ā I'll live free or die free. There's no two ways about that. ā { rp account for Cobb Vanth of the Mandalorian. written by Walden. Established 07 November 2020. }
Youāre all amazing. Itās a sad fact that our brains try to tell us otherwise, and most people are their own worst critics, especially over things that they want to do well and want to take pride in.
Iām going to tell everybody something that I read once that hasĀ immensely helped me with being able to weather feelings like this and to cope better with these insecurities: the tricky thing about our own writing and our own artwork is that weāre used to it. As with most things, when you see it often enough, it becomes every day and our brains start to interpret that as boring or bland or uninspired. Meanwhile, the people you write with are floored by it, they love every reply you give and every post you make! They think itās amazing and your characterization is perfect and they wish that THEY could write more like you!
The truth of the matter is, you all write fabulously and you all bring so much life and love to your characters and the fandom wouldnāt be the same without you! And, yes! Even those of you who write the same muses as other people! You each bring something important to those characters: new perspective, new headcanons, new writing styles, et cetera.Ā
Our brains are hard-wired to be self-critical and to Compareāāhence the perception that āso-and-so is So Coolā¢ and I am a Lettuceāāābut that simply isnāt true, and if anything should prove that, look at the fact the same people you think are So Coolā¢ are reblogging the same post!
Anxiety is a bear, I know, and I get that. It is a daily and sometimes hourly struggle that has its wins and its losses.
But, when it starts to tell you that youāre not a good enough writer or that the fandom could do without your version of character or any other number of things, just try to remind yourself that there are plenty of other people you respect a whole lot and love to write with who think the same as you, and itās as Not True about you as it is Not True about them.Ā
Your writing is Wonderful, your character is Unique, and everyone is glad to have you here as you enrich the fandom, the universe, and our writing experiences!
As it has been a rather lengthy stretch of time since last I was on this blog, here you will find a list of any important/interesting headcanons for my take on Marshal Cobb Vanth.
IMPORTANT BACKSTORY & TIMELINE:
TIMELINE
BACKSTORY IN RETROSPECT
SCARS, BRAND, AND BUILD
RANDOM HEADCANONS & OBSERVATIONS:
SLEEP HABITS
CLOTHING ā THE BAD PATCH
OOC CHARACTER QUESTIONS:
ACTIVITIES AND PASTIMESĀ ( ALSO PERTAINS TO SHIPS )
Encourage, lift and strengthen one another. For the positive energy spread to one will be felt by us all.
People who share the Consul personality type are, for lack of a better word, popular ā which makes sense, given that it is also a very common personality type, making up twelve percent of the population. In high school, Consuls are the cheerleaders and the quarterbacks, setting the tone, taking the spotlight and leading their teams forward to victory and fame. Later in life, Consuls continue to enjoy supporting their friends and loved ones, organizing social gatherings and doing their best to make sure everyone is happy.
At their hearts, Consul personalities are social creatures, and thrive on staying up to date with what their friends are doing.
Discussing scientific theories or debating European politics isnāt likely to capture Consulsā interest for too long. Consuls are more concerned with fashion and their appearance, their social status and the standings of other people. Practical matters and gossip are their bread and butter, but Consuls do their best to use their powers for good.
The Wisdom of Tradition
Consuls are altruists, and they take seriously their responsibility to help and to do the right thing. Unlike their Diplomat relatives however, people with the Consul personality type will base their moral compass on established traditions and laws, upholding authority and rules, rather than drawing their morality from philosophy or mysticism. Itās important for Consuls to remember though, that people come from many backgrounds and perspectives, and what may seem right to them isnāt always an absolute truth.
Consuls love to be of service, enjoying any role that allows them to participate in a meaningful way, so long as they know that they are valued and appreciated. This is especially apparent at home, and Consuls make loyal and devoted partners and parents. Consul personalities respect hierarchy, and do their best to position themselves with some authority, at home and at work, which allows them to keep things clear, stable and organized for everyone.
Ready to Help
Supportive and outgoing, Consuls can always be spotted at a party ā theyāre the ones finding time to chat and laugh with everyone! But their devotion goes further than just breezing through because they have to. Consuls truly enjoy hearing about their friendsā relationships and activities, remembering little details and always standing ready to talk things out with warmth and sensitivity. If things arenāt going right, or thereās tension in the room, Consuls pick up on it and to try to restore harmony and stability to the group.
Being pretty conflict-averse, Consuls spend a lot of their energy establishing social order, and prefer plans and organized events to open-ended activities or spontaneous get-togethers. People with this personality type put a lot of effort into the activities theyāve arranged, and itās easy for Consulsā feelings to be hurt if their ideas are rejected, or if people just arenāt interested. Again, itās important for Consuls to remember that everyone is coming from a different place, and that disinterest isnāt a comment about them or the activity theyāve organized ā itās just not their thing.
Coming to terms with their sensitivity is Consulsā biggest challenge ā people are going to disagree and theyāre going to criticize, and while it hurts, itās just a part of life. The best thing for Consuls to do is to do what they do best: be a role model, take care of what they have the power to take care of, and enjoy that so many people do appreciate the efforts they make.
Strengths & Weaknesses
Consul Strengths
Strong Practical Skills ā Consuls are excellent managers of day-to-day tasks and routine maintenance, enjoying making sure that those who are close to them are well cared for.
Strong Sense of Duty ā People with the Consul personality type have a strong sense of responsibility and strive to meet their obligations, though this may sometimes be more from a sense of social expectations than intrinsic drive.
Very Loyal ā Valuing stability and security very highly, Consuls are eager to preserve the status quo, which makes them extremely loyal and trustworthy partners and employees. Consuls are true pillars of any groups they belong to ā whether it is their family or a community club, people with this personality type can always be relied upon.
Sensitive and Warm ā Helping to ensure that stability, Consul personalities seek harmony and care deeply about other peopleās feelings, being careful not to offend or hurt anybody. Consuls are strong team players, and win-win situations are the stuff smiles are made of.
Good at Connecting with Others ā These qualities come together to make Consuls social, comfortable and well-liked. Consul personalities have a strong need to ābelongā, and have no problem with small talk or following social cues in order to help them take an active role in their communities.
Consul Weaknesses
Worried about Their Social Status ā These Strengths are related to a chief Weakness: Consulsā preoccupation with social status and influence, which affects many decisions they make, potentially limiting their creativity and open-mindedness.
Inflexible ā Consuls place a lot of importance on what is socially acceptable, and can be very cautious, even critical of anything unconventional or outside the mainstream. People with this personality type may also sometimes push their own beliefs too hard in an effort to establish them as mainstream.
Reluctant to Innovate or Improvise ā Just as they can be critical of othersā āunusualā behavior, Consuls may also be unwilling to step out of their own comfort zones, usually for fear of being (or just appearing) different.
Vulnerable to Criticism ā It can be especially challenging to change these tendencies because Consuls are so conflict-averse. Consul personalities can become very defensive and hurt if someone, especially a person close to them, criticizes their habits, beliefs or traditions.
Often Too Needy ā Consuls need to hear and see a great deal of appreciation. If their efforts go unnoticed, people with the Consul personality type may start fishing for compliments, in an attempt to get reassurance of how much they are valued.
Too Selfless ā The other side of this is that Consuls sometimes try to establish their value with doting attention, something that can quickly overwhelm those who donāt need it, making it ultimately unwelcome. Furthermore, Consuls often neglect their own needs in the process.
Romantic Relationships
Prizing social validation and a sense of belonging so highly, romantic relationships hold a special level of importance for Consuls. No other kind of relationship provides people with the Consul personality type with the same level of support and devotion, and the feelings of security and stability that come with strong romantic relationships are extremely warming.
Consuls donāt do casual flings ā they need to know that their partners will always be by their sides offering unwavering support, and marriage and family are the ultimate goal.
With such a goal in mind, Consul personalities take each stage, from dating to everything thereafter, very seriously. Everything about Consulsā relationships is based on satisfying mutual needs, from creating understanding early on to building mutual respect and support for each otherās opinions and goals. Knowing that they are loved and appreciated has a huge effect on Consulsā mood and self-esteem.
A Tender Heart
If they feel like this support isnāt there, such as when their partners deliver criticism, Consuls can feel extremely hurt. People with the Consul personality type dislike conflict and criticism, which can make it challenging to address any problems that come up. Nothing is more hurtful or depressing to Consuls than to realize that their partners donāt respect their dreams or opinions. Consuls can be surprisingly tough and tireless in the face of hardship, but they need to know without a doubt that their partners are behind them 100%.
Unfortunately, less mature Consuls may lack the inner strength and wisdom to attract this in healthy ways. They can be very needy, compromising their own principles and values in exchange for their partnersā approval. This is a terrible trap ā not only is it unattractive, it can too easily lead to emotionally abusive relationships, which reduce Consulsā self-esteem further. Another snare is their fixation on social status and approval ā itās not uncommon for Consulsā social circles and relatives to play a bigger part in their choice of dating partners than even their own values.
Cultivating Trust
Consuls are warm, loyal people who want to feel trusted and valued. They are great with practical matters like money management and administrative tasks, and are happy to take on such responsibilities in the name of taking care of the people they care about, a wonderful quality. Consuls just need to make sure they take the time to ensure that they build relationships that allow them to satisfy their own needs and dreams, with partners who appreciate their care and generosity fully, and who reciprocate as well.
Consuls are often very organized in how their relationships develop, following established dating rules and traditions (donāt call first, third date, etc.). As their relationships enter more sexual stages, Consulsā emphasis on process and tradition continue with established gender roles and socially acceptable activities.
However, since Consuls are so centered on the physical world and are quite emotional, they tend to be very affectionate and sensual, and overall great sexual partners. People with this personality type love to find ways to make their partners happy, and this sort of intimacy is a great way to do so. As the two partners become more comfortable with each other, Consuls are often open to experimenting and trying new things, so long as their partners are willing to reciprocate.
Consuls have specific needs for their relationships, and certain personality types are best able to meet those needs. In general, partners should share Consulsā Observant (S) trait, but it can also be useful to develop a sense of introspection that Introverted (I) partners can provide, with maybe one more opposing trait to help Consuls focus on logical decisions when appropriate, or to be more open-minded in new situations.
Friendships
Consuls are a very social personality type, seeking large circles of friends and proving themselves more than willing to spend the time and energy necessary to maintain these relationships. Loyal and warm, Consuls are known for standing by their friends no matter what, and providing a constant source of emotional support and encouragement.
Consul personalities are also sensitive to the traditions of friendship, seeing the support they offer as much as a responsibility as a pleasure.
Doing everything they can to make sure their friends are happy, and being so comfortable with introductions and small talk, Consuls are naturally very popular in pretty much any environment. This is a dynamic that Consuls genuinely enjoy, but they also expect their efforts and support to be reciprocated. Thereās nothing quite as hurtful to people with the Consul personality type as finding out that a trusted friend is critical of their beliefs or habits, except maybe being told so in a direct confrontation.
Consuls have a tendency to believe that their friends can do no wrong, always stepping up to defend them regardless of circumstances, and they expect the same benefit of the doubt in return. Consuls can greatly expand their circle of friends if they learn to be more receptive to other perspectives, rather than making snap judgments and conclusions. Itās important for Consuls, as with anyone, to avoid being insulated from other viewpoints and opinions, to relate to and understand ever more people.
Weāre All in This Together
On the other hand, Consuls are great at using their sensitivity to stay in tune with what motivates and drives their friends. While in their weaker moments, Consul personalities can sometimes use these observations to manipulate others, they are far more interested in maintaining strong relationships, and this is a great tool for doing so. Altruists that they are, Consuls almost always use their powers for good, encouraging and inspiring others.
By and large, the Consul personality type is a pleasant and sincere one. Their energy and social intelligence win them many acquaintances and friends, and their support and dedication keep those friendships close and strong. With so much zest for life and company, dull moments are sure to be few and far between.
Parenthood
As parents, Consuls have an excellent opportunity to display their warmth, affection and dedication in ways that have a real and positive impact. Sensitive yet firm, Consul parents are able to establish rules and authority without being entirely overbearing, using their compassion and support to smooth over the occasional miscommunication or difference of opinion.
Having children is often the culmination of Consulsā life goals, and they cherish every moment of it.
From the start, Consuls try to ensure that their children feel safe and happy. People with the Consul personality type enjoy the support they are able to give their infants, who are utterly dependent on their care. Family being as important as it is to Consuls, this is an incredibly rewarding start to the relationship.
Protective or Over-Protective?
As their children grow and begin to explore more, Consulsā love and care grows with them, but often becomes overprotective. Consuls may not just keep their children safe physically, but also socially, by arranging play dates, camps and other activities so much that their children arenāt free to make the blunders that lead to emotional growth and social independence.
Consuls value harmony and stability highly, and itās often the case that they try to use indirect pressure to try to teach lifeās lessons. When they are forced into a confrontation by their childrenās blatant wrong-doing though, Consul parents step in firmly, and expect their words to be respected. Believers in traditional roles, Consul parents view the parent-child relationship in black and white terms, with their authority as final.
The Gift of Independence
As their children grow into adolescence and begin to push away from their parents, Consuls can take this transition personally. Feeling like they are losing their children, Consul personalities sometimes try to prolong their dependence as long as possible. Itās important to remember that when grown children leave the home, itās because their parents were successful in preparing them for the next phase of their lives, an accomplishment Consuls can be proud of.
Consulsā children will always appreciate the sensitivity and warmth that they were raised with, and as time goes on and they have their own children, they will cherish the fact that those children have the benefit of grandparents who love and care for them unconditionally.
Career Paths
Because Consulsā traits are so strongly expressed, leading with practical sense and social vigor, the careers they find most satisfying usually revolve around making the best use of these qualities. Consuls are well-organized, enjoying bringing order and structure to their workplaces, and often work best in environments with clear, predictable hierarchies and tasks. Monotony and routine work are not a challenge for the Consul personality type, as they are happy to do what needs to be done.
Altruistic Motivations
Careers as administrators are a natural fit, allowing Consuls to organize not just an environment, but the people in it. Their practical skills combine well with their dependability, making Consul personalities surprisingly good accountants ā though they often prefer to be personal accountants, helping people and interacting with them directly, instead of corporate accountants crunching numbers in some back room.
Purely analytical careers are often too dull for Consuls though ā they need human interaction and emotional feedback to be truly satisfied in their line of work. Good listeners and enthusiastic team members, people with the Consul personality type are excellent providers of medical care and social work. Teaching is another great option, as Consuls are comfortable with authority, but are supportive and friendly enough to keep that authority from feeling overbearing.
Consulsā best careers all have the additional benefit of providing them with perhaps their most important requirement: to feel appreciated and know theyāve helped someone.
Being as altruistic as they are, Consuls find it hard to be satisfied unless they know theyāve done something valuable for another person. This is often the driving force behind Consulsā careers and career advancement, and makes religious work and counseling particularly rewarding.
Whatever they choose to do, Consul personalitiesā comfort with busy social situations and practical knowledge and skills come together to create people who are not just able to be productive and helpful, but people who genuinely enjoy it.
Workplace Habits
When it comes to the workplace, Consuls have clear tendencies that show through regardless of their position. People with the Consul personality type thrive on social order and harmony, and use their warmth and social intelligence to make sure that each person knows their responsibilities and is able to get done what needs to get done. Consuls are comfortable, even dependent on clear hierarchies and roles, and whether subordinates, colleagues or managers, Consul personalities expect authority to be respected and backed up by rules and standards.
Consul Subordinates
With clearly defined responsibilities and a sense of purpose, Consuls are patient, efficient, hard-working people who respect the authority of their managers. While Consuls may struggle with too much freedom and improvisation, they thrive in workplaces with structure, safety and guidelines. Routine tasks are not a problem for Consuls, and their dedication and loyalty earn them the respect of their managers.
Consul Colleagues
Teamwork is a concept that Consuls have no trouble putting into practice. Often seeking friends at work, people with this personality type are almost always willing to lend a hand when and where itās needed. Excellent networkers, Consuls always seem to āknow just the guyā to bring a project together on time. On the other hand, Consuls often need to work on a team ā being stuck alone chipping away at paperwork for days on end just leaves them tired and unfulfilled.
Consuls take pride in these qualities, which has the side effect of making them particularly sensitive when they come under criticism. When their suggestions and help are turned down, Consul personalities can take it personally. Already somewhat vulnerable to stress, rejections like these can be pretty demoralizing, and Consuls may need their coworkers to make an effort to express their appreciation from time to time.
Consul Managers
Consuls enjoy the responsibility that comes with organizing social situations, and the enjoyment they feel in managing other people translates well into management positions. As team leaders, Consuls find ways to make everyone feel involved, uniting people and smoothing relations in order to get things done.
At the same time, Consuls have a strong respect for traditional power structures, and if after all their efforts convincing their subordinates to work together someone ends up challenging their authority, they can stress out, lose their temper, and just generally react badly. People with the Consul personality type are sensitive about their status and dislike conflict, and prefer situations where everyone knows their role. So long as expectations are clearly outlined, Consuls are effective and enjoyable managers.
Conclusion
Few personality types are as practical and caring as Consuls. Known for their social and administrative skills, Consuls are good at creating and maintaining a secure, stable and friendly environment for themselves and their loved ones. Consulsā dedication is invaluable in many areas, including their own personal growth.
Yet Consuls can be easily tripped up in areas where their kindness and practical approach are more of a liability than an asset. Whether it is finding (or keeping) a partner, learning to relax or improvise, reaching dazzling heights on the career ladder, or managing their workload, Consuls need to put in a conscious effort to develop their weaker traits and additional skills.
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The Mandalorian receives the message some time after leaving Nevarro on his way to Corvus, and though for a moment he thinks himself too busy to attend to itā Iām finally going to see the Jedi, finally, for the kidā the recognition of Vanthās busted arm sends a chill through him that isnāt just worry.
The Mandalorian is older, now. More experienced, now. Has lived more of life than he ever thought he would, now, and knows when to feel his emotions in full and when to use his head.
But the memory of Mos Pelgo is sweet in his mind. The memory of the last dinner heād shared with its people is even sweeter. Vanthā¦ The feel of the manās arms around him, hugging him true in a way heād missed since the loss of his home on Concordia, lingers like a ghost. For better or worse, the Mandalorian doesnāt forget kindness. In the same way heāll never forget the community heād had before the Great Purge, the days heād spent in Mos Pelgo and the names heād memorised will never leave him.
So the anger sweeps over him in a way thatās as surprising as it is refreshing. In some profoundly stupid way, the Mandalorian thinks heās glad to care so much about a place again to be this pissed on their behalf, but as all profoundly stupid things go, this fades as quick as itād come.
Itās his good fortune that Tatooine is between Corvus and Nevarro (sort of, if ābetweenā means āthe trajectory will have to diverge in a hard left to get to Taooine and back in a hard right to get to Corvusā). Though he sends a holo of his own, itās nothing too elaborateā all the Mandalorian says in it is something along the lines of Iām jumping into hyperspace. On my way.
And sure enough, by the time he lands, Tatooineās binary suns are close to their position for high noon.
The Child is still half asleep and carried in one arm when they emerge from the Crest, and the Mandalorianās wrapped him up in a blanket that hoods over half his face to hide his eyes from the sun. He doesnāt waste any time; people are quick to direct him to where Vanth is, and if his concern was bad enough seeing the manās terrible excuse of a projection, it sparks up into a flame when he sees it with his own two eyes.
He swallows the are you okay that wells in his throat. The Child, none the wiser and still drowsy, sighs against his cuirass as he snoozes again.
āWhatās the plan?ā the Mandalorian asks without hesitation. From what Vanthās told him, though, itās not like they have a lot of time.
The message had reached themāāhad reached Cobbāābut theĀ overwhelming reliefĀ of hearing the Mandoās answer is short-lived.
Anything could happen between the receipt of that message and tomorrow night. How many times had the other been sidetracked and forced into detours for whatever reason? So much as he would love to do so, he canāt countĀ on the presence of the other as an absolute, and as he canātā¦ Well. He has to plan for the possibility that help never arrives.
Heās never been much one for intricate plans. While heās always tried to have someĀ idea of what he intends and the manner in which he intends it to happen, the details were seldom decided in advance. Now, howeverā¦ His people are relying on him and he wonāt fail them.
And so, preparations are made, and by the time that much anticipated and hoped for ship approaches from along the horizon, the townsfolk are well into their work. As one might expect, despite the doctorās [Ā ordersĀ ] suggestions, their Marshal is right there with them, busted arm and all, doing what he can to help. He only stops when the Razor Crest lands on the outskirts as it had beforeāāno sandstorm in sight this time and isnāt that a damnable shame as it might have dissuaded the current threatāāand he brings his uninjured arm to swipe sweat from his brow. Even heās quite certain it doesnāt do much to help his appearance.Ā
Pain has drawn his face taut, the tensionĀ lingering just below the skin and right down to this bones, and the cause is readily apparent, as much for how his arm is still immobilized as for the bloom of red at his shoulder, peeking out from beneath a few layers of bandages.
Yet still, at the sight of his friend, a smile, small and exhausted but sincere, appears and he addresses the other warmly [ though without the usual handshake ].
āMando! Sāgood tā see yā again. Just wish the circumstancesād be better.ā
He sighs and shakes his head, eyes squinting against the midday suns as he looks out over the town and its people, readying for the night.Ā
āAs for a planā¦ We decided tā take an idea from the krayt dragon incident. Those outbuildinās there?ā he begins, indicating the side of town opposite the Mandoās ship. āWeāve got some explosives buried in the ground a ways pastĀ āem, on the approach intā town, ānā I intend tā get a few of my better marksmen setup along this sideāa the makeshift wall soās they can give these sonsuvbanthas our answer when it comes time, letĀ āem know what we think ābout their protection. Anā meā¦ Well. Iāll have my armor on ānā Iāll be ready for āem this time. They wonāt be catchinā me off-guard in the middleāa the night again.ā
Cobb does find pride in his title, the Mandalorian canāt help but think, but itās a fond sentiment nowā an idea inseparable from the man before him thatās inexplicably become a good friend. He shifts from foot to foot, his thumbs hooking lightly into his belt, and though he feigns at thinking about what Vanthās just said, he ends up saying, āYeah. Sooner rather than later.ā
Because he probably barely sold him on the Child being the only reason heād return, anyway.
āIt gets tense being in a ship too long,ā he whoās lived in his Crest for years now mumbles. āKidās gotta stretch his legs more as he growsā¦ā
Something, something, something. Vanth doesnāt have to listen to his half-thought nonsense when in the end, the Mandalorian is just happy to have another touchstone to return to when the journey is too weary. Looking over Vanthās shoulder and watching as the Child interacts with all the people thatād helped repair their ship (their home, when it all boils down to it), the Mandalorian thinks community will be as good for the little one as itās always been for him.
With Cobbās promise, he thinks the topic is already well-explored. As far as the Mandalorian is concerned, heās satisfied.
So, gently setting the crateās lid back on and fastening it, he nods his head in Vanthās direction once heās straightened again. āWhere do you wanna try this on?ā
He wonāt lieā it being the first time heād ever made a full set of armour for anyone makes this one of the more exciting things in his life, and itād become even more significant when heād seen how happy Vanth had been to receive it.
Itāll be part of him, the Mandalorian thinks, and it came from me.
Mando agrees to theāāadmittedly vagueāātime table, and he canāt quite help the way his smile broadens all the more. The other would be returning soonerĀ rather than later, and while thatās nothing definite, itās good enough and heāll take it.
If nothing else, it means the other willĀ return, and he can content himself with that. Itāll be something to look forward to in the coming days, regardless of how long they may be under the twin suns.
And then Mando asks him about trying on the armor and he considers for a moment.
āWellā¦ā Cobb begins glancing around then looking again to Mando.Ā
āDonāt sāpose thereās any reason I canāt just try it all on right here, is there? Sānot like Iāll be havinā tā come outta any clothes,ā he says, chuckling before he continues. āAnd itāll be easier for ya than havinā to trek all the way back intā the main of the town tā the jailhouse.ā
