JayizGay

...idk-

[jayizgay]

Intro post :3

Hiii!! My names are June and Jay, I’m a weird, nerdy trans and queer girl/person :3

My pronouns are fae/she/they/xe (I like people mixing all of them in, but if neos are difficult you can just use they/she!) And I like feminine or neutral terms to describe me, although I sometimes prefer one over the other (as I write this, I slightly tilt towards neutral)

Some subjects I like are: History (especially alternative history), geography, culture, geopolitics, music (music theory, composition, and playing piano!), coding, game development, astronomy, chemistry, vexiology / flag design, worldbuilding, and probably more I’m forgetting- Safe to say, I am a NERD.

I am VERY queer and have a lot of labels, some of which I have coined myself and made flags for! You can see all of my labels on my pronouns.cc, and all of my preferences for terms and pronouns on my pronouns.page, but as a short version, I’m transfem, non-binary, bi, pan, sapphic, and arospec.

I’m very gay for my wife, and all my friends are so so important to me, so thank you all for being here 💜

My “parent” @meowwswiftie and “brother” @here-and-queer312 are both really cool, check their pages out too :3

Some of my favorite things, but they get progressively more stupid:

Food: Mac and cheese

Show: The Owl House

Game: Either Deltarune or Minecraft

Color: Bright indigo or rainbow

Music genre: Electronic

Songs: What's a Future Funk?, Human After All (SebastiAn Remix), The Third Sanctuary, among many others

Animal: Penguins

Time of day and aesthetic: Sunset

Season: Spring or Summer

Month: Take a wild guess based on my name-

Relationship dynamic: Any type of yuri

Historical time period: Napoleonic Wars

Country flag: Estonia

Pride color scheme: Bisexual

Mario character: Funky Kong

Mario Kart track: Wii Rainbow Road

Letter: J

Minute in time that has ever elapsed: ~3:32pm, Feburary 21st, 2026

Some miscellaneous facts (I'll add more to this as I think of some):

My birthday is on June 17th, 2009 (that makes me 17!)

I'm English-Irish-Portuguese ethnically, and Californian nationally.

My queer awakening was on April 24th, 2024. There were many very obvious signs but that day I first noticed them.

There were many times I could consider the "anniversary" to my relationship, but I'd say late on September 30th, 2025, as this was when she first alluded to liking me and when I first realized my feelings back.

Categories in this blog:

#junes art: Art I make!! :3

#junes friends!!: Stuff related to my awesome friends :3

#junes yaps: Me yapping about random subjects I enjoy

#junes hobbies: Anything about a subject I enjoy that isn’t a yap

#junes answers: Me answering questions yall give me

#junes shitposts: Random crap that I feel like posting

#junes reposts: Self-explanatory

#junes microlabels: A mini-series I'm doing highlighting microlabels I come across!!

And more to come!

Trans rights are human rights, black lives matter, it's okay to be gay, feminism is equality, tax the rich, punch fascists

DNI if you are MAGA, transphobic, racist, ableist, sexist, homophobic, xenophobic, any other type of bigot, or if you support any bigotry such as ICE.

[pyxehastoomanyinterests]

[kralsuselle]

deltArune chapter 7 leak

[gendercensus]

The 2026 Gender Census is now open!

[ survey.gendercensus.com ]

The 13th annual international gender census, collecting information about the language we use to refer to ourselves and each other, is now open until 13th August 2026.

It’s short and easy, for most participants it takes 5 minutes or less.

After the survey is closed I’ll process the results and publish a spreadsheet of the data and a report summarising the main findings. Then anyone can use them for academic or business purposes, self-advocacy, tracking the popularity of language over time, and just feeling like we’re part of a huge and diverse community.

If you think you might have friends and followers who’d be interested, please do reblog this blog post, and share the survey URL by email or at AFK social groups or on other social networks. Every share is extremely helpful!

Survey URL: https://survey.gendercensus.com

The survey is open to anyone anywhere who speaks English and feels that the gender binary doesn’t fully describe their experience of themselves and their gender(s) or lack thereof.

Thank you so much!

[ Link to survey ]

PS: You can see some regularly-updated statistics about incoming data here, with lots of demography and graphs to peruse!

PPS: Image credits, bark and grass.

[sir-poltergeist]

teachers

[parkayquarts]

"what if someone regrets transitioning" if you are 18 or over in free country usa you can walk into any tattoo parlor and ask for a tattoo that will be on your body forever and ever and ever and they will give it to you with the understanding that if you dont like the result or you regret it later that's your fucking problem and not theirs

[leftoverpizza634]

just because you don't understand it doesn't mean it isn't real

the unjustified hatred i see for furries, therians, otherkin, endogenic systems, willogenic system, a-spec individuals, those who are alove, xenogenders, neopronouns, is just... it's awful.

Alterhumans are valid.

Systems of any origin are valid.

A-specs are valid.

Xenogenders are valid.

Neopronouns are valid.

If you don't understand it, that's fine. Either try and understand it or just move on. If isn't hurting anyone... so what?

Who cares if someone is a little bit weird or different? That's their identity, not yours, so how can you know what is true for them? Who are you to judge their existence and presentation?

[two-facedgod]

I don't care if you think this is a "coping mechanism" because, so what if it is? So I found a way to love myself and handle what is, for me, a very dark reality? And I'm not hurting myself or anybody else?

And I don't care if you think this is all a delusion, either. Even if it is, you're not my doctor. You're not part of my care team. I didn’t ask you for a "reality check." Stay in your lane.

And if you think I'm just "playing pretend?" Who cares? I'm not, but why do you care so much? Is it because you think I'm having fun, that I never stopped imagining, playing, creating? And why is this your business, anyway?

Leave us alone.

[best-of-memes]

[jayizgay]

For some reason, people don’t pronounce mine “Jay” or “June” but this weird name I keep hearing. Who even is this “Jay-muh-sun?” Who’s that lame guy? Glad to not be him..

[assignedmale]

[jayizgay]

HAPPY JUNETEENTH ❤️🖤💚

Being white, I’m not really one who can confidently speak on a holiday meant to celebrate black people, but I am definitely wishing my black / POC siblings a great day today and every day!!

Us trans people understand on some level what it’s like to be part of the “other”ed group that bigots can’t stop trying to push down, being the targets of violence, etc. We all remember how Marsha P. Johnson, a black trans woman who gave queer people the rights we enjoy today, is a great example of how when we all work together, we can truly make change for everyone.

But it’s not about us today, it’s about black people (especially those who experience intersectionality through being another minority, too).

I will ALWAYS stand with you all, and I will also be spending today doing lots of research about what kinds of things white allies such as me can do for you all. Everyone reading my blog should know this by now, but BLACK LIVES MATTER.

Happy Juneteenth, everyone!!

[satan-offical]

I love watching my trans friends grow up and become more of themselves. Look at you go, shining as bright as ever. I'm so proud of them

[fluffyartbl0g]

Shout out to that one tumblr post that was like: "You know it's not just trans people who ponder their gender, it's healthy for cis people to take a look inside and be like! Yep that's all good!" And I read this post and was like.... like what do you look at inside though T O T??? I asked my boyfriend how he knew he was a boy and he said he just felt this unexplainable intrinsic feeling he was a boy... and I'm like... I HAVE GENUINELY NO IDEA WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT WTF 😭😭😭!!!!!!!! So apparently its like. Normal for people to feel this inexplicable 'Gender' feeling or whatever,,, I feel like how asexual people feel when they discover people around them aren't making up the fact they experience sexual arousal T O T

Obviously all my sciency stuff is just speculation! But I'm the type of person who believe that everything has a rationale behind it, and like an adopted child who is curious about their biological parents, I am just interested in my origins! The field of genetics still is mostly just like,,,, hmmm we think this whatever MIGHT be a contributing factor to a person turning out this way... maybe. If you are more interested in the topic I discussed, just look up 'Genetic Memories in Animals' and there should be some more stuff OuO!

I'd love to hear how this 'inexplicable gender feeling' feels to gendered individuals! For those willing to share, I'd love to listen!

[dimespin]

“Why do you beat yourself up so much over little mistakes?”

[chronicdisaster-deactivated2017]

This is such a good illustration of emotional abuse

[artist-rayne]

Just a reblog to spread the most UN noticed abuse, be aware

[monochrome-flight-feathers]

and reminder for everyone to be patient with your loved ones who apologize constantly, or have a really emotional reaction to something that seems insignificant to you.

[polkavona]

Another post that breaks my theme. But I really like seeing problems myself and other people have being explained in such a wonderful way

[armachitikian]

Get as mad as you want, I don't care, I won't ever respect your egg prime directive, if I can prevent one of my sisters from staying a few more months/years/decades in the closet then I will, I don't give a shit if I make some cis dudes uncomfortable in the process, I don't center them, the whole fucking world already does that, I center my sisters

[here-and-queer312]

Best compliment I've ever received, thank you @jayizgay 🥹😼

[beardedmrbean]