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A woman who prefers her partner not to invest time or attention into other women on social media or other forms of communication is not insecure. They don't want their partner entertaining that sh*t. She just wants to be respected.

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And sometimes, you can’t just agree to forever with someone that means the utter world to you; when you know that you’re not the only one they love. You deserve someone who wants to love you unconditionally and not just love you today or tomorrow. It’s someone who wants to cherish the little moments and get down on one knee and asks you to marry them; to choose forever. But if your partner isn’t willing to fully commit to you and both of your future, would you still want to pursue forever with them? After knowing that they will always seek attention from other men or women to feed their ego or physically and or emotionally cheat on you - how can you find the strength in your heart to forgive them and say “I do” at the alter?

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If only his eyes saw deep through her soul instead of her body that he calls beautiful, Then, his eyes would open big and wide and see how broken her soul is - trying to be perfect and feel that she’s more than enough to be loved unconditionally by him. Furthermore, to be the only woman he wants to spend forever with and call home.

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Don't leave something good for something better because once you realize that you had the best, the best has f0und better. The future can take the best things that we once had all away from you anytime; leaving you wishing you never left them. So appreciate what you have and who you have - before it's too late.

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And forgiveness is for yourself and yourself only. When the weight of burden and pain feels too heavy on your shoulders, unburden yourself. Forgive all the mess and drama that you carried around you from broken relationships. Forgive yourself the pain that's tearing your heart in multiple directions. Let yourself heal from the pain and learn to love yourself. Forgive yourself for any harsh words you may have said to others. More importantly, forgive yourself so that you can sleep peacefully at night - knowing that you won't have pain creeping over you.

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And when your depression creeps down your spine - the world turned on you, I was there. And when you felt like no one liked you or you were having a rough day, I was there to listen to you vent. And those nights where nothing but silence surrounds you when you're laying in bed - or that heartbreak that broke you, remember that I was there ready to give myself up, to piece you back together. No matter how many times you lied to my face or gave me your unapologetic apologies - I was always there.

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She's the kind of woman you lose while chasing others - thinking that the grass is greener on the other side. The truth is the grass isn't greener on the other side. It's green where you water it. You spent your time looking for happiness elsewhere when all along true happiness is where your feet stand. And now you'll spend a lifetime finding a replacement that will measure up to be the same as the woman who once made your life whole.

kmn // the grass is greener where you water it

Stop thinking about everything so much because you'll end up breaking your own heart. To all the times you felt like it was your fault for loving someone who couldn't reciprocate it back, it was not your fault. It was your fault for loving someone so heartedly with your whole heart. It was their heart - the person who can't seem to make up their mind about what they wanted. Sometimes you need to take a step back from the reality of a breakup and give yourself some time away from that person. And think everything through carefully - tread with caution, and focus on loving and caring for yourself first. You are a priority. Don't stay or wait around for someone who treated you like an option.

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And he left shards of glass in her back and a hole in her heart - that even if ever came around again; he couldn't fill it or end the aching pain. And to all the days where he could never make up for all the times that he promised he changed, but instead, continuously stabbed her in the back; letting her down each time - painfully. In the end he has changed over time - but more importantly, so did she - healing and learning to love again.

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You asked for all my darkest secrets and fears and to have faith in you; security blanket. You asked for love, time, attention, and intimacy. When you begged for me to stay that things will get better, I tried to display my concerns and get you to hear me out. But you disregard my concerns and love. I'm so fucking tired of suffocating on broken promises and lies like burning cigarettes. How dare you call this love when all it's based on is deception.

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If happiness is what you seek, why do you stay? Sometimes we say that we deserve better than how the one we love the most treats us - but we don't get up and leave. You'll walk back and forth like a tug and pull relationship; wondering if you should walk away from something that doesn't bring happiness but sadness. If the other person doesn't bring you joy and continuously puts you down; or doesn't put in the effort to keep you close, you already know that they aren't going to change. They aren't stopping you from being happy - you are.

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And sometimes, you have to give up on the person that means absolutely everything to you. It's not because you're an emotionless person and doesn't care about them, but because they don't tend to realize how good you've been to them, taking you for granted—not appreciating the little gestures and things you do for them. Nor do they ever notice when you are having a bad day or need a bit of comfort or reassurance that they care and appreciate you. They're too comfortable in the relationship, thinking that you won't get tired of feeling lonely and neglected. And no matter how much it hurts, you need to put yourself first - your happiness matters. The sooner you can accept that things will never change and move on, the better your life will be. You deserve to be happy.

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The most savage thing that a person can say is “it is what it is.” When they say this regarding a relationship or friendship, they no longer allow any circumstances outside of their control to affect them. This is because they have mastered the artistry of acceptance. Therefore, if you plan to manipulate them and threaten to leave their lives, thinking that they are scared of losing you, guess what they don’t give a damn. They don’t care because you can walk out of their life, and they will open the damn door for you. And when someone asks them how they’re “holding up” or “are you okay?” because you left their life, they’ll say their finest line, “it is what it is.” They are dangerous people who aren’t afraid to lose a few to gain a few that will stay a lifetime.

kmn // it is what it is

Sometimes there will be that one person who decides to walk into your life - thinking that you'll constantly let them stay in your life. The truth is the more chances you give someone, the less respect they'll start to have for you. They'll continually slither back into your life because they're not afraid to lose you - too comfortable on your forgiveness. And that's when you should realize, never let a person get too comfortable disrespecting you.

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And one year later, you cross paths again with the girl who you once called your girlfriend; who meant everything to you. She was the ex-lover that was willing to give up her time and probably drop anything to be by your side - during the good and bad times. And her heart doesn’t ache for you anymore because of the realization that she deserved better and that she is a strong woman. She looks even more beautiful than the day that you left her - pushing forward with strength and determination. And she smiles and laughs without fear of the future - knowing that positive vibes will come her way. And at that very moment, you panic. You lost her - and you can’t have her back. You know that you’re guilty of mistreating her and now you’re paying the price. You’re watching her be happy and in love with someone else from afar.

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Forever is an understatement for how long I'm going to love you - just like the saying "I like you," is an understatement as well. Sometimes we say that we will do this or that, but it does not define how long one will care or be in your life. Time is too short to be wasted so therefore I promise to love you until my last breath fades into the thin, dry air. And even after I am no longer a part of your life, I will always hope for you to grow and find love and happiness. You deserve to be loved by someone who chooses to love you unconditionally - a love that lasts a lifetime. Therefore, you deserve my love, every inch of me and everything you always wanted in life. You deserve it all, and I don't intend to provide you with less than what you should receive. You are worthy to be loved. And no matter how many times you feel that you are not worthy of my love, you are; and I won't ever stop showing you that. I intend to give you the best and be the best I can for you - but most importantly, I promise never to give up on you; on us.

kmn // you deserve to be loved

Don’t give someone the benefit of the doubt or trust someone who says “I care too much about you to ever lie to you,” because in reality, we know that is a lie. The truth is liars will lie about lying and will continue to lie to you because they know that you will forgive them multiple times and keep them in your life.

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