The Existence of a Mind

21. College life. Cali. "Live & Let Live."

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[itskaiii]

Turn On's;

Intimacy. Touch me in the right parts. Hold my waist. Stroke my neck. Kiss my forehead. Hold my hand. 

Maturity. Patience is amazing. A prize will come to you when the time is right. Its called falling in love. Waiting is hard. But worth it. 

Honesty. I don’t care what you’ve done. I care about what you will do in the future. Be honest with me, I’ll be honest with you. 

Care. Because not many people give a crap about anything anymore.

[achaius]

“I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person.”

Olivia Wilde (via achaius)

[a-n-t-i-v-i-r-u-s]

[theawakenedstate]

I have found that there is only one thing that heals every problem, and that is: to love yourself. When people start to love themselves more each day, it’s amazing how their lives get better. They feel better. They get the jobs they want. They have the money they need. Their relationships either improve, or the negative ones dissolve and new ones begin. Loving yourself is a wonderful adventure; it’s like learning to fly.

Louise Hay (via kathviloria)

[kbass2112]

You’ll meet her. She’s very pretty, even though sometimes she’s sad for many days at a time. You’ll see, when she smiles, you’ll love her.

Pan’s Labryrinth (via forgoutten)

[thebohogarden]

[girlbreakout]

We’ve been taught a woman’s body will cause men to sin. We’re told that if a woman shows too much of her body men will do stupid things. Let’s be clear: A woman’s body is not dangerous to you. Her body will not cause you harm. It will not make you do stupid things. If you do stupid things, it is because you chose to do stupid things.

How to See a Woman: A Conversation Between a Father and Son  (via arabarabarab)

[coconutdreamin]

[lucky9]

1. If you like someone, wait. 2. Give lots of compliments, even if you’re shy. Everyone else is too. 3. Change. Get a haircut, try new perfume, get new sheets. Become better than you were before. 4. Eat healthier. Learn to cook something fancy. 5. Get up earlier and watch the sun come up. 6. Wear soft clothes, take a bath, drink something warm. 7. Meet someone new, even just a friend. 8. Become closer with your friends and your family. Call your mother. Cry with your best friend. Tell everyone how much you appreciate them. 9. Keep your room clean. Buy some candles. Let the natural light in. 10. Make a list of reasons why you’ll be better off without them. Believe they are true, because they are. 11. Listen to new music. 12. Write everything you’re thinking and feeling. Write letters. Write happy letters, sad letters, and angry letters, even if you’re never going to send them. 13. It’s okay to be sad, but not forever. Sadness is not as beautiful as music makes it seem. Lack of sleep makes your eyes droopy, not deep. Wake up every morning and tell yourself you’re going to have a good day. 14. Go to the library. Don’t forget to look in the music section. 15. Remove them from your life. Get rid of the things they gave you if they make you sad. They’re not worth it. You will never be happy if you continue to hold on to the things that make you sad. 16. Make new memories. 17. Try to find something to appreciate in everything you do or experience. 18. Being alone is okay, you don’t have to surround yourself with people. 19. Become your own best friend. Buy yourself coffee and drink it alone in a cafe. Take your time. 20. Learn to love every bit of yourself.

How to feel better and become better by me (via skinnyknees)

[weltenwellen]

I do not think I’m easy to define. I have a wandering mind. And I’m not anything that you think I am.

Syd Barrett (via rauchwolken)

[raytranada]

You will fall in love with someone who annoys you, whose orgasm face looks and feels pathetic. Despite all of this, there’s something keeping you drawn to them, something that makes you want to protect them from the harsh world. What you fail to realize, however, is that you are the harsh world....

[place-under-the-pines]

[servadio]

[raytranada]

Sometimes skulls are thick. Sometimes hearts are vacant. Sometimes words don’t work.

James Frey - A Million Little Pieces (via deadly-dahlias)

[chasingheartbreak-deactivated20]

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