B♥tch I might be

Former lolita now into PinUp and alternative fashion and body positivity. Also an all around geek into way too many different fandoms and occasionnal gamer. I love birds, especially mine! ♥ Home ♥ Ask ♥ Geekery ♥ Twitter ♥ Instagram ♥

[almyranpine]

really good tiktok

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Girl, just do it fat. Don’t wait until you’ve lost enough weight. You’re worthy of taking up the space that you fill. Live your life now. Don’t wait for some future version of yourself that you think will be more deserving. You have every right to pursue your passions and dreams just as you are today. Your worth isn’t tied to a number on a scale or the size of your clothes; it is inherent in who you are. You’re allowed to be seen, heard, and celebrated in whatever body you inhabit right now. Don’t let anyone or anything convince you for too long. So go out. Do it fat! Wear the clothes you love, pursue the opportunities that excite you, and live unapologetically. There’s no reason to put off living the life that you want, waiting for a moment that you’re not even sure will come. You deserve to be happy and fulfilled just as you are, and the world needs you exactly as you are today. Everything good that has ever happened to you, happened in this body. Girl, just do it fat.

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[coolerdracula]

[profeminist]

“No more diets, only riots”

- grittyphilly

[saltykingsalty]

ALL HAIL GRITTY

[chewbacca]

School of Rock (2003)  |  dir. Richard Linklater

[miniature-stigmata]

this one’s for all the fat girls who’ve cried in dressing rooms 💗

[drst]

You’re fine. The clothes are made to be easy to manufacture on machines, not for bodies. The clothes suck, not you.

[darthmelyanna]

They’re also manufactured to look attractive on hangers, and very few of us are shaped like hangers. You’re fine.

[moodyehudi-deactivated20180519]

😱😰😭😭😭😭😭😭😭thank u please more of this type of body positivity I need it

[chickenonabicycle]

Legit though! I’m a hobbyist seamstress and these are my experiences when shopping mainstream:

For example, most H&M blouses these days don’t even have boobdarts. Which means they will sit awkwardly on literally anyone with boobs, no matter the size. But on hangers or when folded on display? They look fab as fuck. Because hangers don’t have boobs. And the models chosen to show them on the catwalk are usually chosen for their lack of boobage too (unless it’s for lingerie), other requirements including ridiculous size and weight requirements. As for the average (EU available) clothing shops, the worst offender I’ve encountered yet was Zara. Everything’s way too long and way too flat: clearly aimed to look good on the catwalk models but not intended for normal people. At all.

Also sizes are just numbers. Shopping online has taught me that I’m a European M, an American XS-S, and a Japanese L-XL. And then these sizes even vary from shop to shop in the same country: I’m an XL at Apples but an S at Lola&Liza, for example. They’ve also been reducing the sizes of these numbers throughout the years to make people feel bad about themselves and to sell more weight-loss products. Don’t let a number get you down, it does not define you.

So please don’t feel bad about yourself when shops refuse to cater to your size. The clothes they sell are not aimed at real human beings. They are the ones in the wrong here, not you!

[coffee-at-midnxght]

body posi posts are the ones 

[gaslightgallows]

I needed this after yesterday. :/

[prismatic-bell]

ALSO

ever wonder why clothes look amazing on celebrities, including fat celebrities, while you’re lucky to find something that kind of fits?

It’s because…

…THEY GET THINGS TAILORED.

They have the same problem you do. So they buy bigger and have it made to fit them. They have the money to do it and we don’t, unfortunately, but that is literally the reason why it works for them.

[curvefollower]

[bodypositivestatues]

It is time for a fucking revolution.

If the fashion industry thrives on newness and novelty then they are failing themselves.

If you want a ‘new twist on a classic style’ I’ve got one for you.

Make a pencil skirt for someone who is 5ft 3.

Make a white shirt that will button over my breasts.

Make a shift dress that doesn’t get ‘nipped in at the waist’.

Make a pair of shoes that won’t aggravate my ankle injury.

Make a ‘nude-coloured’ dress that is dark brown.

Make your plus-sized jeans in actual denim, not some shitty stretch fabric dyed blue.

You want a fresh take on the classics?

Try making your clothes for someone who isn’t six foot tall and a size 6.

For once.

Please.

[curxio]

oh and also make fucking steel-toed boots under the size mens 8 1/2

[talkmagically]

Make some form-fitting shirts that are thick enough to stop our bras from showing through.

Make sensitive skin-friendly buttons and clasps so we don’t have worry about the metal making us break out in contact dermatitis (that’s a localized rash that can easily become an infection, for the uninformed).

Make a long dress that is easy to go to the bathroom in.

Make a pair of jeans that actually fit in the crotch area instead of putting us at risk of a yeast infection (No “V”).

Make more dress shoes that aren’t heels.

Put more pockets in women’s clothes.

CREATE A FUCKING UNIVERSAL SIZING SYSTEM THAT MAKES SENSE.

[labelleizzy]

Every. Last. Fucking. One. Of These.

[jeanie205]

All sadly true!

This reminds me of one of the first times my husband went clothes shopping with me. I gathered up my usual armful to take into the dressing room and he eyed me with astonishment and said, “Are you going to buy all that?” Now he wasn’t complaining, mind you, he was just surpised.

I gave him the hairy eyeball and said, “I’ll be lucky if even one of these fits right and looks good. I can’t just pick a shirt or a pair of jeans off a rack and buy them because I know they’ll fit. Like you can.”

I still remember the quiet “Oh,” that came out of his mouth.

LOL. That was awhile ago. He’s learned since.

[the-floral-skeleton]

Make sweaters and jackets that actually insulate and keep us warm

Give us real flannel, not cotton knock-offs

If you’re going to sew the pocket closed, don’t even bother putting it on

[swiglit]

I would like to reiterate: GIVE 👏🏿WOMEN 👏🏿FUCTIONAL👏🏿 POCKETS👏🏿. Give us ALL THE POCKETS.

[ceraunos]

Also:

- make clothes that last for longer than a single season before they wear out

- make clothes without using sweatshops, child labour, underpaying and mistreating workers at ANY stage of clothing cycle

- make clothes using ecologically produced fabrics, and reduce the environmental impact of the clothing industry across the board

- make quality clothing accessible and affordable for all

- end the fast fashion industry

- give ! us ! a ! universal ! sizing ! system !! and ! pockets !!!

[mcwollybob]

Make clothes for fat people

[thiswomanshouldbewriting]

Also can we please have more women shoes that aren’t either so flat that it feels like walking barefoot or high heeled? Thanks

[softcore-revolutionary]

[tooiconic]

This is a big deal for Korea. In most Asian counties, if you’re not like a size 2 you might as well be a fucking hippo and it has a huge effect on women’s self esteem.

[illogical-bullshit]

Hey this is very nice!

[meeshay]

weh they are so cute

[constellations-and-energy]

this is wholesome content and I am here for it

[the-love-clubb-deactivated20200]

They are so cute tho oh my gosh work

[blogdeathforever]

i love them they look so happy

[perks-of-being-chinese]

i love this!!

[sinnamonscouture]

Ashley Graham for Vogue Paris, November 2018

[frogmp3]

​how is anyone supposed to look at this and survive

[obimomkenobi-deactivated2020062]

this is, like, ripped from my very specific lesbian fantasies

[pretz3l-log1c]

Honestly thought some of these were maybe photos imitating paintings and was waiting for the comparison pics.

@blackkatmagic

[rob-pattinson]

LIZZO Rolling Stone Magazine / 2020 › ph. David LaChapelle

[theartofanimation]

Gabriele Pennacchioli  -  https://www.linkedin.com/in/gabriele-pennacchioli-6251472  -  http://pennacchioli.tumblr.com  -  https://www.instagram.com/gabrielepennacchioli  -  https://www.facebook.com/gabriele.pennacchioli  -  https://vimeo.com/user17473475

[deathcomes4u]

I fucking love this.

Not only because hell yeah fat girl heroes and awesomely executed art and animation

But also because I know there are hundreds of assholes SEETHING over it

Everything about these pictures is PERFECTION.

[thisclockworkheart]

I love how there are people who are pissed off about the depiction of *fictional* fat people being active. These aren’t even real people, but the very idea of a fat person being active (or you know, living while being fat) and being depicted in a positive light is enough to bother some? 

Please.

These are beautiful and skilfully done. The ugliness of those others has no place here. 

[chromat]

[thinfatfit]

@chromat

[thinfatfit]

instagram.com/chromat

@chromat

[therealmrskelley]

Angelic 😇

[booitsbrittany]

Goddess 😍

[miniature-stigmata]

this one’s for all the fat girls who’ve cried in dressing rooms 💗

[miniature-stigmata]

when i was about thirteen or so, my mother took me to sears to buy me pants. i went into the youth section and picked out jeans and dickies.

the act of trying to fit my fat, squishy body into something that would not go past my knees was embarrassing. but it’s doubled when i realized i was wearing the biggest size in that section, what was supposed to be my section. the look my mother gave me when i told her that nothing fit is seared into my memory.

so i cried. i cried because this meant i had to shop at the womens section. for some completely asinine reason, in my teens, i decided that if i ever shopped in the fat lady’s section, it meant that i had failed. at what? i still don’t really know. passing by the abundance of ugly, drab, boring clothes that the plus size section provided felt like i was in a funhouse, like this can’t be my reality.

but the pants fit there. i took no pleasure from this, and i cried again.

so that’s why i made this post. because the experiences that fat and chubby kids go through in dressing rooms is unique and so rarely talked about. i’m in a much better place now and have definitely embraced my fat thighs and hanging double belly, but i know a lot of us who grew up to be fat adults still have some pain we have to address and work through.

so again, this is for all the fat kids who have cried in dressing rooms. however your particular story went, i hope you can look back on it and start to heal.

[may12324]

Amethyst 80′s inspired

[tasselfairy]

🌰🍂Fall vibes 🍂🌰 (aka it dropped slightly below 70 degrees today)

[tasselfairy]

Blonde Babydoll 

Fresh out of recovery trying to figure out how to be me

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