ciel étoilé

if you come at four in the afternoon, i'll begin to be happy by three.

[kudou-kun]

Donghae: Eunhyuk is handsome and wonderful ♥

Eunhyuk: Donghae is dumb, he hardly speaks any language, he can't drive, he can't do anything without me!

[hamotzi]

scottish fold babies :’)

[versacherries]

NASA released the clearest images of Neptune’s rings in over 30 years.

[wordhaze]

“Maybe I’ll see you in another life, if this one wasn’t enough.”

— Florence + the Machine; How Big, How Blue, How Beautiful

[toneelspeelster]

the world is beautiful. it's up to you to capture it, louis.

- the electrical life of louis wain, dir. by will sharpe.

[disc80s]

https://www.instagram.com/p/CT3kcq5JLjr

[rosesinaglass]

[leopoldo-maria-nanti]

[ttakahashis]

https://www.instagram.com/p/BvqCFIdDUI-/

[ya-cali]

[sseoulful]

peach_chu_

[scorpiofx]

the ability air moons have to intellectualize their emotions is a double-edged sword. it can be great. oftentimes, we can detach ourselves from emotional situations and problems in order to find clear, logical solutions. we’re able to give advice with a healthy balance of emotional & rational perspectives. we can see many sides to situations others wouldn’t consider, and sometimes can talk ourselves out of being upset/angry/etc.

but the issue with intellectualizing emotions is it’s not always that easy. oftentimes, we’re aware that we’re reacting over-emotionally to something, or that we aren’t being logical in the way we’re thinking or feeling. but that doesn’t mean we can stop thinking or feeling that way. we’re just left painfully aware that our emotions aren’t matching up with our logic. it creates this internal cycle of shaming ourselves for feeling things, thinking things; that we essentially have no control over. there’s also the constant self-shaming air moons do for feeling things in the first place. beating ourselves up for having the emotional reactions that we should be having, and refusing to just feel these things and deal with them.

also, on a further note of rationalizing feelings; sometimes air moons intellectualize the good emotions too. a fear of feeling genuine happiness or enjoyment in positive situations because we overthink so much and already imagine the feeling, person or moment being ripped away from us. so we get sad in advance, or we detach from people/places/good feelings/etc because we’ve already thought ahead so hard that we’re certain it will end badly. an inability to fully experience the good emotions and feelings as well as the bad.

[julieterbang]

anwariv

[uroko]

Cherry blossoms and the Nikaryoyosui canal by Big Ben in Japan

[kudou-kun]

greenery

[kudou-kun]

2020

[favvmood-blog]