Alright ladies, get your notebooks out– class is in session.
Today I will be sharing with you one of my favorite seduction techniques, as well as some of my personal secrets on how I use it on my targets.
The Chase isn’t a new concept, in fact, I feel like it’s the most basic of seduction techniques. However, don’t let its simplicity fool you… it is very powerful, and men love it.
Although The Chase is innate for both men and women, women struggle with grasping this technique. In fact, most women have started CHASING men! All that nonsense about women “shooting their shot” and “making the first move” is not allowed here. We don’t do that here. Don’t bring that nonsense here.
If you can master The Chase, I promise you, your hypergamous dating life and journey will change for the BETTER.
😈 Men Are Masochist. They love the conflicting feelings The Chase gives them, and they want what they can’t have. This is why dusty men try to go after high value women. Even though they’re broke and dusty, they still want the unattainable! This is why a dusty will always leave his 50-50 woman after he levels up. Why keep what he had when he was broke when he can afford the best now?
Men love The Chase, especially when the Chase is difficult. Men are masochist in The Chase– remember that always, ladies. The quicker you get this in your head, the easier The Chase will be for you.
😈 The Harder the Chase, The Greater The Investment. If you execute The Chase correctly, you will maximize the amount a man invests in you. Prolong the ‘initial chase’ (the dating phase) because the longer The Chase the more he will have to invest to try to have you.
Remember: Men fall in love through investment, so if a man is investing a lot of time, money, and emotions in you, he WILL fall for you!!
😈 He Will ALWAYS Come Back. If you are worried about a man leaving you, then you need to go read my post on levelling up your mindset THEN come back here to read this. When you fear losing a man, it means you see HIM as the PRIZE. Men are never the prize! Never ever! You ARE.
The Chase is simply a hot & cold technique. A push & pull. A game that a seductress should master.
😈 Be Enthralling. Sis, you can’t be boring in The Chase. Think of this like the ultimate hunt: appear like the prey, make him feel like the predator.
However, never make him realize that you are really the apex predator and he is your prey. You control the hunt, the chase– but he can’t know. Make it exciting.
😈Be Warm Like the Sun. When you are with him in person or on a date, you must be captivating. Make him feel like he is the luckiest man in the world (which he is because you are simply magnificent and he is lucky to be in your presence).
Give him your attention. Light, sweet touches. Every time he is with you it should be an otherworldly experience. Men want to escape the stressors of life, and you provide that escape.
😈 Now, Be Icy. This is the time to pull back. This technique shouldn’t be done too much in person because it may make you look temperamental. It is best done while you two are apart. Ways to do this:
- Decline a date. If you see each other each week, stop that. He doesn’t get your weekends automatically unless he’s paying for every bill, spoiling you, etc. The distance will make him desire you more and think about ways to woo you on your next date. Plus, putting gaps between dates makes you seem in high demand and unattainable.
- Less texting. B*tch, you are not his pen pal. You’re not a typist. I said this once before, and I will say it again: SEVEN TEXT MESSAGES MAX A DAY unless you are discussing an upcoming date or money. Otherwise, anything else he has to say can be said in person! If you text every day, start skipping some days. Be unpredictable.
- Be elusive with your speech. Men crave validation, so don’t always give it. Show him how you feel about him with your actions (by being warm), but be careful with your words. If he says, “I miss you” don’t just reply back, “I missed you too!”. Instead, say something along the lines of: “I’m excited for our date this weekend!”. This way you are not telling him you missed him, but you are telling him you’re excited about the date. Be unclear.
SECRETS FROM MADEMOISELLE
😈Mirror, Mirror, On the Wall. If you are ever unsure about how to approach a situation, here’s one of my secrets: mirror your target and their actions. When he pulls back, you pull back as well. Men know the game too, so don’t get played! In fact, play it harder.
If he ignores you for a day, ignore him for two.
😈 Stir Uncertainty Before & After a Date. After I confirm a date, I tend to not text the man again (unless he wants to confirm the morning of the date). Aside from confirmations, there’s nothing a man has to say that he can’t tell you in person.
I continue this after a date by pulling away and not messaging much (if at all) the day after the date.
By doing this, it leaves him wondering if the date went well or not for you, and raises his curiosity. Never let a man you’re dating know where he stands in your life.
😈 Don’t Be Too Nice. Ladies, I used to be the NICEST girl to men. Always sweet and understanding for NO reason. Please listen to me: don’t be afraid to be a little sharp with these men. Be bold. I do it in a teasing and playful manner, and it drives men wild! Being a doormat will get you nowhere!
😈 Have Fun. I love the chase. I love everything about it, and because of this, I never have to think much of it because its become second-nature to me. I’m naturally always in chase mode with my targets, and even in other social settings. If you find yourself stressing out about the chase or confused, then there is a problem. You should be enjoying yourself! This is all about you and how wonderful you are, so enjoy it 😈
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