagers treat drinking is like a huge problem lol

[itoldyouthings]

like i’m sorry but coming from a grown adult it’s just not cute or fun to get blackout drunk every single weekend and hurt yourself or hurt others just to show off on snap. also if your friends around you are LETTING you get to this level of intoxication, they are not your true friends and you cannot trust them. calling yourself “an alcoholic hahahahrjdjdj” isn’t cute either. you’re really going to regret a lot of this behavior when you’re older

[freelux]

The only reason I want a boyfriend is so that when I’m singing Fergilicious and it’s at the part where she says “I be up in the gym just workin on my fitness he’s my witness” I can point to him and he’ll do the little “wooOOH” part because right now I have to do both parts by myself and it’s stressful because right after the wooOOH part I have to get right back into rapping and the transition is harder than you think 

[werenotreallystrangers]