Planning my wedding has been the craziest, most stressful thing I’ve ever done.
I fluctuate between being stressed and not stressed all the time. I don’t understand the people who say it’s not stressful. I remember an ex’s SIL saying that to me once—how wedding planning was so chill for her and it was just a matter of “making decisions”.
But for me, I think it’s once you decide you’re going to spend money money on your wedding, and then you’re trying to stay in your budget, that’s when the stress kicks in. If you’re balling on a budget and you don’t really have a vision for the day, then I guess that’s when you’re super chill.
Unfortunately for me, I am not that chill.
The amount of money I’m spending on flowers actively makes me want to cry. Who wants to spend that much on flowers? FLOWERS?
I finally ordered my wedding veil tonight. I found it off Etsy, and I am excited about it. But then I sat here for hours agonizing on whether to order it in “ivory” or “light ivory” to match my wedding dress, which hasn’t come in yet, so I was completely basing my decision off of photos from December 2024.
But it’s done. Only 12 more things left on my checklist, I guess.
