when allos interpret friendships as romantic/sexual that's perfectly fine but when I interpret songs about romance/sex as actually platonic im weird for that???
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when allos interpret friendships as romantic/sexual that's perfectly fine but when I interpret songs about romance/sex as actually platonic im weird for that???
aroace culture is not imagining characters kissing you, thats gross. But imagining them..kiss other people
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i love being aegoaroace because on one hand i dont have to be in a romantic/sexual relationship at all (not that im missing out on much tbh), but on the other hand i also get to enjoy romance and shipping and especially gooning. y'all got the short end of the stick tbh im winning in life
Realizing I’m aegoaro/aegoace makes a lot more sense now bc it’s like
Me looking at The Fictional Guys: Omg they are LOOKINF at each other and they got that look and they got those EYES and they are all entangled AUGH THEMMM<33 They are so intertwined and I need to know EVRYTHING about their love life and sex life.
Meanwhile: ough why are they looking at me like that. Why do they keep touching me? Please leave me alone I cannot handle this and quite frankly don’t want to. Why do you give so much of a shit about that other persons love life?? Like why do you care who they are fucking and when and how?? What if it was just their own business.
is it just me or...
Didn't really know what to draw so here
could you perhaps do vicarious attraction ones? and aegoromantic and aegosexual as well if that isn't too much of the bother? thx
Vicarious attraction, Aegoromantic & Aegosexual
by me @blinksbigglyatyou
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It's interesting how I'm both aegoromantic and aegosexual but not at the same time.
I can engage with fluffy romantic stories and vicariously feel all that sappy love and snuggling and kissing and never wanting to part each other, but none of the lustful passion of wanting anything farther comes through.
I can engage with steamy smut and vicariously feel the hot aching and magnetic pull of wanting touch and friction and pleasure. But none of that sappy "I want to love and marry you" comes through.
It's like my aroace brain can only filter in romantic or sexual descriptions one at time.