Hey, I'm about 80% sure I haven't answered to you yet.
I looked up itcharic again (now with proper spelling), and I can't find much information on it besides the AI overview that I wish I could turn off, which told me it was a gender about it/its the first time and about itches the second, so... no info at all.
Anyways, thought I think I might adopt the term, I don't think it describes me. I feel like it clumps all the genders first and then describes them all at once. I see my gender more like taking each identity one by one, inspecting them, and then deciding it's not for me for one reason or another (I don't know if I'm making sense at all, but I see itcharic as non-pangender, while my gender is more like non-man+non-woman+non-enby+non-agender....)
Either way, thanks so much for the help! I wouldn't even know how to start looking this up or what to put in the search bar lol
Nppp I was happy to help!!! And if I see a different term that might help I'll shoot u an ask!
Edit: looked at your blog and saw that asks are turned off so if I find something I'll tag u on my main blog @merthaevelynk
Hey, it's me, the one who was asking you if you could help me find my gender (I decided to get out of anon bc who cares anyways).
I already knew about gendervoid and had already ruled it out. I considered it for a while, but my gender isn't hollow. As I said before, there is definitely something there but I don't know what.
So I looked up itaric. I love the word, but hadn't heard the term before, so I was hoping this one would click... but I can't find it anywhere. Google called it TARIC (something about computers), Italian pride, trixic and it/its neopronouns. Also this, like wtf:
Soo... could you please share your source or explain it a bit more in detail? I don't have Pinterest but I think I can open links to there.
Thanks for everythihg btw, I was so lost
Lmao Google is so funny
And nppp I love to help!
Here is what I remember from Pinterest
This is another post Abt it
And like that's all I could find ;-;
The definition of it is an I quote "where you gender is everything and nothing at the same time"
Hope this helppssss
Images of from my sources below cut!
For some weird reason it isn't telling me the account name for both of these so this is all I got sorrey
Kinda the opposite of what you do here (feel free to ignore this), but I was wondering if you could help me find a word for my gender?
For context, I can't find any gender that feels like me, so maybe you could help with research (I don't know where to look this up) or to bring attention to this so maybe a coining blog can create it (again, I can't find any coining blog that seems to accept requests)
The idea of this gender is that I partially relate to every gender, enough to question being it but not enough to fully feel like that's who I am (every gender but no but yes). I don't feel like a man, a woman, a non-binary person, an agender individual (that's the closest I got to what I feel, but I can't find any kind of agender that perfectly fits). I've started going by no pronouns/mirror pronouns, because I don't associate myself to any kind of pronouns, not even any/all.
I personally think of it as "I lost my gender. That doesn't mean it doesn't exist, or that it has no defined shape. It is a very solid thing, I just can't figure out where it is"
If someone is going to coin this term, I would like to request the colors are stereotypical gendered colors twisted beyong recognition (okay, I'm just thinking of turning baby pink into scarlet red, but I can picture the idea)
Sorry, I talk a lot. Again, feel free to just ignore this, I know it's weird and not what you do in this blog, but I couldn't find anywhere else to put this
NO WAY IM HONOURED and am going to help you! I alr have something for you!
If u wanna stay anon maybe get an anon tag cuz we might be at this for a while lol/nf
I found inspiration for this blog and most of its pride flags on Pinterest so this is where im getting these from
Okay so I first thought of Itaric which means your gender is everything but nothing at the same time
Another one I thought of was gendervoid which is an absence and/or blank space and/or void where gender could be!
Plz tell me if one of these are it or not I'll be doing more research for you cuz gender crisises suck ;-;
When someone is attracted to people who are feminine in nature. Which means that could be women, feminine aligned / feminine looking people no matter gender
Percipigender is a mutogender in which one does not identify as any gender but rather their gender only exists in the perception of others. In this sense, percipigender individuals may be any quantity of any genders when in the presence of others, however they will not identify as any one of them and may not be aware of their current gender(s).
Percipigender can be used as an umbrella term or as a specific gender.
Percipigender is similar to interpretarian, however percipigender only exists in the perception of others, whereas interpretarian identifies as one's own gender(s) as well as the perceived gender(s).
Okay thats news to me but tysmmm for like finding it
Okay friendly reminder everyone plz look at the intro post pinned for how to give me an ask for the daily flag tyyyy
Uhhhh I found like zero info Abt this sorry so I'ma do something I've been waiting to do which is
July [Day 47]: Berrisexual
When someone likes all genders but female /feminine people and/or nonbinary/androgynous people but has rare/very little attraction to masculine people.
It may have been a typo in the original post, but I actually like the idea of a flag for this, so heres what ive made!
Obligender
Obligender is a genderqueer identity for individuals who follow the gender roles, presentation, expectations, or social norms typically associated with their assigned gender at birth (AGAB). An obligender person may not personally identify with the gender label commonly associated with their AGAB, yet they continue to adopt its roles, mannerisms, clothing styles, or social position.
As a genderqueer identity, Obligender describes a relationship with gender that differs from conventional assumptions about identity and expression. The label acknowledges that a person's internal understanding of their gender does not always align with the roles they perform or the way they move through society. An obligender individual may outwardly follow the expectations of their AGAB while experiencing their gender in a way that falls outside those traditional categories.
The Obligender flag reflects this experience. The horizontal stripes represent established gender roles and expectations, while the vertical sage-green stripe represents the individual moving through those structures. Rather than being defined solely by those roles, the obligender person exists as a distinct identity that intersects with and navigates them.
Holy my goodness sakes :0 a coined flag! (Is that what its called??)
Hey, I was the one that asked about the fraysexual flag, and I just want to clarify that I was fully thinking about the first definition, but I didn't know how to explain it and the wording ended up looking like lithosexual (they're pretty similar now that I think about it). But it's fine, I knew about lithosexuality but I have trouble remembering it when I think about a-spec identities, so this helped me. Thanks for answering my ask! 💙💚🤍🖤/❤️🧡💛🤍🖤
(Btw you don'thave to answer this in your blog, I get that it would mess the continuity to have some random ask in the middle of the flags, it's fine if you just read it and don't answer!)
Next thing you know ima be having anon tags lol
It was no problem at all! English is like so dumb so I fully get why you cant phrase things right cuz either can I T^T lol
And nppp I love socialising!
Also you should see the weirder ask that I got abt sonic this isnt screwing up the flow at all lol
I'm not this but I found it while researching the a-spec, so... frayromantic/fraysexual?
(From what I remember it was when you feel romantic and/or sexual attraction as long as it's not reciprocated, as soon as the other person likes you back you lose said attraction)
Seeeee you're getting mixed up between two different meaning! But that okay!!
July [Day 45]: Fraysexual
(and Lithosexual)
Fraysexual is when you like someone you don't know, a stranger basically and then when you do get to know them you don't like them anymore!
The meaning that you are thinking about is Lithosexual! (I'm questioning this actually!)
It's when you like someone and don't care/want the feelings to felt back and/or then they do like you back you lose feelings for them
Yes i have flags. Its just that NOBODY FREAKING KNOWS WHAT ONE IS!!! So here we are ☺️
Arojump is when you are usually alloromantic (feel romantic attraction) but have periods of being aromantic. I am personally this ✨️
Not to be confused with arospike which is where you're usually aromantic but have periods of being alloromantic. My friend is this but the ace version.
I KNOW!!!! (Me being obsessed with the aro and ace spec lmao ik the whole spec)
A xenogender for those (like myself) who relate to fungus and mushrooms. Use mushroom related neopronouns. In my case it's fungi/fungal/fungals/fungself