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somewordsarebiggerthanothers

The loud silence in the room swells into a storm inside my head. Words you never spoke build a tower around me. A tangle of unheard questions spins in circles, day and night. You punished me with indifference and held me captive within my own mind. Yet whoever leaves me standing in the chaos, just to feel their own power, quietly and softly loses the key to my doors in the end.🖤 “The most dangerous thing about the silence of others is not the quiet itself; it is the noise it leaves behind within us. When people who matter to us treat us with coldness and indifference, our minds automatically begin searching for faults. We try to decipher the silence. We tie our thoughts into such tight knots that we come to believe *we* are the problem. But emotional neglect is not a reflection of your worth; it reflects the other person’s inability to communicate maturely. Sometimes, we have to stop looking for answers in the tangle another person has created inside us. Healing begins the moment we stop trying to understand the silence of the wrong people.”