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I’ve been seeing a bunch of tiktoks and textposts going around saying stuff like, “you really think you could pull oikawa?” or “if your fave is suna, I hope you realize he’s probably out of your league.”

first of all, what a terrible vibe to be putting out into the universe. don’t say crap like that! people are already always so concerned over physical appearance; don’t make them insecure about liking a certain “hot” character.

second, it’s incorrect. that’s not how love works. when you fall in love with someone, everything about them starts to look beautiful to you, even things you may not have necessarily been attracted to before. I remember my first boyfriend— he was a kid I’d known for a long time, maybe since I was around 10 years old, and I’d never found him at all attractive until one day, for some reason or other, things just clicked. his crooked nose became endearing to me, his perpetually messy hair was suddenly cute rather than annoying.

and that’s how love and attraction works. yeah, there are people that the general population considers more attractive than others, but physical appearance is not a factor in love. it’s a factor in attraction. more often than not, though, the physical attraction comes second, after the emotional spark. and the emotional spark is dependent on personality, situation, and a little bit of luck. you can’t help who you fall in love with, oftentimes regardless of how they look.

so what that all goes to say is please don’t worry about being pretty enough for your fictional crush. oikawa would not write you off for your physical insecurities. bakugo would not laugh in your face. that’s just not how it works. if you’re going to worry about anything, worry about making yourself beautiful from the inside out, because that’s what people really notice. being physically hot won’t do you any favors if you’re not kind, intelligent, and enjoyable to be around. not to be trite, but that sort of true beauty truly overrides any power physical attributes may hold. so please— don’t concern yourself with things outside of your control. it’s okay. they would like you.