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[kerria-old]

THIS TUMBLR IS NOW AN ARCHIVE. @kerriadango is my new one.

[ari-kanon]

by Laura

[valtsv]

me trying not to make impulse purchases when i'm sad

[jetstream-mat]

[kimmy-arts]

⭐️ 90s starter pack ⭐️

If you could only pick one item which would you choose?

[timdrakeothy-deactivated2022031]

hot take: ‘chivalry’ is fine as long as it’s adapted to 21st century values. if you are a male, you SHOULD be aware that your female friends face certain issues that you as a male dont. acting on that awareness in a way that keeps your female friends safe, isn’t a bad thing.

like… opening doors isn’t rly chivalrous when it’s just a thing you ought to do for everyone. but real 21st century chivalry might be, like, standing between your female friend and the guy that’s trying to get her drunk, or offering to walk her home when it’s late.

if the ‘chivalry’ inconveniences everyone involved and you’re just doing it for your over-inflated male ego — ie, “no you’re the girl here, you HAVE to let me hold this door for you and do all these things for you even when you can do it yourself and im just slowing you down” — then it’s just outdated misogyny.

[wanderingquill]

Chivalry was literally designed to make nobles aware of their power and influence so they don’t unintentionally harm people when trying to do their job of leading and protecting people. Modern chivalry should carry on that sentiment of men and white people becoming aware of their own power of privilege and influence to help and protect the lives of their peers.

*Not to inflate their egos, but because it’s the good thing to do and makes the world a better place to be.

[elfwreck]

Chivalry, at its core, involves being helpful to people who don’t have your advantages. 

It involved generosity and protecting those weaker than oneself: including opening doors when doors were made of badly fit heavy wood and often got stuck,and women, especially undernourished exhausted-from-childcare women, had a harder time opening them. It involved not lying, and following through on your promises. (A guy who is consistently late with the accounting reports, which delays the whole team, is not dedicated to chivalry, no matter how polite he is on a date.) 

Chivalry is a code of ethics that involves dedicating one’s strength and skills in service to others; it’s not based on gender roles. 

[galactic-polywag]

Chivalry is a code of ethics that involves dedicating one’s strength and skills in service to others; it’s not based on gender roles.

[xtigerwoman]

i’m a simple gal… i see a farming, harvesting and talking to neighbors game and i completely lose it

[swordsdance-deactivated20191029]

that so many people think women accuse men of rape because they regret having consensual sex after the fact just shows me that they really have no idea how complicated & traumatizing sexual assault is for women & no desire to even begin to use their brains. like has anyone ever stopped to consider that many women who “regret” their sexual encounters come to feel that way because they realized afterwards that they were in some way coerced or pressured into sex in a way that wasn’t immediately identified as sexual assault because women are taught that sexually aggressive behavior is to be expected from men & these women are not in fact just airheaded vindictive bitches

[persephonehades0615]

Persephone: [trips on air]

Hades: Haha babe, you’re so clumsy.

[later, when Persephone’s not around]

Hades, punching the air: Who do you think you are, who THE FUCK DO YOU THINK-

[insanity-keeps-things-fun]

Honestly you could switch the characters around and it’d still work

[rexuality]

Take a sip, babes

Part 2 | Redbubble | Society6

[rexuality]

Part 2 of this post, all requested!

Adding all designs to my redbubble and society6, just need time to get them up there @_@

[kerria-old]

Hi I’m alive and I made a Viera princess. Suuuuper hyped for Shadowbringers!!! (My main will remain a lala though)

[toastbutteregg]

[lickoutyourbrains]

[nolookfirmino-deactivated201904]

do men have resting bitch faces as well or do they not have negative characteristics ascribed to them for putting on a neutral rather than a deliriously happy facial expression

[12yearsaking-deactivated2015081]

Yes, Black men in majority white spaces do. If I don’t smile every single second of the day my coworkers become in intimidated and start asking me what’s wrong, telling me to smile, make jokes about how I’m trying to be a thug/act hard, why am I angry, etc. And it’s not just white men at my job God FORBID I my large Black ass makes a white girl feel threaten because I’m sitting down with a neutral expression.

I’m not trying to take this post away from women and make it about Black men but I want to point out that wether it’s patriarchy or white supremacy; those who feel as if they have power over you HATE to see you not smile. They are so used to people like you smiling to gain their approval that when you don’t there’s a cognitive dissonance that makes them extremely uncomfortable.

That’s why “angry Black women” is a thing. They have to put on a smile for everyone (yes even feminist white women) or we all get uncomfortable.

[naamahdarling]

This is such an amazing response.

[opzolder69]

[acornfriend]

❤️