Chinese International Student Interview by: Drew D’Andrea
Levi Xu- Freshman International Student Interview
How was your experience growing up in China?
“I spent my middle school years living in a boarding school. I liked it a lot because in that school I met my best friends. They made me feel really happy, even though my grades lowered because of it. I wasn’t nervous about getting into a good high school, because i was confident in myself. One of my friends had a villa nearby the boarding school. Only on the weekends could you leave the school. We used t go to his house and play on the weekends.”
What did you have to do to get into high school?
“Unlike the US, in China, we had to take an entrance exam to get into high school. I prepared for the exam for three years beforehand. The exam was hard, and you get ranked based on your grade. If you are really talented academically you can go to a honors high school. I went to a normal high school. In high school we had to choose a certain direction to take, such as science or art.”
Was your social life similar to middle school? Or different?
“I didn’t make new friends in high school, i just stayed with the friends i made in middle school. I regret not meeting people in high school.”
How did you decide to come to America?
“my parents thought it would be a good idea to go to college in America. I learned english for one year in china, and then I started college in New Jersey. I don’t have any family in America, except for one aunt that my family does not know very well. I had to learn a lot of things about American society while being here.”
Do you miss your family back home?
“Of course i miss them, and think about them a lot. I talk to my parents on the phone every week. I do not feel really homesick, though mainly because I am so busy with everything at a school. Making new friends also makes me feel a sense of belonging”
Was it hard to get used to living here?
Except for the fact that english is the main language, many things were surprisingly easy to get used to. Except for the language difference, America is not that much different to when i was living in China. Being on my own in a different country was scary at first, but i got used to everything pretty quickly. It is hard however to be away from my friends from school. I was very close with them, and being in a new place, and not knowing anyone, was hard at first. But once i started meeting new people in my dorm, and joining clubs, i found people that i got along with, which makes being here a lot better”
Is there a main difference between China and America?
“Getting used to english was very hard. I still have trouble with it now. I know english pretty well, but if people speak very quickly, or use big words, then i get confused. I also notice that meals are different. The portions in America are much larger, and in china, everyone shares meals with each other.”
Do you plan on living here in America, or going back to China?
“I think it would be best to stay here in America, but i feel that it will be harder to find a job here, because of my difficulty with english. This summer i plan on returning to China and be with my family. I know that i will stay at Rutgers for at least four years.”