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In my opinion a big plus to dating someone is the fact you can cheat on them. Wouldn't you agree?
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So you want to be a cuckold?
Cuckold Ideas
♠ Play the game “A cuckolds delight”: Place hubby in permanent chastity for a full month, (uncaged once a day to be teased briefly before taking a shower). During that month, deny him any orgasms whatsoever, (possibly also require him to wear panties under his clothing), while performing any/all household chores. You on the other hand are free that month to enjoy as much leisure time as possible, whilst also experiencing as many orgasms as you want…BUT hubby’s task is not only to keep your home looking tidy, and pleasure you orally whenever you desire…there’s one more catch: in the course of that month, he’s to set you up with a minimum of 1 Bull. If the minimum target is met, he’s uncaged at the end of the month, and granted a week to use you however he pleases. If however he fails to set you up with a Bull (for whatever reason) the game is automatically prolonged by another month.
♠ Kneel in front of your Bull and have hubby kneeling behind you, holding your head and hair from behind while your Bull fucks your mouth until he cums. An additional idea would be to hold all your Bull’s cum in your mouth, and pass it on to hubby during an intimate french kiss afterwards.
♠ Tie hubby to a chair in the bedroom, and make him watch you and your Bull have sex in the marital bed. After some intimate foreplay with french kissing, and caressing, beg your Bull out loud to fuck you. The more desperate you appear to look, the more it will drive hubby mad…
♠ Have hubby lay against the headboard on the bed, as you lean against him or sit on your hands and knees in front of him. Then look into hubby’s eyes, and have your Bull roughly fuck you doggy style, so that hubby can feel the power of his thrusts while looking in your eyes.
♠ Tie hubby to a chair in the living room, and disappear off to the bedroom to have sex with your Bull, denying hubby the privilege of watching. After some time, take a break from fucking. Go out into the living room where hubby’s wating, hair a mess, makeup smeared, and have a glass of water. Say hi to your hubby, walk over to him and give him a french kiss. Then, grin at him mischievously, go back to the bedroom, close the door and lock it.
♠ Give your Bull a blowjob in a semi-public place while hubby stands guard (under a bridge, in an underground car park, on a reasonably deserted beach, etc) For the more advanced hot-wives, arrange to meet your Bull at the beach, and have sex on the sand at night while hubby stands lookout.
♠ Spend time socializing with your Bull for 10 to 15 minutes in the living room, before any action, and while everybody is still fully dressed. Perhaps put on a porn movie to set the tone a bit. While socializing, or watching the movie, sit next to your Bull, kissing, teasing, stroking, unbuttoning and treating him like a new boyfriend while hubby watches.
♠ Have hubby beg your Bull to fuck you. Have him beg your Bull to give you what he hasn’t been able to all these years. Demand him to say it out loud. At this stage, it’s all about humiliation. Make fun of hubby’s cock and sex skills in front of your Bull (“You see this…this is how a real man, with a real cock fucks a woman,…etc”)
♠ Go to a restaurant together with hubby and your Bull. While waiting for the main meal, take your Bull out to the car or restaurant bathroom area for a quick sex session (fucking or blowjob) then return to the table in time to enjoy your meal together. Make a point of kissing hubby on the lips when you return in order to confuse all the waiters and other guests.
♠ Take off your wedding ring, and have hubby take off his wedding ring, and lay them both on your stomach or chest, side by side…while your Bull is fucking you. Then have your Bull pull out and cum over both rings. Have hubby put both his and your ring back on full of your Bulls cum.
♠ Make a point of arranging that hubby drive you and your Bull around for half an hour while you and him make out in the back seat. For the more advanced hot-wives, at some point, make your husband drive you and your Bull to a motel while you and your Bull both make out a bit in the back seat. Then, once you’ve arrived, check –in with your Bull and make hubby sit in the car and wait until you’re done fucking your Bull in the motel, whenever that is. Alternatively, have hubby drive you to your Bulls house for sex. Then make him wait in your Bulls living room while you’re taken to the bedroom to get fucked.
♠ Have your Bull spend the evening at your place. Once going off to bed with hubby, arrange with your Bull that at 4am, he is permitted to slip into your marital bed (awakening both you and hubby), then crawl between your legs and fuck you right beside hubby. For the more advanced hot-wives, have hubby sleep in the guest room, and spend the evening in the marital bed with your Bull. When doing this, go visit hubby once an hour in the guestroom, so that he can touch, taste and smell the sex on your body. On your last visit, request that hubby wake you and your Bull up with breakfast standing ready.
♠ Make hubby wear women’s clothing, make-up and a wig and sit watching while your Bull fucks you. His task for the night is to be your Bulls personal maid, fetching drinks or snacks if necessary.
♠ Put your husband in chastity while your Bull is over, and have your Bull wear the key around his neck as he fucks you. For the more advanced hot-wives, have your Bull take the key back home with him, and hold onto it until the next time he comes over. Hubby stays in chastity until that next time, so it’s in hubby’s best interest that that next time comes sooner rather than later.
♠ Put your husband in chastity, tie him to a chair, and have him watch your Bull fuck you. Afterwards, with hubby still strapped to the chair, have your Bull cum all over hubby’s chastity cage and cock while you watch on smiling.
♠ Make hubby go outside and clean your Bulls car, inside and out, while your Bull fucks you in the marital bed. As an alternative, have hubby take your Bulls car to the carwash and pay to have it cleaned inside and out, while your Bull fucks you in the marital bed.
♠ Have your Bull bend you over his knee and beg him to spank your bare bottom red in front of hubby. (I’m a very naughty girl, please spank me daddy) Even if it hurts, let it continue for longer than you’re ‘comfortable’ with, before finally begging your Bull to fuck you to ease the stinging. (Please, I can’t take it anymore,…please fuck me, please, I’m begging you…) This is especially effective if hubby is not permitted or encouraged to spank your bottom.
♠ Get into a position where you are able to intimately kiss hubby, while your Bull fucks you. Keep the kissing going until your Bull cums inside of you. For maximum effect, when you hear your Bull is cumming, moan out loud along with him while still trying to kiss hubby.
♠ Have hubby put his face inches away from your pussy while your Bull fucks you, then tell him to masturbate while doing so. For the more advanced hot-wives, have your Bull cum in your pussy, or on your chest if you use condoms, and have hubby lick everything clean. An alternate idea is to have the Bull pull out and cum on hubby’s face or in his open mouth.
♠ When giving your Bull a blowjob, have hubby come sit right next to you. Alternate between intimately sucking your Bulls cock, and intimately French kissing hubby with some verbal teasing (Can you taste/smell his cock on my lips? Here, taste what a real mans cock tastes like, etc)
For the advanced hot-wife, after five minutes of doing the above, grab hubby by the hair, and force his mouth down gently onto your Bulls cock, ordering him to get your Bull nice and hard before he fucks you.
♠ Have hubby get your Bull hard by giving him a blowjob. Then have your Bull fuck hubby up the ass. For the more advanced hot-wives, keep hubby in chastity for one week prior to meeting up with your Bull. Remove the chastity cage when the time comes for your Bull to fuck hubby up the ass. If hubby ejaculates before your Bull is done, that would be great, as he has to endure the humiliation of having your Bull continue to fuck him after he’s cum. If he doesn’t, and your Bull cums first, then lock his cock back up in chastity without being permitted to cum. Do not release him from chastity until the next time he puts his ass up for your Bull.
♠ Take photos and video of hubby sucking other men’s cocks, and getting fucked up the ass by lots of other men, then have him put a copy of all the footage on a USB stick that you keep securely. Tease him by threatening to show his closest friends and family all the footage if he ever steps out of line.
♠ Consider getting a “Queen of Spades” tattoo (or something symbolizing your love of black cock) put somewhere on your body. This will ensure hubby is constantly reminded of his role as your cuckold, as well as attracting attention from any black Bulls you happen to come across…
♠ Convince hubby to get some sort of ‘cuckold’ or ‘owned by…’ tattoo put somewhere on his body. Even if it’s something symbolic, have him make it permanent on his body to remind him that once a cuckold, always a cuckold.
Wife tells story of Cock Craving Hubby
I am married to a wonderful man and we have a great sex life. . I learned early in our marriage that my husband is both kinky and submissive. I loved being dominant in bed and making him do all kinds of kinky adventures. I never realized just how submissive and kinky Michael really was until this month. Over the years of marriage, we loved experimenting with sex. We are both very open- minded and have tried many different kinks. We have evolved sexually to the point where Michael wears women’s panties regularly, and is very submissive to me. Michael loves oral sex, both giving and receiving. I keep myself shaved and he loves nothing better than to lick and suck my bald pussy. He adores my mouth on his hard cock. Let me tell you how Michael has progressed sexually and how I helped him to finally suck another man’s hard cock. Over the years, I realized that my husband loved being dominated by me and loved being made to do kinkier and kinkier things. It started with me playing with his ass while sucking him off and led me to buy a strap-on dildo and fuck his ass. Today, he loves being bent over and fucked in the ass by me. I love fucking my husband’s ass, especially when he’s wearing women’s panties.. Within the last year, I came upon a new kink that really turned on my husband and me during sex. Michael loves being forced to eat his own cum. It makes my pussy very wet watching my husband get hard as he licks up and swallows his own just spurted hot sperm. We have been very creative coming up with different ways to make him eat his cum. It started with creampies. I would tie up my husband to the bed, ride his cock until his shot his load into my shaved pussy and then I would crawl up and plant my wet, dripping freshly fucked pussy, full of cum on my husband’s hungry mouth. His cock would get hard again as he sucked his cum from my pussy. It has progressed to the point that every orgasm my husband has ends with him eating it. We love having him cum into a glass and drinking it. I have numerous pictures of him cumming in a glass and then drinking it. Another favorite is cumming on my big tits and licking it up. Michael loves being taunted about cum eating, so I usually tease him while working his load from his cock. As I work my tongue in his sensitive bottom, I tell him, “Are you hungry tonight, honey? You know when you cum, I’m going to catch it and make you eat it and swallow it!“ I can feel my husband quiver with lust as I tease him both verbally and with my tongue flicking in his ass. I plunge my tongue deep and hear Michael moan. I stroke again his twitching cock from behind. "Do you want it, baby…? Do you want to taste your cum?" I tease. "Oh please, Kim, please…” he begs. “Please what, honey, what do want? You need to beg me…if you want it…beg me, honey to feed you!" I taunt. This is what I love…my husband so submissive, so compliant to my demands. "Please, baby, make me cum….I need it..MMMMMMMM…!” he moans as I continue to tongue fuck his ass and stroke his hard cock. “Please what… tell me….what are you going to do…if I let you cum… what are you going to do for me? I want to hear you, Michael, beg me to feed it to you!” “Please, honey, please feed me…. Feed me my cum… make me eat it, OH! I want it so bad, make me eat my cum…. Please Kim make me swallow my own thick cum!” my husband begs. When he cums I catch it all in a wine glass and then I pour into his open mouth and tell him to swallow it all. For months, Michael has been eating his own cum and we’ve both been getting off` on it. About 3 weeks ago, we had rented a female domination video from our local video store. We occasionally did this and usually ended up getting off on the kinky videos. Almost always, we get new ideas of domination for me. These videos involve women dominating men and usually it involved men getting fucked by women with strap-ons, men getting spanked, and men eating their own cum. As you can imagine, we have fun watching and getting ideas and experimenting. This movie we watched involved a dominatrix dominating a man. She dressed the man as a woman, putting on make-up and then using strap-on on him. Michael and I both got off watching this, but many videos we had rented involved this type of action. What was unique about this video was toward the end, the dominatrix tied her man up, and had another man come into the scene. As Michael and I watched, she had her submissive male suck off the other man and then take his cock up his ass. To say that Michael was turned on would be an understatement. His cock was hard and dripping. It was then that I started thinking that maybe my husband was kinkier than I realized. Maybe my husband was bisexual. Just the thought of it made my pussy quiver. I started thinking I would really like to see Michael with another man. My thoughts were confirmed later that night. After we had both gone to bed that night, I awoke to find Michael not in bed. I heard noises downstairs. When I came quietly down the stairs into our basement, their was my husband lying across our leather couch, masturbating watching the section of the video showing the sub male sucking another man off. As I watched and my pussy dripped, my husband stroked off and came watching the cocksucking. He moaned and seemed to really enjoy watching as the submissive male, looked up into the other man’s face as he licked and sucked his cock. My pussy dripped with lust as I realized how sexy it was to see a man submit sexually to another man. How sexy to watch a cuffed, kneeling man being forced to suck another man’s cock; the dominatrix was holding her sub male’s head and taunting him as he sucked cock for the first time. It was then that I realized that I wanted to see my husband suck cock. I was turned on by it and I wanted to see it. That night, I decided that I would help my husband become a cocksucker. That weekend I decided to train my husband to be an expert cocksucker.. After a lovely dinner out, I had my husband kneeling in front of me wearing nothing but his little panties. I was wearing a nothing but my strap on. “Go on, touch it, you little slut, touch my cock, I know you want it." I taunted. Michael reached up and stroked my strap on.. I thrusted my hips forward and grabbed his head and rubbed my strap on against Michael’s face. "What do you want, honey, do you want my cock?" I taunt. "OH, yes, Kim, I want it!” Michael announces. I slap the latex cock against my husband’s face and lips and say, “If you want this cock, you need to beg for it, you want to be my cocksucker don’t you, honey, tell me!”Michael moans and says, “Please, Kim, please let me suck your beautiful cock, feed it to me mistress!" That caused my pussy to twitch hearing my husband beg to suck my cock and calling me mistress. "Are you going to suck it for me, like a little faggot? Are you going to be my cocksucker? Do you want to be a cocksucker for me, Michael?” I taunt. “Yes, I want to be your cocksucker, Kim, make me suck your cock!” Michael responds. I grabbed my husband’s head forced my latex cock into his mouth. I held his head and slowly fucked his face. As I watched my husband slide his lips on my strap on cock, my pussy twitched in lust. “You know, Michael, when a cocksucker sucks a cock, he should always swallow the load of cum. Are you going to swallow my cum, cocksucker?" I taunted. "MMMMMMMM…”Michael moaned. “Tell me, honey, are you a good cocksuker? Are you going to eat my load?” I asked again. Michael reluctantly pulled his mouth off my cock to answer. “Yes, mistress, I want to suck you off, AND I want to swallow your cum, give it to me, baby, make me your cocksucker, make me a slut!” he begged. I grabbed his head again and assaulted his mouth again. I spent the next 20 minutes face fucking my husband, calling him names like “cocksucker”, “slut”, “faggot”, and “homo”. He obviously was enjoying my cock and sucked it hungrily. I orgasmed at least twice as he sucked it. When I was sure he was really getting off sucking the strap-on, I decided it was time to feed him his cum. “Are you ready, cocksucker? I’m going to fill your mouth with my load! Get ready to swallow it all, faggot!" Michael continued sucking and slurping. "Stroke your cock, honey, while you suck my cock!” Michael stroked his cock and quickly was close to orgasm as I plunged in and out of his sucking mouth. I then handed him his empty wine glass and told him to fill it up. He quickly stroked off into the wine glass – shooting a large load of cum into the glass. He then handed the cum filled glass to me. I then pulled my cock from his mouth until just my strap on cockhead remained in his lips. Ib began pouring the glass of cum onto my strap on letting the thick sperm ooze down the latex shaft until it met my husband’s lips. I kept holding his head and demanded, “Swallow it bitch! Don’t you dare miss a drop! Eat it! Cocksucker, swallow it all When he had swallowed most of it, I pulled the dildo from his sucking lips. I then made him lick my cock clean and lick the glass clean. Over the next week, I taught Michael the finer points of cocksucking and swallowing cum using my strap-on. I couldn’t wait to see Michael being submissive to another man and sucking his cock and drinking another man’s semen. After continuing to practice cocksucking and assfucking with my husband, Michael finally admitted what I had known from that evening with the DVD. Michael admitted he was really getting off fantasizing about cocksucking. I knew it all along. But, when I asked him specifically if he would like to find another man to suck his cock, he hesitated. It was then that I realized that although my husband was truly bisexual, he was also submissive to me. Michael wanted me to set it up and make him cocksucker – just like in those DVD’s we loved. I then began using the internet to find a man to feed my husband his cock. Within a couple of weeks, I had found 2 very promising prospects. We began sending pictures back and forth. I sent photos of Michael wearing panties and eating his own cum. I also sent photos of Michael sucking my strap-on. Both men were in their 30’s, handsome, in great shape and dominant. They eagerly agreed that I would be in charge, but Michael would definitely be submissive to them. I told them both that my goal was to allow my bi-curious husband a chance to try cocksucking and then assfucking. I also explained that my husband was most turned on by sucking cock and eating cum. I finally decided to invite Bruce over because he had the largest cock. Bruce was to stop by this coming Friday night. He was to arrive exactly at 9 pm. Bruce had washboard abs, and a great looking 9 inch cock. I knew my bisexual husband was about to realize his dream of a mouthful of cock. My plan was to handcuff Michael and taunt him Friday evening with my strap-on while having him dressed up as a little slut. The night started as all our scenes do, I had Michael in his fishnet stockings, black satin panties, and completely hairless. Tonight, as I dolled up Michael, I promised him a surprise, so I added lipstick I had Michael lying on his back, hands tied over his head with me straddling his chest and slowly feeding him my strap-on. When I hear the doorbell ring, Bruce is right on time. I re-position Michael to be kneeling on the floor next to our bed with his hands cuffed behind his back. I let Bruce in and after sharing a glass of wine, I tell Bruce to wait just outside the bedroom door. I return to my kneeling husband. I continue to feed him my strap on cock, taunting him about cocksucking. Working him up so he’ll be very ready and eager for it. "You want a real cock, don’t you cocksucker! Tell me!”Michael pulls his wet mouth off the strap on. “Yes, please Kim!” he responds.“Yes please, what?” I demand. “Tell me, Michael, what do you want? What would you do if a real man wanted you to suck his very real hard cock? Would you suck it?” I taunt. “YESSSS!” he responds almost begging. “What about his cum, if you suck a cock, you’ll have to eat his cum?” “Please, Kim… that’s what I want!”Michael pleads. I am stroking Michael’s hair as he kneels between my legs, my strap on cock still wet with his saliva, inches from his lips. There is a knock on our bedroom door jam – the door is open. We both look up and see Bruce who is standing there with a wide grin on his face. I return his smile and say, “Come on in, Bruce!”Bruce’s muscular frame fills the doorway. “Surprise!” I say. Michael’s face is flushed with embarrassment. “Well, hello, Bruce, welcome to our home!” I say. Michael is kneeling, embarrassed, and nervous. “Michael, this is Bruce, Bruce, this is my husband Michael.” I continue. My husband looks up at the beautiful stranger. “Um, hi.” He says. Bruce comes over to me and give me a hug. He then looks down at my husband and says, “Hi sexy, you look very nice.” “Michael, you know why Bruce is here, don’t you?" I ask. ”Yes.“ he responds. "Honey, please tell Bruce and me what you want tonight!” I demand. “I want…I want you to make me…a …cocksucker!" he stammers."That’s right, honey, and if Bruce let’s you suck his cock, what must you do?” I taunt. Michael’s cock is still rock hard and throbbing in his panties. “I must…swallow, I will swallow his cum load.” He answers. “Oh, Michael, that’s is so sexy and sweet! Bruce, would you allow us the privilege of making my husband a cocksucker?” I request. “I would love to!" Bruce responds. Then as I step back and begin removing my strap on, Bruce begins undressing in front of my kneeling husband. I realize we are about to realize our deepest fantasy of turning my husband into a cocksucking faggot. My pussy drips thinking about it. Then, I almost orgasm, as Bruce strips down to his last piece of clothing. The muscular Bruce, completely clean shaven from head to toe, is standing in front of my submissive husband in nothing but a pair of sexy, French cut, black, satin women’s panties. His massive cock is not even erect and it fills the front of the panties to overflowing. As Bruce stands in front of my kneeling husband, I hear Michael let out a long deep breath and moan. I can tell he is very ready to suck his first cock. I watch as Michael is staring at Bruce’s bulge in his panties. He licks his lips. "Go on, honey, reach out and stroke him, stroke him through his silky panties!” I practically moan. My pussy begins quivering as I watch my husband reach out and touch another man for the first time. His hands almost look small compared to Bruce’s massive tool. Michael begins stroking up and down Bruce’s mighty satin covered shaft.“UUUUUUGGGGGGHHHH!” Bruce moans. “Oh, Michael, that feels so good!”Bruce moans. “Pull it out, baby, and start licking and kissing it!” I beg. I stare intently as Michael then pulls Bruce’s 9 inches of semi-erect cock from his panties. I feel myself go over the edge in orgasm as I watch Michael’s tongue flick out and begin licking the cockhead of another man. Michael needs no more encouragement. He is in his own world as he fulfills his fantasy of cocksucking. He is kissing and licking and swirling his tongue on Bruce’s now very erect cock like a pornstar. Bruce then takes control and grabs Michael by the back of the head and as I watch in lust, pushes his massive cock into Michael’s eager mouth. Michael is now kneeling beside our bed, Bruce’s massive hard on is half way plugged into my husband’s sucking lips. I hear Michael moan around the thickly veined shaft sliding between his lips. “Suck it, cocksucker, this is what you’ve always wanted, isn’t it, you little cocksucking slut, suck your boyfriend’s big cock for me, baby, eat it up!” I taunt. Michael is sucking, and swirling his tongue on Bruce’s cock and slowly bobbing his head back and forth. I am twisting my erect nipples and rubbing my soaking pussy. I want so badly to watch Bruce fill my husband’s mouth with his seed. Our bedroom is filled with wet sounds of sucking, slurping as men moaning as my husband sucks his first cock. After watching Michael suck cock for 15 minutes, Bruce is ready to explode.
“Are you ready, cocksucker? I’m gonna cum in your mouth!” Bruce announces. Michael stays focused on sucking and flicking his tongue on the big tool in his mouth. Bruce is holding Michael’s head and then…“UUUUUGGGGGHHHHH!!!” he begins cumming in my husband’s sucking mouth. “OH GOD!!!! I moan as I watch another man unload into my husband’s mouth. Bruce is cumming directly into the back of Michael’s mouth. I watch as my husband begins swallowing rapidly as his cheeks draw in - sucking hard on the spurting cock. Then Bruce grips the base of his cock and pulls out of Michael’s still sucking lips and begins drooling the last of his load onto my husband’s lips and chin. My husband’s mouth is completely coated in another man’s thick, gooey sperm. I orgasm again as I watch my husband lick his lips clean. Once his lips are free of sperm, Bruce pushes his still erect cock back into Michael’s mouth and tells him to lick it clean. Later that evening, I watched as Bruce pushed his hard cock into my husband’s ass. Bruce savagely fucked Michael’s ass as my husband begged for it. The night of gay sex ended for my husband as Bruce pulled out Michael’s ass and cum in his mouth again. My husband and I went to bed that night exhausted and satisfied. Michael had 2 loads of another man’s sperm in his belly and a new appetite for more.
The Thinking Woman’s Guide to a Fun and Exciting Male Chastity Lifestyle
The Thinking Woman’s Guide to a Fun and Exciting Male Chastity Lifestyle
Nine times out of ten, or maybe 99 times out of 100, it is the man who brings up the idea of male chastity and his fantasy of being denied.
The woman’s reaction will vary…. from complete disgust…. to obvious disinterest…. maybe mild curiosity…. all the way to emphatic embracement.
No wonder it can be nerve wracking for a guy to broach the subject of male chastity to his partner.
Her reaction will make or break his day!
Keep in mind that he would not have brought it up if it wasn’t important to him, so it’s a good idea for the woman to keep her wits (if she possibly can!) and carefully consider her initial reaction.
The smart approach is to calm down, collect her feelings and then suggest a time for a lengthy sit-down discussion.
A short ‘on-the-spot’ superficial little chat will NOT do the subject of male chastity proper justice!
Scheduling the discussion for later will buy her some time to not only reflect on his desires, but allow some time to do some preliminary research into male chastity, so she has a better idea as to what she’s dealing with.
During the sit-down discussion, it’s best to let him do most of the talking while she encourages him to bare his deepest and darkest secrets.
Listening and asking questions will give her some valuable insights into what is actually going on here.
Her final question to him should be….
WIIFM…. (what’s in it for ME!)
She should listen to his answer VERY carefully as it will help her out later.
Time For Some R&R
No, not rest and relaxation. If you’re a woman that chooses to embrace a male chastity lifestyle, there will be plenty of opportunity for that later on.
R&R in this case stands for ‘research’ and ‘reflection’.
This 2nd step to living a male chastity lifestyle is all about the woman doing her due diligence, rolling up her sexy silk sleeves, and doing some research as to what makes her man ‘tick’.
The more she can get inside his head and find out what he really wants and needs, the better this lifestyle will work for both them.
A little investigation into the mind of the man who craves being put into a chastity device and denied will reveal something very important to the woman.
She needs to realize that if she doesn’t have a mean streak in her now, it will serve her (and him) well to allow the cruel side of herself to blossom.
In order to deal with all of the bullshit that will soon be coming forth from him, it will be mandatory for her to be (at times), tough minded, mean and yes….
…. even somewhat of a bitch.
While her research will enlighten her to all of his male chastity fantasies, she will need to adopt a tough-minded attitude in order to effectively use those fantasies to her benefit.
Now for the 2nd part of the R&R…. reflection.
It’s time for her to reflect on his answers to WIIFM.
He undoubtedly gave her some excellent ideas as to what she will get out of the tedious task of training him to be locked away in male chastity.
But his ideas are just a start. What about HER deepest and darkest desires?
How will she benefit from this arrangement?
She should take some serious time to reflect on this as it will come in handy soon.
She Makes the Rules!
Now we’re getting to the fun part…. where she gets to make up the rules.
Okay…. You’ve had your sit-down with each other.
She’s finished with her research assignment.
Now it’s time to make up the rules as to how you’re going to play the male chastity game.
Although he’s got plenty of ideas of his own for ‘rules’ as to how he would like all of this to play out, in order for a male chastity lifestyle to work seamlessly over the long term….
…. there can really only be one rule-maker.
HER!
It’s just the best way to make this male chastity thing work.
In coming up with a set of rules, she will of course take into consideration his male chastity fantasies that he revealed to her during their initial discussion.
She will also factor in the information she uncovered during the research phase.
The reflection time she spent on sorting out her fantasies and desires will also play a major part in making up an appropriate set of rules.
But the first rule of male chastity and the most important is this one….
Every subsequent rule made by her is to be followed explicitly and directly by him with Absolutely no questions asked or allowed.
If he can’t deal with this over-riding theme of Female Supremacy, FemDom, FLR, D/s, Female Keyholder or whatever you prefer to call it, then she simply refuses to be involved any further and expects no further mention by him of male chastity.
It’s imperative that she holds ALL of the cards for this game to work.
There can be absolutely no exceptions, wiggle room, backsliding, second-guessing or topping from the bottom.
None of that bullshit!
This ONE rule firmly and succinctly sets the tone and direction for a fulfilling, fun and exciting male chastity experience.
From then on, she makes as many or as few rules as she wants. She can add, delete, change or modify any rule, anytime at her whim…. with no prior notice.
If she’s in a benevolent mood, she can even entertain suggestions from him as to the nature of the rules.
This predominant position puts her in a place of prodigious power.
And this level of power will pay off in BIG benefits.
Time For Lockdown Mode
There are many factors you should consider when looking to buy a male chastity device.
» Type: chastity cage or belt? » Material: plastic, leather or metal? » Security: used with a piercing or without » Custom made to order or off the shelf? » Price? » Manufacturer: reliable customer support
Let’s go over these considerations, one-by-one.
If this will be your first chastity device, it’s best to stick with a cage type. Chastity belts are very secure and look sexy but they do have their drawbacks.
They are usually custom made so will take longer to receive, plus they are on the expensive side. A chastity belt can also be harder to hide under certain types of clothing.
As far as material, leather looks sexy but is not very secure (it can be cut easily) and is not particularly hygienic.
Metal is definitely sexy looking and usually quite secure. But devices made from metal are obviously heavier, harder to get used to, and pose a problem with airport security.
Plastic is the way to go when first starting out.
Most chastity cages, whether made from metal or plastic are pretty damn secure! Although there are men who can finagle their way out of them, my experience has been that when properly fitted, they won’t be coming off without a key.
For added security, many modern chastity devices can be used with or without a penis piercing.
Custom made chastity cages are typically of the belt variety or made from metal. Like I mentioned above, they are usually expensive and can take quite a while to receive. Also, initial measurements are critical to achieve a good fit.
Off the shelf chastity devices come with different sizes of rings and spacers that will ensure a good fit. It is usually necessary to experiment with different combinations of spacers and rings to come up with a comfortable fitting device.
As far as price goes, an off the shelf, plastic chastity cage such as the very popular CB-6000, while not cheap, is well within the budget of most.
You can find cheaper, Chinese knock-offs on Amazon but the quality is NOT to be trusted…. they crack and break a lot.
On the other hand, custom chastity devices can get quite expensive and are best left for when your chastity lifestyle has been allowed to season a bit.
Male chastity is becoming more popular all the time which brings more designers and manufactures into the arena with new and innovative products.
These manufacturers can come and go like the wind so it’s always wise to pick a chastity device made by a company who has been around for awhile in case you need customer support or replacement parts and accessories.
There is a reason devices like the CB-6000 are so popular.
It’s affordable, secure, comfortable and hygienic!
You can find a CB-6000, right here.
Unfortunately, it’s not as simple as ordering a male chastity device, locking him up and embarking on a fun and exciting male chastity lifestyle.
There is a critical process that must be carefully navigated before the mayhem can begin.
This is what you’ve been waiting for? Your male chastity device has arrived and you cannot wait to get started.
Break Him in…. Slowly but Surely
Whoa boy (or girl). Take a deep breath, relax and read what I have to say on this matter.
Before wildly embarking on this male chastity adventure it’s necessary for an adjustment period….
…. a physical and emotional one. He needs to be slowly but surely, ‘broken in’.
First, take a little time and make sure you get a good fit, not too tight, not too loose, but just right.
Once that’s done, lock him up for 24 straight hours.
After a day, you’ll both have a good idea as to how things are fitting down there. A little initial discomfort along with some minor pinching is to be expected.
No big deal, at least not for the keyholder anyway.
Any major discomfort can now be dealt with at this time. A larger ring, a different sized spacer, shaving the genitals, applying lotion.
Now go for another 24 hours. If everything is hunky-dory (aside from the minor chafing, pinching, etc.) then it’s time to go for 72 continuous hours (Yes, 3 full DAYS!) in lock-down mode.
He will now be getting used to and/or moving beyond any minor discomfort.
He will soon find it more practical to sit down on the toilet and pee like a girl.
He will get used to the feeling of not being able to touch his dick.
He will begin to experience a yearning feeling deep inside his balls (as well as his mind) that comes with sexual denial.
The next phase is to remove the chastity cage, re-shave, re-lube, re-adjust rings and spacers and lock him back up for seven straight days!
This is the phase where any final physical adaptations will take place and more importantly, where the psychological process begins.
This is where the fantasy begins to morph into reality.
He now will be getting what he asked for and begins the transformation from a macho man to a compliant and devoted husband or boyfriend.
Seven continuous days of no whining, complaining or cumming marks the point when your relationship is ready to take on a new level of meaning.
It’s now time to make a very BIG decision!
Now that he’s adapted, both physically and mentally, to being locked up for seven straight days, he’s proven that he can ‘handle’ things.
The BIG Decision
In order to set the proper ‘tone’ of how the relationship is to eventually evolve, a mandatory (and lengthy) lock-up and denial period will have to be agreed upon and then strictly enforced.
This ‘conditioning phase’ is necessary so that both partners are fully committed to the idea that male chastity is no longer just a fantasy or a mere game, but a lifestyle decision to be taken seriously.
This ‘lock-down’ phase should be anywhere from a month (bare minimum), to a full year. Three months seems to be the ‘sweet spot’ for most couples.
This may sound like ‘harsh’ treatment but is absolutely necessary in order to instill the proper mindset in the male.
This lengthy stretch of total denial will also empower her to be tough-minded during some tough times.
She will also use this time to thoroughly train him to sexually please her without the use of his now caged-up cock.
He will become adept at transmuting his feelings of frustration and denial into the satisfaction of providing for her needs and desires.
During this training period, it’s wise to tease him un-mercifully in conjunction with verbal humiliation and an occasional whipping session, if she’s into that.
Nothing can approach the emotional intensity of her being licked to orgasm-after-orgasm by a locked-up and denied male right after he’s being worked over with a riding crop.
At the end of the ‘conditioning phase’, she will have elevated herself to a position of complete control and power while he….
…. will have learned to happily (for the most part) take on the role of a subservient sexual slave.
At the end of this period of lock-down and denial, his input into matters will no longer be necessary.
She may ask for his thoughts, but it’s now all about her! She makes all the rules and he simply answers, “yes Dear”.
His ‘Cumming Out’ Party
He is now perfectly primed and positioned for his first release in quite some time.
It’s been soooo long since he’s experienced an orgasm. Perhaps maybe a wet dream, but that doesn’t really count now, does it?
A firm benchmark has now been established within the relationship.
He’s proven (with her help) that he can endure a long period of sexual denial, all the while attending to her ever escalating sexual desires.
Denying a man while you are free to experience sexual ecstasy is an incredible turn-on and power rush for a woman.
She, on the other hand, has become capable of maintaining a disdainful demeanor to his ‘predicament’ all the while providing him with the necessary ‘guidance’ (which can sometimes be cruel and humiliating) without flinching.
But now that he has ‘paid his penance’ and she had become sufficiently empowered, it is time for her to decide on how his future orgasms will be ‘managed’.
The first area to consider is how often he should be allowed to cum.
Most women opt for a set time interval…. but it should never be more often than every two weeks!
Once per month is better. In my experience, once every two to three months is optimal.
Some keyholder’s choose to keep their men guessing; orgasms are allowed only at her whim, and he never knows when that might be.
That sounds quite cruel but some women get off on the look on a male’s face when she leads him to believe that the time is near, only to change her mind at the very last minute.
This tactic is suitable for women who prefer to emotionally ‘break’ a man down and render him as a mere shell of his former self.
For most women, this is ‘over-the-top’ and they prefer to let their man hold onto a portion of his self-dignity so that he can still function effectively out in the ‘real’ world.
And then there are women who prefer performance based or ‘earned’ orgasms.
An ejaculation can be conditional upon completing chores, performing tasks, maintaining proper behavior standards, losing weight, hers-to-his orgasm ratios (100:1), chastity games, etc.
One important thing to remember; the time between orgasms can always be extended because of ‘bad’ behavior on his part.
Once the woman has established a fair frequency for his orgasms, she must then decide on HOW he will be achieving these rare (to him) ejaculations.
This is where things get incredibly fun but quite spicy and dicey.
We Now Know the WHEN…. What About the HOW?
Now it’s time to consider how he will be cumming. This is the fun part, especially for her.
After going through the ‘conditioning phase’ he has had plenty of time away from regular intercourse. If she has a penchant for penetrative sex, a dildo or a strap-on (for him) solves that issue.
She may decide that his days of fucking are over. No big deal for her since she has the options above at her disposal.
Many women choose to deny the male the privilege of traditional intercourse as a matter of principle.
It is quite common for a woman holding the key to insist that any of his orgasms are of the humiliating variety.
I have a friend who handcuffs her husband’s hands behind his back and then just tells him to go for it.
He inevitably winds up humping the hardwood floor in the kitchen, then meekly licks up his mess afterwards.
I’ve heard of one woman who has her man hump one of her girlfriend’s legs while she hurls degrading insults his way.
Other women are particularly amused by, and have become masters of, the ruined orgasm.
One particularly cruel acquaintance of mine insists on performing an emasculating prostrate milking in front of a girlfriend, boyfriend or sometimes both.
I’ve witnessed a pro-domme at a party order a man to polish a pretty girl’s high heeled boot with his cum, followed by his tongue, while she whipped his ass from behind with a riding crop.
My favorite? Instructing him to cum on her ass followed by a thorough tongue clean up. Ummmm.
It can also be exciting to incorporate some sort of ‘dice’ or ‘spin-the-wheel’ type of game, leaving the matter of ‘if he gets to cum’ and the manner in which he does it, up to pure chance.
You’re really only limited by your kinky and perverse imagination.
Now that you’ve both settled in and become comfortable with your personalized version of a male chastity lifestyle, it’s time to reflect on an extremely important matter.
Once everything has been set-up properly within a male chastity lifestyle, everything should now be smooth sailing.
Not So Fast
The reality of enforced male chastity typically does not measure up to the fantasy he once had about it.
The fantasy was much more erotic than the stark reality of constant denial and severely limited orgasms.
Now that he’s securely locked up, with no release on the horizon, second thoughts on this course of events begin to haunt him.
But it’s a completely different story for her!
The reality of male chastity for the woman is much more powerful and fulfilling than the initial fantasy ever was.
At first, it was about his fantasy. Now it’s all about her reality.
Now that she holds the key to his manhood and has the situation well under control, she can’t understand why she was ever hesitant to begin this in the first place.
Sure, she has had to initially expend some major time, energy and effort with all of the rule setting, conditioning, attention to detail, discipline and compliance issues.
To be honest, this is no small feat and is NOT for a weak willed woman!
But she will have emerged from the back-end of this process with superior self-confidence and complete sexual liberation.
He, on the other hand, has relinquished his ability to orgasm, something so importantly powerful that he can’t help but wonder if he has made the right choice.
He will, at some point, inevitably began to start ‘missing’ his frequent orgasms, the ones he had become so addicted to for most of his adult life.
If she acquiesces to this inherent weakness that resides within most all males, the lifestyle that they have expended so much effort to build, will began to fold like a cheap lawn chair.
When the subject rears it’s ugly head, she will need to firmly put her high heeled foot down and say NO!
There can be no going back. She is living the perfect, pampered life that she deserves while he, for maybe the first time in his life, has found some real peace, even though it’s of the frustrating variety.
If he continues to complain and have regrets about his situation (the one, by the way, he so desperately lobbied for) she has several options, including but not limited to….
» institute a policy of permanent orgasm denial » increase his chore/work load by 50% » a severe cock caning or whipping session » make an appointment to have his penis pierced » discontinuance of all male chastity activities » threaten to leave the relationship
Any unreasonable demands on his part should be firmly countered with strict and swift consequences.
It’s really only matter of time when she will need to draw a bold line in the sand and not put up with any questioning of her authority.
Consider this to be an honest and fair representation of possible ‘fall-out’ issues when embarking on a male chastity lifestyle.
Male Chastity is NOT For Every Couple
To successfully incorporate it within a relationship, both partners will need to have the courage to move beyond traditional sexual and romantic roles that are played out by most couples.
Social conditioning, as it pertains to relationships, is powerful stuff and can lead to feelings of guilt, fear and inadequacy where none should ever exist.
Both men and women instinctively know who they are at a ‘gut’ level. Being in tune with that inner knowledge and living your life exactly how you want, results in true happiness and freedom.
If you’re a guy who is sick and tired of being in control all of the time, then maybe it’s time to let go.
If you truly adore a woman and enjoy treating her like a Princess, elevating her pleasure above yours, then go for it.
If you’re a woman who would like to see how it feels to ‘turn the tables’ and be the one who wields the power in a relationship, why not give male chastity a try.
Freeing yourself from ALL household duties (or just the ones you dislike) while experiencing exquisite sexual ecstasy, precisely the way you want it, when you want it, cannot be adequately expressed in words.
A man that can provide all of that for her, and then some, will evoke emotions that will reverberate all the way down to his inner core.
Training a male to accept his new life of being denied is a fun, frustrating (at times), and extremely rewarding endeavor. You will need to get a chastity device early on in the training process. You can find one right here.
“Mistress is amused, and feels a sense of satisfaction. She has taken possession of your cock, balls, and sperm! You will never touch your pathetic penis again! Welcome to a female led relationship!”
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Yes Mistress
I’ll let you out when they’re good and blue!
Thats why I married her ! 😎