I hate when people say shit like theyâve been traumatized by a certain character and therefore youâre ânot allowedâ or âcanâtâ split off a introject or fictive of that character.
We were a literal child what do you want us to do. Tell our brain that it isnât allowed to be plural? Iâve been here for YEARS
We respect if you somehow were traumatized by something, but that doesnât mean you get to control other peopleâs lives and tell them what they are and arenât allowed to do. You canât avoid it your entire life either, eventually you have to learn how to cope with it when you do come across it if it inevitably is going to happen