when allos interpret friendships as romantic/sexual that's perfectly fine but when I interpret songs about romance/sex as actually platonic im weird for that???
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when allos interpret friendships as romantic/sexual that's perfectly fine but when I interpret songs about romance/sex as actually platonic im weird for that???
aroace culture is not imagining characters kissing you, thats gross. But imagining them..kiss other people
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i love being aegoaroace because on one hand i dont have to be in a romantic/sexual relationship at all (not that im missing out on much tbh), but on the other hand i also get to enjoy romance and shipping and especially gooning. y'all got the short end of the stick tbh im winning in life
Realizing I’m aegoaro/aegoace makes a lot more sense now bc it’s like
Me looking at The Fictional Guys: Omg they are LOOKINF at each other and they got that look and they got those EYES and they are all entangled AUGH THEMMM<33 They are so intertwined and I need to know EVRYTHING about their love life and sex life.
Meanwhile: ough why are they looking at me like that. Why do they keep touching me? Please leave me alone I cannot handle this and quite frankly don’t want to. Why do you give so much of a shit about that other persons love life?? Like why do you care who they are fucking and when and how?? What if it was just their own business.
is it just me or...
Didn't really know what to draw so here
could you perhaps do vicarious attraction ones? and aegoromantic and aegosexual as well if that isn't too much of the bother? thx
Vicarious attraction, Aegoromantic & Aegosexual
by me @blinksbigglyatyou
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Aspec Glossary: Aego
What is the Aspec Glossary?
Aego- (sometimes also called autochoris-) is a microlabel prefix that indicates that the person in question experiences attraction of that type only when they themselves are not involved. "A-" meaning without, and "ego-" meaning the self. It indicates a sort of disconnect between the individual and that type of attraction. Aegos may experience attraction only in a third-person sense, such as in fiction, but they typically will not insert themselves into the places of the characters.
Aegoromantics (autochorisromantics) may enjoy romantic content, but only when they themselves are not involved (for example, reading a romance fic that occurs between two characters, but avoiding any romantic fics with y/n or reader-insert characters). They may have romantic fantasies without wanting to actually experience them.
Aegosexuals (autochorissexuals) may enjoy sexual content, but only when they themselves are not involved (for example, reading a smut fic that occurs between two characters, but avoiding any smut fics with y/n or reader-insert characters). They may have sexual fantasies without wanting to actually experience them. Aegosexuals may prefer masturbation to actually having sex.
Aegoroses (autochorisroses) or aego aroaces (autochoris aroaces) are both aegoromantic and aegosexual.
Aegoplatonics (autochorisplatonics) may enjoy platonic content, but only when they themselves are not involved (for example, reading a friendship fic that occurs between two characters, but avoiding any such fics with y/n or reader-insert characters). They may have platonic fantasies without wanting to actually experience them.
Someone can also be aegofamilial, aegosensual, etc.