no, nico di angelo would not be a jobless, uneducated housewife. no, he wouldnt reduce himself so his only purpose is to stay home while will works. no, that is not in character (it is literally the opposite)
finding out ppl genuinely keep talking about him like that even as a joke is insane. nico di angelo who went to find the doors of death on his own. nico di angelo who wanted to sacrifice his own soul to bring his sister back. nico di angelo who was willing to disappear into the shadows to save camp (a place that hadn’t yet accepted him). nico di angelo who went to tartarus to save Bob. nico di angelo who insisted on bringing people on mini non-official quests for the greater good, even going alone. nico di angelo who in the court of the dead admits he can’t sit still without adventure. who cant settle in peace without making a change, helping people.
also a side tangent: i dont think solangelo would settle into mortal life. nico especially is too disconnected and he’s finally turned camp into a home. i think the only thing camp half blood can learn from camp jupiter is new rome and i think that now campers are living longer, they could find a way for some to settle at camp for a longer time rather than always ‘graduating’ camp. plus, nico’s being set up to test lots of therapy methods etc etc for other campers so i think he could have a big role in campers’ mental health
many people say will would be that, but i think thats funny knowing will explicitly stated thats not his field. hes a medic, not a mental health specialist. thats why he sent nico to mr D. to begin with
him being a counselor half the time and the rest of the time he’s doing some bullshit like helping out on random quests, maybe even the hunters bc i feel like knowing thalia and reyna helps, finding random demigods, training demigods, etc. etc.
like he’s just constantly going on side quests but at some point knows his limits and also knows to relax with his boyfriend or alone when he needs to ykwim