kushkitty

30s. she/her. bi. brat. switch. 💕ENM💕 Not your Kitten😾 🖤I belong to @yessirdj 🖤 💙18+ ONLY. TW & Stuff 💙

[bratschool]

[kushkitty22]

🖤🖤🖤

[funnieshaha]

[kiddo-kitten]

Being a good sub does mean constantly breaking the scene actually. It means breaking the scene adjusting until you're comfy. It's breaking the scene with a big smile and a "You're being so hot rn". It's breaking the scene with a questioning look as you decide yes maybe the bed would be better for this. It's breaking the scene and saying "hey this position isn't comfy but it's ok for now". It's breaking the scene saying "goddamn it my jaw is giving up".

You have to let reality in or you'll be trapped in yet another trauma

[mabel-15002]

[lexxiesbimboboobs]

On plastic surgery, makeup, sex work and feminism

I was thinking for a few weeks now about a theory that has been sitting in my head regarding things like plastic surgery, makeup, sexwork - and probably a bunch of other related things. Mostly about the very clear split in how a lot of very progressive people tend to be just so anti them at all times, while a significant group screams the exact opposite idea.

When is makeup okay? When is plastic surgery okay? When is sexwork? "It's the person's choice" is a shitty reason - your choice could be caused by a myriad of internalised -isms and -phobias. I think it's... kinda the opposite?

All of these things are oppresive tools unless they have been deconstructed and reconstructed by their user. Makeup, traditionally, is absolutely an opressive tool. But if you do alternative makeup, to express yourself as an artist, if you experiment and practice making yourself look different ways depending on your mood and creativity, if you deconstruct your normative approach to it, then it becomes empowering and liberating.

The same principle applies to plastic surgery and sex work. If you do plastic surgery to combat your insecurities on a baseline level: that's usually how the plastic surgery industry works. It creates and "fixes" insecurtities. But if you deconstruct your approach to your body, to its modification, and essentially see any plastic surgery as a body mod, akin to a piericing or a tattoo? I mean, it's very hard to get to that point, but yeah, then it becomes empowering, it has for me.

And, again, with sex work. A lot of people can be absolutely lured and abused into sex work, exploiting and using them. But doing it because you enjoy working with your body and exploring your sexuality? God, that feels good.

So yeah. In general this feels like a very obvious realization to have, but I have never ever seen anyone bring this up.

[dummythiccdolly]

yesss 1000% i luv this! engaging wifh sex work only for fun and fo explore my sexuality has been sooo healing. i have body dysmorphia n taking pics can ne hard but i call it exposure therapy now and when im in the right headspace i luv taking cute porn selfies 💜

on this topic someday ill get through my fav book "whores in history" its very interesting but gosh my focus is shot haha

[lexxiesbimboboobs]

Yes! Exactly! A lot of people frame SW as something you only do when super desperate or something but I… don’t get that? I do it when I feel like it. Last month I pushed myself too hard and so I’m taking a breather now (sure, I made less money, but I preserve my mental health).

Posting my pics on the internet gave me so much self confidence. My dysmorphia has never had so few bad days, not to mention my dysphoria which… I don’t get anymore.

It’s also been nice to sell porn to people and actually have good relationships with them. So many people on my OF are shocked that I… actually talk to them? And have a personality and don’t use AI or chatter or stuff. I’m of the belief that there is no such thing as „work life balance” - you’re still alive when you work, so finding enjoyment in work is very important for Not Going Crazy(tm). And the fact that some people find that in sex work should not be as crazy as it is to people.

[softdomsworld]

being dominant about consent

“look at me.”

“you don’t get quiet when something’s wrong. you use your words. i need to hear you.”

“does this feel good, sweetheart? tell me.”

“i won’t guess. you’ll guide me. that’s how this works.”

“may i touch you here?”

“if you hesitate, i stop. immediately.”

“i want your yes. not your silence.”

“say it clearly for me. green, yellow, or red.”

“good girl. that’s it. always tell me.”

“you trust me because i make it safe to.”

“i’m in control, but you are never powerless.”

“if it stops being good for you, it stops. no questions. no disappointment.”

“your comfort is not optional.”

“you’re mine to guide, not to harm.”

“now come here. and tell me exactly what you want.”

[stateownedslut]

You've got to take that cute girl who overthinks everything and make sure she never has a coherent thought again

[bound-by-the-devil]

C*C and Saf*words

“No Daddy I dont want it” “I don’t care, you’re mine and I’ll use you how I want” *saf*word comes out* “Oh baby I’m so sorry whats wrong? How can I help? Are you okay? I love u, you’re safe, Im here. I promise.” Since some people dont seem to know how C*C works

[goodnessgirlness]

I feel like suddenly every single pic I see on my timeline on here is AI. 😭 Make it stopppp I wanna see real bimbos

[kosmogrl]

"whats your 5 year plan?" buddy I nearly go insane thinking about what I should have for dinner

[weirdness-is-good]

It's really unfortunate when you miss someone who has hurt you.

[weirdness-is-good]

Wrong gif. Sorry.

[titty-kitty-cat]

A fun fact about me is that it feels really good to cum inside me

[starlit-meadow]

[coffeeandcigarettesv9]

[down-badeline]

reblog to make prev's breasts swell up and start leaking milk into their clothes

[saetiate]

I love the concept of someone teaching you how to fuck. how to kiss, what it feels like to have someone else’s hands on you, someone else’s tongue. all under the guise of them being helpful, sweet to you, so you’re not nervous for when it ‘really’ happens. only for them to make sure they’re the only ones who ever get to see you that way

[briar-arisen-nightmare]

girls who are in pain all the time deserve $100,000 and the sloppiest head imaginable