The worst thing about finally coming to terms and acknowledging your limitations when youāre mentally or physically disabled, especially when itās chronic,Ā is when someone who means well, a family member, a best friend, etc. tries to convince you that you in fact do not have those limitations.
It tends to be coupled withĀ āyou can do everything you set your mind to!ā but the thing is, it takes a lot of self forgiveness and self acceptance to admit yourself you have a limitation.Ā
It is not an easy to allow yourself limitations because itās frowned upon when a disabled person does not do their best to hide their disability. When I say I cannot do something, trying to encourage me to do it anyway does not make me feel better. It instead makes me feel invalidated and fall back into the pattern ofĀ āmaybe theyāre right, and Iām just faking or being lazyā, which completely negates all the work put into the process of self love and self acceptance.