The Problem with BBC Obsession in the Lifestyle
First things first… I have observed others in several interracial relationships, this is not about attraction or preference. To each his or her own. This isn’t even about the reverse-Hitler propaganda about black men’s racial and sexual superiority that is more and more prevalent in internet porn (side note: there are plenty of small/average black dicks). That shit is only there to brainwash you.
No… this is about the objectification and dehumanization of black men. You read that correctly; it is not a typo.
More and more (mostly white) couples who enter the lifestyle become obsessed with the novelty of bringing a black man into the bedroom. Part of the problem lies in the novelty and the fact that they perceive interracial relations as taboo to begin with. That implies that they’re pushing the boundaries of their values just by entertaining the idea of fucking with a black man. Come out of your bubbles and open your eyes to the modern world. But even this can be understood and forgiven based on upbringing and family culture. We can’t all be blamed for how we were raised.
It’s ok to get excited about sex with a well hung man. It’s even ok to be turned on by interracial sex. For a white/Hispanic/Asian/etc. couple, the skin contrast may magnify the fact that the husband is not the one engaging with the wife. There is nothing morally wrong with that. You shouldn’t feel guilty about being turned on by it. Shit I'm a well hung man, I always have fantasies about about man as well endowed or even more endowed than me fucking a woman I'm being intimate with at the same time!!!
The problem, again, is the objectification of the black man involved in the encounter. The language they use reflects this, whether they are aware of it or not. BBC is short for “big black cock”, but I see so many people refer to the person as “a bbc”. As in, “we’re looking to meet a bbc in such and such area”, or “my wife met a bbc at the swingers club”. It’s never “my wife met a guy with a bbc”. The object isn’t a part of the person to them, the person themselves are the object. You don’t see the same treatment of non-black men in the lifestyle and that’s wrong. You will see plenty of images of interracial sex in all combinations, but you will never see that kind of language on my blog. I have deleted submissions because of this kind of language in the caption.
Fuck whoever you want. If you are attracted to people of a particular race or ethnicity, fine! If there is a race or ethnicity you are not particularly attracted to, that’s also fine! Personal preference does not equal prejudice. Indulge all of your kinky fantasies, but for god’s sake, TREAT PEOPLE LIKE PEOPLE!
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