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[ENG LYRICS] Change pt.2 by RM

Things change, people change,

everything change

Things change, people change,

everything change

Love change, friends change,

everyone change

It is no strange

That’s the world’s shape

I can’t believe I loved you once

Fool me once, then fool me twice

Shame on you yeah shame on me

Think I lost my sanity

Chemistry we had for sure

Gradually we wanted more

They say you can’t fix someone

Seems you got one fit you right

F*** my interviews in years ago

I’m whole different, not that anymore

F*** that wiki f*** all those infos

What a stranger, I don’t know this fool

Things change, people change,

everything change

Things change, people change,

everything change

Love change, friends change,

everyone change

It is no strange

That’s the world’s shape

You gotta admit it

Don’t you get it still

Someday a great grief will do come for you

And then you’ll know it too

You can’t love someone like I do

That’s all I can say to you

renmorris

I wish more people...cis and trans...understood that transitioning and passing is just not possible for a lot of us and never will be. I’m so tired of the trans narrative being focused on this supposedly universal experience.

I’m extremely disabled. I will probably never be able to transition in any capacity. I am dependent on my bigoted family and on a bigoted medical system to survive. HRT could hurt my body very badly and I cannot bind because of chronic chest pain. I cannot have top surgery for those same reasons.

There’s so much more to being a man, woman, non-binary than how you can present yourself. And a lot of us are trying desperately to come to terms with that. With the idea of being closeted forever or just straight up trying to navigate our own identies among other trans people more privileged than us.

[everyone can reblog but don't clown on this post, no t*rfs, no tr*sc*m]

renmorris

👏 HUGE HUGE HUGE AGREE 👏

It’s so fucking frustrating. And frankly I’m getting pissed off because tucking and binding are dangerous! I get so worried, especially with trans youth who could really hurt themselves 😰 being told you HAVE to conform to this presentation or you aren’t trans, pushing it as the ONLY way to feel better if you're dysphoric is not safe! It’s not helpful!

renmorris

okay everyone

somehow people missed this.

cis people, any kind of ‘I’m cis but....' or 'I don’t understand but...' comments are completely unasked for, you can reblog posts without adding commentary.

more pressing though, this post is absolutely not the place to goof around and act cutesy. your voice is not needed here. please learn how to listen to and boost trans voices by themselves.

I am talking about disability and the health and safety of real goddamn people, do not infantilize my words.