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Really gotta stop this whole thing of telling people that you always have and always will be there for them. Cause seriously “I’m sorry” is not support, it isn’t understanding. It is a half-hearted attempt at being decent. Stop accepting sorry’s. Start accepting actions.

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“It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you’ve known forever don’t see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.”

— Nicholas Sparks

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“How quietly we endure all that falls upon us.”

— Khaled Hosseini, A Thousand Splendid Suns (via books-n-quotes)

I deal with about between 4-10 grumpy people everyday. I try extremely hard to not allow myself to get to that point, I try to separate my own moods from everyone else’s. But some days it gets really fucking hard. And to be quite frank - fucking unfair. I put up with bad moods and attitudes on the daily but the minute I feel my own mood being negatively affected it gets disregarded. As though I’m not allowed to get grumpy too. Sometimes I think it’s me that makes them grumpy but then I realized that negative people leech onto light workers for a reason. Other times I just think “What the fuck?”

Bob Marley once said -

"You may not be her first, her last or her only, she loved before you and can love again, but if she loves you now,

what else matters?

She is not perfect, neither are you, and you two will never be perfect. But if she can make you laugh at least once, it makes you think twice, if she admits to being human and making mistakes, do not let her go and give her the best of you. She is not going to recite poetry, she is not thinking about you at all times, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you could break, her heart ... Do not hurt her, do not change her, and do not expect more than she can give you. Do not analyze. Smile when it makes you happy, scream when it makes you angry and remove it when it is not. Love with your whole being when you receive love. Because there are no perfect girls, but there will always be a girl who is perfect for you ... "

As an energy source, human beings emanate a vibration, all the time. What (frequency)that vibration is, is highly dependent on our predominant thoughts, patterns, feelings and mindset in any given moment. Happy thoughts, fun, laughter, mind stimulating activities all raise your vibration and extremely positively at that. Negativity, bad moods, grumpiness, anger- these all lower your vibration significantly. When you vibrate a lower frequency you put your entire being at risk of dis-ease. Mind, body, soul are all at risk. We are very unconscious of the fact that our moods affect our vibration and how our vibration effects that of another being; human, animal, plant and even your home. If you’re grumpy all the time, guaranteed you’re gonna have a rather grumpy looking plant, or a very gloomy & unwelcoming vibe in your home. We tend to perceive negative energy as something other people have, totally unaware that it is so engrained in ourselves personally, that is goes unnoticed. Energy is contagious. Remember how you treated the people you love the last time you were grumpy, upset or in a bad mood. Yes, it was your bad mood, not theirs. But you effect them too. You’re now possibly the reason their mood gets dampened too. Again, energy is contagious. Take responsibility for the vibration you give off, it is not just about you anymore & quite frankly, selfish if you expect people to just ‘deal’ with you and your moods. - Life Source

If you’re living a “miserable” life, how many of the following things do you do on the daily?

- Blame your problems on everyone & anything else to avoid facing your own choices.

- Complain, complain, complain. Come rain or sunshine, nothing is ever good enough.

- Focus on what you don’t have instead of what you do.

- Don’t like seeing others happy because you are in fact miserable.

- Try and sabotage others sanity by creating unnecessary chaos

-Lie so often that you actually start believing your distorted version of reality. You forget what you’ve told each person, it’s a lot for the brain to keep up with.

-You forget to show gratitude.

If you relate to any of these, you are human. If you relate to a few of them, you are still human. If you relate to all of them, well, you have a lot of work to do on yourself however... you are still HUMAN. It is never too late to try and change your ways because if not now- then when?

The world is full of KIND people, if you cannot FIND one, BE one.

I cannot be held responsible for what my face does when you speak.

Everything we do in life is an exchange of energy. From being the ear to someone else’s problems to being the advice behind their next move. When we think, act, feel, interact- we exchange energy. That is why I believe that you show up for the people that show up for you. Energy exchange should be mutual, energy disregards any double standards.

Life Source

Every coin has two sides, just like most humans have two faces. The ones who claim they love you are usually the ones no different than shadows - around during your brightest moments but disappear during your darkest.

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You’ve had everything you’ve been looking for the entire time. It is in your own heart, your own smile, your own trust, your own soul. Everything you’re looking for comes from within

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Trust no soul but your own soul.

“I’m starting again, clean and sober”

The words that followed a half hearted attempt to support your child during their sport.

“I’m starting again clean and sober”

The words that followed you leaving your 5 y/o daughter at the movies only for her to find you at the pub next door.

“I’m starting again, clean and sober”

The words that followed your every wrong move.

“I’m starting again, clean and sober”

The words that after the first 12 years of hearing them, became empty.

When disappointment becomes the foundation upon which a relationship is first established - you learn the difference between faith and blindly waiting. Sometimes it’s better to have no expectations at all because although something may be disappointing, it does not have to be unexpected.

ask no questions and you’ll get no lies

You don’t always have to show up for the ones that don’t always show up for you. Don’t spend your life doing what makes others happy and comfortable if your own happiness and comfort is at risk of being impure.

Life Source

Appreciate the ones that check in on you. Appreciate the ones that accept who are but help you with who you are becoming. Appreciate the ones who make you feel at home, no matter where you may be. Appreciate the ones that listen, the ones who offer their help, the ones that love unconditionally. Get rid of the ones who only reach out to you when it is convenient for them.

Justimaginehowifeel

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“All negativity is caused by an accumulation of psychological time and denial of the present. Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry—all forms of fear—are caused by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence.”

— Eckhart Tolle

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“I can bear any pain as long as it has meaning.”

— Haruki Murakami

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