having maomao being like "Well I am ready to fuck and most importantly NOT GET PREGNANT" to such a degree that Jinshi is actually so overwhelmed by not having taken it seriously enough that he turns her down and then she has to spent the next days being like. that was considered. I understand why he did it. HOWEVER I AM STILL MIFFED THAT I WAS GOING TO DO SUCH A GOOD JOB AT IT AND HE SAID NO... idk, it's such a good writing choice. like she was the active party but it still wasn't fully her choice and that has to be factored in when what jinshi wants is her full, complete, sincere consent. but also she was SO ready to do it.
I do hope we keep the same energy for when jinmao inevitably actually fuck.

















