Social media has a strong effect on many different aspects in life. In todayâs day and age, social media can act as a more important or relied on role than face-to-face communication, even though at times it is not as effective. With modern day having a great amount of social media in it, people today are dealing with new surfacing conflicts surrounding their use of social media.
In my personal use with social media, I tend to have a problem that many other users of outlets such as Twitter can identify with. Twitter has a range of diverse users. Some use it for promotional use for a company, others use it at leisure, and others use it to promote their celebrity status. Personally, my use is generally reach out to my favorite celebrities. Daily, I will be constantly checking my feed to see what the celebrities highly admire, are doing. Whenever I come across their tweets I will interact in some way whether it be with a favorite, retweet, or reply. The tweet could be about something I absolutely hate, yet when I see it, I will still interact in a positive way. I undergo this similar process with my best friends on twitter. I will constantly interact with them whether it be a mention or just a favorite. The problem here, is that I act the same way with famous people, in which I have never had that face-to-face interaction with, as I do with my best friends. From this habit, I feel an emotional attachment to these celebrities. With the way I interact with these celebrities, I feel as if I know them really well as a person. I find the way they present themselves on social media authentic and buy into the personality they sell.
In âTo See and to Be Seen: Celebrity Practice on Twitterâ by Alice Marwick and Danah Boyd, the article mentions about the general public and our role on social media. Through outlets like Youtube, Twitter, etc, we try to make ourselves a micro-celebrity on our own. Followers are our fan base that we constantly are trying to satisfy. The whole term of a micro-celebrity is âa mindset and set of practices in which audience is viewed as a fan base; popularity is maintained through ongoing fan management; and self-presentation is carefully constructed to be consumed by othersâ (Marwick, Boyd). Famous people maintain their image through micro-celebrity. Image is everything in Hollywood or in the limelight. On the other side of things, the general public strives to achieve this micro-celebrity mindset. Why am I constantly tweeting my celebrities even though it may have a negative response from my followers? In my opinion, the normal average users strive to reach some sort of notoriety. The general public will reply and reply and tweet and show all of this admiration in hopes of that one in a million chance the famous person will reply. That would provide a sense of emotional fulfillment.
In âFaux Friendshipâ, by William Deresiewicz, the topic of friendship in an internet setting is discussed. Right off the bat, the title can relate to the situation. This synthetic friendship is one sided as much as the celebrity can boast about their love for their fans. Deresiewicz makes a point that âFriendships, unlike blood ties, are electiveâ(Deresiewicz). It is up to the person themselves to choose who is a friend and who is not. By saying they are elective brings up something questionable: Does the friendship have to necessarily be a replicated relationship? If someone is content in what they think is a friendship, than what exactly the opposite person thinks should not really make a difference. This relates back to famous people as the friendship is not reflected, however, the fan feels such adoration and contentment with the status of the relationship. For all anyone knows, the celebrity could completely dislike their fans and find all the overwhelming attention uncomfortable and strange. The fan will never know that because the friendship is not a two-way street. This pre-meditated idea of friendship has adapted overtime with the addition of numerous outlets of social media.
Human beings choose to neglect the possibility that a friendship is not authentic. The two articles intertwine on what exactly defines a friendship with achieving celebrity or attention from a famous figure. One would rather have the quantity of friends, not knowing where exactly they stand with the other person, than to not have them at all. Consequently, an aspect of average everyday people is revealed with their desire for attention and micro-celebrity mindset. Just like the celebrities they follow, they strive to keep what they think are their fans satisfied and ultimately trying to boost their image. By the sound of all of this, humans are very selfish. It is more so about their satisfaction with having numerous people admire them. On the other hand, the satisfaction of others is necessary in order to grow in hopes of one day being a well known celebrity. For both the celebrity and the average human being one thing is for sure; youâre nothing without your audience and fans.
Marwick, Alice, and Danah Boyd. "To See and Be Seen: Celebrity Practice on Twitter." To See and Be Seen: Celebrity Practice on Twitter. Sage Publications. Web. 9 Mar. 2015. <http://con.sagepub.com/content/17/2/139>.
Deresiewicz, WIlliam. "Faux Friendship." The Chronicle. The Chronicle of Higher Education, 6 Dec. 2009. Web.