non-women go away

hi. anarchist. radfem. liberty minded. I like muscular women, math, and physics

[blisswho]

Can you feel me on your skin breathing you in?

[thewitchmakers]

TERFs: i eat pussy all day!!! Omg i love eating my gf out and making her cum 50 times a day!!!!

Also TERFs: ew you like porn???? Ur hypersexual because of childhood trauma???? WOW LOOK AT THIS DISGUSTING PORN ADDICTED IDIOT

[discyours]

People really just think radfems are anti sex prudes and roll with it huh.

Nobody is making the argument that porn is bad because it’s sexual. Porn is bad for all the reasons any other form of sex work is bad (increases demand for trafficking, gives opportunity for women to be abused, normalises the idea that a woman’s sexuality is a commodity for men to buy and that consent can be bought), with some consumer harm thrown in. Porn is addictive, can cause sexual dysfunction and decrease satisfaction in real life sexual scenarios. There’s also a correlation between porn consumption and sexual violence.

Most radfems support things like written erotica because there’s no women harmed in making it and it doesn’t have the same effects on your brain. Obviously actual real life sex isn’t comparable to porn, so radfems don’t have any reason to oppose it. This has nothing to do with it being sexual or “dirty” dude.

[bi-fem-deactivated20200606]

Lesbian sex isn’t porn, op.

[radfemblack]

OP is an idiot. What does eating pussy (irl) have to do with fapping to a woman being beaten and triply penetrated until her asshole falls out, or consuming and supporting an industry and medium built on pure woman-hate like that? What do you think people did before the Internet? Gail Dines said it, porn is to sex what McDonald’s is to fast food — a cheap, plastic, commodified version of the real thing.

[blackswallowtailbutterfly]

Lesbian radfems: I enjoy sex with women I can see face to face and touch and care about!

Lesbian radfems: Pornography is awful because it exploits women and girls, allowing men to be voyeur to their degradation and then enact the same on the women and girls in their personal life.

Pornsick genderists: Pornography and sex with a partner are obviously exactly the same and TERFs are such hypocrites.

[tehbewilderness]

It is possible that the OP really is as ignorant as they seem.

[dworkinlover69-deactivated20210]

Hey op, being hypersexual from childhood trauma does not in any way excuse inappropriate sexual behavior. If a hypersexual person acts like a cumbrain with no boundaries I am going to shame and bully them.

[gothhabiba]

a woman: hi, how are you?

a man: hm. see I wouldn’t have phrased it exactly like that. I might have said “hello” or perhaps “salutations.” but the way you said it is cute though.

[waluigi-whitman-deactivated2017]

You are aware this is just as sexist as the things people say about women, correct?

[inkskinned]

a woman: you ever notice men speak to women like we are beneath them and constantly police our language and appearance?

a man: hm. i know you, poor thing, are blissfully unaware of the difficulty that text posts put us (men, or “males,” depending on the colloquial) through. let me explain in the follow paragraph how we can effectively ignore institutionalized and global sexism because this post personally called me, a man, out for my degrading behavior. see, this sort of witty and harmless observation is sexist,

[pbs-r]

when confident people confess that they haven’t always been like that:, young me was like ‘oh huh wonder when I’ll be old enough to feel that way ‘ and now I realize that no one is intimidating and also fashion is fake and embarrassing no matter what you do so like.... chill and smile.. be a person that is generous.. be fun to work with... read a g.d. Book.. look at maps.. take care of your bod.. be nice!!!! Playing games on who can be the most mysterious/ too cool is boring and yucky.

[mysharona1987]

[zhooniyaa-waagosh]

Why Rheumatoid Arthritis Patients Are Having Trouble Getting Their Meds Post-Roe

They help with debilitating and painful symptoms.

[thatsonemorbidcorvid]

The american right: “women should be forced to have babies!”

The american left: “I think you mean womb carriers”

[thesinisterspinster]

And this is why we are where we are

[anatomiau-deactivated20240816]

[feministfront]

just a reminder that the UN classifies forced pregnancy/denial of an abortion as actual torture. that’s how essential reproductive rights are.

[anti-capitalistlesbianwitch]

Here’s the report. The section on reproductive rights starts on page 10.

[inkskinned]

i literally do not care if you are pro-birth and thinking - this will save babies! it will not. it will kill, injure, and traumatize grown adults instead.

the law has just decided that constitutional rights to bodily autonomy will be localized. this is not a fucking win for anyone. there will be places in this country that your bodily autonomy will be revoked.

how are people going to travel? will i have to prove i'm not pregnant before leaving my state? will they have border checks to check i'm not a "likely" candidate for an abortion? will i have to travel with a man to prove i'm being safe?

what happens if i get pregnant in a state that has made abortion illegal? do i need to stay there, now, until the forced birth? what happens if i didn't know i was pregnant, and find out in that state - will i be allowed to go home without fear of being fined? what happens if i miscarry while travelling, through no fault of my own?

will every person that might be able to get pregnant have to sign over their rights every time they cross a border? will i have to remember the specifics of every state's laws?

what happens in cases of sexual assault. will i be able to report something happening to me in an anti-abortion state? or will the punishment for abortion be equally dangerous? how does this protect victims at all?

and do you really think - i mean really think - this won't be an excuse for police offices to run fucking unchecked over anyone. we could be pregnant, after all. black women and minorities specifically will be targeted, abused, and controlled.

the supreme court didn't just decide that abortion was a state issue: it decided that your locality in the united states of america will determine your physical rights.

fuck this. and fuck the supreme court, one and all.

[the-rainbow-lesbian]

gender critical men are NOT our allies

[mysharona1987]

Like, abortion being illegal won’t be selectively reinforced.

Rich women with lawyers will be fine. The cops won’t touch them. Too much hassle.

Poor women are fucked.

[bitterbadfem-harpy]

Rich women with lawyers will not be able to access abortions without extreme legal and financial hurdles. Don't divide us now.

[tubularfem]

I get what you’re saying, and of course there are axises of privileges that come in on this.

But rich women still suffer. Britney Spears couldn’t remove her IUD from herself, and she was rich, famous and white.

Having to pay an exorbitant fee, to have to cross state lines, to have to possibly pay a lot for an unsafe and dangerous back alley abortion, any of these, is not privilege, even if you have the ability to.

Not to mention many women are controlled or abused by their fathers or husbands. Some rich women will be able to use money and power to get an abortion, yes. But some of them will also be forced to give birth just like the rest.

[powerfem]

I just know someone is going to misinterpret this and give me shit about it but here we go.

If you live somewhere were you are going to loose access to abortion, please consider forgoing PIV sex. I am not blaming women who get pregnant, this isn't victim blaming, nor I am telling you to stop having sex. I am just saying that you shouldn't feel like you need to do something that puts you in danger. Your bf/husband should care enough about you to be the first one to suggest it, but even if he doesn't, he should fully understand your reasons. This is also a good test for him.

I am speaking as a straight woman. I repeat that I am not blaming women who get pregnant for having PIV, and I'm aware that there are women in abusive situations.

This is just something to consider. You can have a great sex life without PIV.

[powerfem]

Bringing this back! My heart goes to all usamerican women. Please put yourselves first and stay safe.

[bitterbadfem-harpy]

Don't give men a single fucking thing until our humanity is enshrined in law. Let him fuck his hand if he needs to come so bad.

[finalgrrrl]

donate to an abortion fund rn <33

[finalgrrrl]

USA

a list of state-specific funds

national network of abortion funds

indigenous women rising; abortion fund

national abortion federation 

women’s reproductive rights assistance project 

INTERNATIONAL

international planned parenthood federation

partners for reproductive justice (africa, asia, the americas)

fondo de aborto para la justicia social (mexico)

mabia (ghana)

bangladesh women’s health coalition

abortion without borders (poland, uk, the netherlands, germany)

women help women (based in the netherlands, buts works internationally in europe)

abortion dream team (poland)

[finalgrrrl]

bringing this back :////

[queen-mayhem]

if you have little girls in your life, make a point to prioritize them. listen to them. don’t interrupt them or let others interrupt them. make sure to compliment them on things besides their appearance. tell them how clever and creative and brave they are. it’s so important.

[feministdragon]

Teaching English to third graders, I used ‘she’ as the default.  The first day I did this, a few weeks into the semester, I noticed the girls noticing.  They sat up in their seats, they paid attention, you could see them going ‘wow’ internally.  

I continued over the course of the class to only use ‘she’ in example sentences. Towards the end of the semester, I assigned a piece of writing, and used ‘she’ in the example piece.  I announced that it was just the example, but the boys (who never listened to instructions) kept coming up to ask me privately if they could also use ‘he’ in the stories.   

The default matters.  People don’t feel comfortable to deviate from the stated norm, especially in a classroom setting where the teacher is the arbiter of ‘correct’.  The boys in my class felt they had to have permission to not use the standard ‘she’.  Imagine how girls feel all the time.

[zip001]

it is interesting the moment that thandie newton thanked god, referring to Her, i felt a shuddering gasp. and i realized it came from me…

[yourtommyginger]

So……that’s great this teacher is making such an effort for girls, but those little boys don’t deserve to feel marginalized, either.    As the mother of sons I have a real problem with this.  

[cocksmasher69]

I hope you don’t have daughters, Carol. Because this is what happens to daughters, and everyone is fine with it. If you want to test whether something is harmful to girls, try doing it to boys instead and see how offended everyone gets.

[aferret]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^

[eboniidoll]

I do this, it’s fun actually, whenever some leaves an open you just swoop in with feminine pronouns.

“ My boss said the funniest thing.”

Oh, what did she say?

“I love that one singer”

Have a I heard any of her songs?

“My doctor says I should try yoga”

She’s not wrong it helps with flexibility

You would be surprised how often you assume everyone is male, and even more surprised that people are surprised that you guessed the person was female, because by default everyone assumes they’re male.

[the-rainbow-lesbian]

when you’re dying because of an unsafe pregnancy no amount of wealth, class, race, or being able-bodied will save you. you don’t have to add identifiers before “women” in order to care about abortion, ALL women are in danger because of roe v wade being overturned I am sick to death of the privileged woman boogeyman, it’s a distraction.

[cat-pilled]

"you wouldnt misgender a cis person for being a bad person" most cis people dont give a fuck about being misgendered because they know sex is real and someones words dont change material reality..... and often misgendering cis people stems from misogyny too as a way to degrade people ie "you hit like a girl"

[kielots]

all of the "kill all terfs" flags at TRA rallies are so funny to me because i know who all of the terfs are that theyre referring to and its just like 1000 incredibly normal and nonthreatening women like 😭 thats like protesting against the local book club