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tāwhaki, anei tō kai!

[irawhiti]

about

- tūī

- 25

- ia/tana takatāpui irawē māori in "australia" on stolen land. sovereignty was never ceded, therefore australia does not exist

- pronouns example for people who don't know te reo

- ngāti kangaru, ngāti rangiātea

- transmisogyny exempt

- schizo cripple DID system

- i'm fine with gendered terms being used on me (dude, mate, girl etc)

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i follow/interact from @radioplague. dm for my personal if we're mutuals ^_^ (18+)

i have a mostly inactive pigeon blog at @crestedpigeon

minors block #not sfw, i rarely post anything like that but just to be safe

proshippers, transandrophobia believers, terfs, zionists etc don't interact also whakamatea koe

[irawhiti]

Why would you bring a random animal, no less a fucking duck into a place with people who are obviously hostile to you and looking for an excuse to throw you out. Are you dumb? No sympathy for you

suck me badly

[irawhiti]

so i got kicked out! because i brought back a pet duck which was already thoroughly agreed upon after having the cops called on me for several very provably racist calls (pic of the pet in question ^_^)

if you wanna support me, here's my youpay:

https://youpay.me/voidsys876

tysm!

[irawhiti]

how are we all ^_^

[irawhiti]

hey i'm back lol

[irawhiti]

Queemael fandom wishing you a speedy recovery 🙏🏻🐳🫶🏻

thank you <3<3

[irawhiti]

hey guys, had a very major psychotic episode and will be back in the next week or so. much love

[irawhiti]

bro lol

[is-this-fascism]

nobody ever talks about how 'compliance' is directly at odds with boundary setting. compliance in mental healthcare is for insurance companies only. it's for their metrics and to ensure the poor insurance companies that their money is being used 'properly', i.e. the way they demand.

when a mental health service demands compliance, they're threatening to cut you off from services for enforcing your boundaries. 'i will not take that medication that gives me awful side effects and doesn't work' is non-compliance and grounds for termination from the program. 'i will not attend group therapy on the weekends' is non-compliance and grounds for termination from the program. 'i will not answer a call from staff past 8pm' is non-compliance and grounds for termination. 'i will keep my door locked while i'm sleeping' is non-compliance and grounds for termination. 'i will attempt to make friends and seek peer support from other members' is non-compliance and grounds for termination.

compliance, and that is the actual word they use, is an archaic and backwards way to force people to not set boundaries in terms of their care. it shuffles them along through a system that may or may not, and likely will not work for them because they know what they need and insurance companies do not. insurance companies do not have their best interests in mind, their interests are profit and spending as little money on the crazies as possible, and they will literally hire a person whose job it is to find any reason to kick people out of whatever care program it is, and they'll frame it as 'if you don't comply, you must not want help! we can't help you if you don't comply!!'

[irawhiti]

hey guys, had a very major psychotic episode and will be back in the next week or so. much love

[alivehouse]

our virtuous adhd influenced rsd vs their nefarious bpd influenced irrational fear of abandonment

[alivehouse]

well im putting my tags front and center now since ppl liked this post

[fatjunglejulia]

You don’t have to think you’re hot but other people inevitably are going to so you at least need learn to accept that perception with grace instead of falling back on self deprecation every time someone is brave enough to call you cute

[echoesofsaturn]

I don't want my life to be a perpetual load of trying to recover from something after something and someone after someone. I don't want recovery to be all that I am.

[elbiotipo]

I swear that THIS time we will find the immutable and objective way to categorize human beings I swear this time it is actually supported by empirical data and it's not a tool to replicate power structures I swear bro just one more IQ test I swear just let me create one more box one more box to check please

[elvishcostello-deactivated20260]

i think a lot of people internalized the misogynistic idea that “men are rational and women are emotional” and just went “that’s true… but it’s a good thing!” instead of saying “that’s obviously bullshit and we shouldn’t perpetuate this belief in any form”

[irawhiti]

typo in the post that's already been reblogged by myself with added commentary to solidify it in the reblog chain and others have also reblogged it already event; 30 dead, 122 injured

[irawhiti]

ik i just reblogged a post on it but i think that people are gonna inevitably (and probably already have) interpret the concept "defanging indigenous cultures to justify them as peaceful and therefore demanding of respect is racist" as "therefore if you don't say that european colonisation of the world and indigenous warfare between specific cultures is the same, you are racist" and start blasting this with out with their whole chest uncritically. like many of the posts about the history of violence and war in indigenous cultures being important to remember are made by indigenous people and my thoughts are generally "this has the potential to go bad due to this being tumblr but is an incredibly important topic to discuss" but white people are beyond thin ice making those posts because i have to guess whether or not you're implying my race was savage comparable to western colonisation or not and i just don't care enough to do that for a complete stranger

[irawhiti]

like @ white people trying to lead these conversations: do you actually care or are you being a smug white person bringing up indigenous warfare to prove my ancestors were just as bad and that landback is white genocide or whatever lol

[irawhiti]

ik i just reblogged a post on it but i think that people are gonna inevitably (and probably already have) interpret the concept "defanging indigenous cultures to justify them as peaceful and therefore demanding of respect is racist" as "therefore if you don't say that european colonisation of the world and indigenous warfare between specific cultures is the same, you are racist" and start blasting this with out with their whole chest uncritically. like many of the posts about the history of violence and war in indigenous cultures being important to remember are made by indigenous people and my thoughts are generally "this has the potential to go bad due to this being tumblr but is an incredibly important topic to discuss" but white people are beyond thin ice making those posts because i have to guess whether or not you're implying my race was savage comparable to western colonisation or not and i just don't care enough to do that for a complete stranger