Ron's Blog

he/him, inactive

[lookwhosinsideagain-25]

I'm Ron (he/him, pallianthe lunavir) and this is my blog. I draw once in a blue moon.

I like art (puppets especially) and might post about being a-spec or fictospec. But I mostly post about Welcome Home and plurality. As well as other things I like. Oh! And I coin terms/flags. Anyone can use :)

I hate "anti-" vs "pro-" community polarization. I love discussion and nuance (without resorting to insult.)

I reblog art and things. Some stuff I reblog is nsft. I talk about sex here sometimes. Be warned.

I am one of many headmates, and I don't speak for everyone in my collective. I'm partially a fictive if you are curious

@maximilliansblog is our base account, @poliwhirl-sys is our collective blog

All plurals are welcome here.

[lookwhosinsideagain-25]

Considering leaving this whole plurality community thing. We will always be more than one, even if we are not here.

I don't think staying in this high-conflict environment is really good for us. Do you KNOW how long our blocklist is? Just so we can have a little bit of peace?

Even the small, more peaceful parts of the community are noticeably inflamed by discourse.

I've tried to coin words, to salvage what I love, but no. I really can't take this anymore.

I'm going to go run off and draw all our headmates as "OC's." In that way, I can share our joy, and show everyone the people I love so much.

If you see us out in the wild, please don't mention it.

[plurality-pet-peeves]

My pet peeve is how many in the Plural community treat fictives or introjects in general as a sign of being part of or enjoying a fandom or media when that's not always the case. Just because we have a Fictive of [insert media] does NOT mean we're a fan of it and want to become friends over it and binge watch the thing with you!! We can be friends in other ways but does it HAVE to be over mutual introjects?

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[cakeqai]

Moonghost

[PT: Moonghost].

Moonghost: A xenogender where one's gender is related to being the moon and a ghost, a moon with ghost-like qualities, and/or a ghost with moon-like qualities.

Happy Gift Day to @dollpvince from the cakeqai Mod Soda! Wishing you the very best today!

Also tagging: @radiomogai

[tidesandtwilight]

what is with the cop hate??

Oh sorry for the confusion. It’s because I hate cops

[herssian]

you can open mspaint and crudely draw the most fucked up uneven line and it'll be worth more love and support and awe than any genai piece of shit out there

[ifxybn]

I drew four OC illustrations for other people (by request). While working on them, I faced a lot of challenges — especially with poses, anatomy, and coloring. The usernames I mention below are their TikTok accounts.

The first illustration is for @thdungcutenntg’s OC. Yes, I’ve already posted this artwork before, but I wanted to share my thoughts while drawing it. I think drawing their OC in their own art style was really cute and fun to do! Most of my time went into drawing the clouds and the OC’s dress. I struggle a lot with drawing skirts that look like they’re floating in the air, so this was definitely a challenge for me. I also noticed that they ship their OC with Wally, so I added a small detail: their OC is holding Wally’s favorite red apple (more specifically, a candy apple) — it’s meant as a gift for Wally. There’s also a tiny tag that says “For Wally”, though it might be hard to see because it’s small.

Second drawing — OC by @darkxwolf80. I think their OC is very unique, and I really love the design. To be honest, I really struggle with drawing Barnaby’s body, so I decided to cover part of it with flowers and their OC, and I think the result actually worked out pretty well.

Third drawing — OC by @pickupbar3. At first, I wanted to add some Gyaru-style elements to their OC, because their design gave me Gyaru vibes. The OC’s creator even said it was okay. However, after thinking about it more, I decided not to go too far with it. Instead, I added a few subtle Gyaru-inspired details in the background, like long eyelashes and pink bows. The OC’s creator was incredibly kind and complimented me a lot — I was honestly a bit embarrassed... They even used this drawing as their profile picture for a while. Even though they’ve changed it now, it still made me really happy!

Fourth drawing — OC by @sage_artzzz. To be honest, I feel like this one turned out really bad. I don’t know why, but I suddenly felt like I forgot how to draw. The body proportions feel very off, and the colors don’t feel right either. Even so, the OC’s creator asked if I wanted to be friends — of course I said yes! They also told me I’m talented, but when I look at this drawing, I feel like I might have disappointed them. But the most important thing: they drew my OC, Noe!!! And it looks amazing! This is the first time someone has ever drawn my OC, and I’m genuinely so grateful. I really, really love it!!!

Because of my current situation, I won’t be drawing any more OC requests for now. I’m really sorry, and I hope you can understand.

[c3rvida3]

My chronic illnesses are making me ill, chronically, once more. Everybody focus their psychic beams at that rat bastard god and together we'll make that pompous sleazebag regret giving us free will. And psychic beams.

[c3rvida3]

The pain meds kicked in. I could solve any cold case in America. Perhaps a few Canadian ones as well. And everyone wants to bake me a beautiful loaf of sourdough bread. Because I am so healthy and cute.

[c3rvida3]

Sick again. 1-800-KILL-GOD.

[iliketurtles55]

(Sequel to ‘This memory is being forgotten’)

[lookwhosinsideagain-25]

Putting this on my blog because I'm not allowed to do discourse on our collective blog.

Saw someone say (in a reply, apparently not proud enough to put it in a reblog) that "appropriating medical terminology means nothing."

Which is such a stupid take. Are you cool with non-autistic people saying they have a special interest? Neurotypical people saying they have a "hyperfixation" and it's just something they kind of like?

This sort of thing waters down the meanings of words made specifically for people with certain conditions.

It happens unfortunately frequently in plural communities. Stop acting like it doesn't and just do better. Find other words.

[pro-willo-miku]

if this is about the word system, then the word is too general for it to actually be exclusive like the terms "special interest" and "hyperfixation". for it to fit that category, they'd have to be specifically taking "dissociated system" or "system of dissociated parts". not just system. system has its own regular-people definitions:

special interest and hyperfixation do not have many use-cases outside of their main uses.

[lookwhosinsideagain-25]

The word "system" for plurality specifically. You understand where it comes from, don't pretend 😒

But also "alters" and other terminology

[pro-willo-miku]

if this is about the word system, then the word is too general for it to actually be exclusive.

they'd have to be specifically taking "dissociated system" or "system of dissociated parts". not just system.

basically: endogenic systems that are experiencing plurality are still systems. it's not exclusive as a term. it's way too general to be exclusive as its own word.

[lookwhosinsideagain-25]

I'll get back to you I have a migraine rn sorry. Making your text bigger still doesn't make it right btw but I'll be able to articulate myself better in the morning ✌️

[lookwhosinsideagain-25]

Morning now. Yeah I don't really feel like doing this anymore. But I carry on...

The term "system" to refer to plurality originated in clinical contexts, regarding DID. You are right in that they said "system of parts" or "system of personalities".

In the 90's, online DID (at the time called MPD) survivor groups shortened this to "system" for easier use.

Later in the 90's, people started using the term "multiple," and discussing the existence of natural or non-disordered plurality. Folks with DID and non-disordered/natural plurals were using the word multiple. The communities mixed. Those without DID/OSDD started using "system," likely because everyone else in their community was using it.

I do not believe this was malicious, but I do believe it causes confusion. Especially to those outside our communities, if a person knows the word "system" in this context at all, it is "someone with DID (maybe OSDD) aka "multiple personalities.")

And so when people hear "non-disordered system" or "system without trauma," they stop and go "wait wait wait you can't do that." Ever wonder why? It's not necessarily hating multiplicity/plurality (though some people do: my mother, for instance, believes we are possessed by a demon.) They believe it is faking a disorder, because the language of that disorder is being used. I can't really blame them for coming to this conclusion, with the knowledge they have.

We are not talking about solar systems or ecosystems. We are talking about "system" in the context of plurality, yes? People did not just discover this word on their own ("oh yeah like an organ system!") and start using it.

I think we could start to solve this ongoing confusion by using other words. I have recently started doing this for my own collective. I used to use the word "system," but when approached with the history of the term, changed it.

Lowkey about to leave the community though so do what you want

[lookwhosinsideagain-25]

Putting this on my blog because I'm not allowed to do discourse on our collective blog.

Saw someone say (in a reply, apparently not proud enough to put it in a reblog) that "appropriating medical terminology means nothing."

Which is such a stupid take. Are you cool with non-autistic people saying they have a special interest? Neurotypical people saying they have a "hyperfixation" and it's just something they kind of like?

This sort of thing waters down the meanings of words made specifically for people with certain conditions.

It happens unfortunately frequently in plural communities. Stop acting like it doesn't and just do better. Find other words.

[pro-willo-miku]

if this is about the word system, then the word is too general for it to actually be exclusive like the terms "special interest" and "hyperfixation". for it to fit that category, they'd have to be specifically taking "dissociated system" or "system of dissociated parts". not just system. system has its own regular-people definitions:

special interest and hyperfixation do not have many use-cases outside of their main uses.

[lookwhosinsideagain-25]

The word "system" for plurality specifically. You understand where it comes from, don't pretend 😒

But also "alters" and other terminology

[pro-willo-miku]

if this is about the word system, then the word is too general for it to actually be exclusive.

they'd have to be specifically taking "dissociated system" or "system of dissociated parts". not just system.

basically: endogenic systems that are experiencing plurality are still systems. it's not exclusive as a term. it's way too general to be exclusive as its own word.

[lookwhosinsideagain-25]

I'll get back to you I have a migraine rn sorry. Making your text bigger still doesn't make it right btw but I'll be able to articulate myself better in the morning ✌️

[lookwhosinsideagain-25]

Ways you can make your headmates/kintypes/whatever art without AI (cheap paid options and free options)

⭐️ Obviously commissions, some artists offer cheap prices while they are trying to get more customers - I've gotten really good commissions for like $5 USD

⭐️ Bases! People still make them. Some are free to use (F2U) and some are paid to use (P2U). Oftentimes they'll have swappable parts in layers in a PSD file. So you just choose the parts you want and color it in :)

⭐️ Photobashing! There's lot of tutorials on YouTube. Ibispaint is a good free program for mobile, and Medibang Paint is a good free program for Windows

⭐️ Vroid studio is good for making humanoids in an anime style

❔ I guess Piccrew is an option, but in my experience all the ones with cute styles are so fucking racist... they'll have literal gray as their darkest skintone. Also hard to find for certain species

❔ I can't figure out the Sims for the life of me I'm sorry everyone but if you can that's great

[macklesufficient]

guide 4 teens

tell the cops nothing

tell the paramedics everything

ur eyebrows are fine

[duckbunny]

don't infantilise yourself. you are not a child who needs an adult to make your decisions for you. you are a splendid and magnificent autocrat and you are consulting your trusted advisors. you are exercising great wisdom by inviting an expert to give their opinion before making your ruling. often the path of wisdom is to say "good morning, I'm trying to [perform task] and I have a question about [aspect], can you tell me who I should speak to for advice?" before you do it. sometimes the path of wisdom is to hire a plumber. there are times when you cannot do things for yourself but that doesn't mean you are not an adult. you don't need a grown-up. you need a specialist.

[duckbunny]

this has come up a couple of times so let me be really really clear:

the path of wisdom is sometimes to hire a plumber.

the path of wisdom is always to hire an electrician.

[lookwhosinsideagain-25]

Putting this on my blog because I'm not allowed to do discourse on our collective blog.

Saw someone say (in a reply, apparently not proud enough to put it in a reblog) that "appropriating medical terminology means nothing."

Which is such a stupid take. Are you cool with non-autistic people saying they have a special interest? Neurotypical people saying they have a "hyperfixation" and it's just something they kind of like?

This sort of thing waters down the meanings of words made specifically for people with certain conditions.

It happens unfortunately frequently in plural communities. Stop acting like it doesn't and just do better. Find other words.

[pro-willo-miku]

if this is about the word system, then the word is too general for it to actually be exclusive like the terms "special interest" and "hyperfixation". for it to fit that category, they'd have to be specifically taking "dissociated system" or "system of dissociated parts". not just system. system has its own regular-people definitions:

special interest and hyperfixation do not have many use-cases outside of their main uses.

[lookwhosinsideagain-25]

The word "system" for plurality specifically. You understand where it comes from, don't pretend 😒

But also "alters" and other terminology

[thedamnfeds]

CONLINGUIAN

A Conlinguian (or Conlenguian) is a headmate who makes languages specifically for internal system usage. This can be for a number of reasons, such as keeping things private, journaling, wanting to seperate the system from external language, or a need for an alternative language to be used collectively to define their experiences as a system with their own words.

They might also engage in making constructed languages (or conlangs) externally as well, but this isn't a requirement.

Coined: October 11th, 2025

PLURALPEDIA LINK

WEBSITE LINK

[ID: Before you interact: I do not care who uses my terms. However, I will block liberally if I am not fond of your blog and behaviors. I believe the internet s supposed to be made your own. Please do not recoin/reupload anything-- my terms are inclusive to all. I also already repost everything to Pluralpedia,and my own website. Don't be dick.]

[radiomogai]

[PT: Conlinguian. End PT]

[saintshigaraki]

remember when you’re writing a gross and terrible power dynamic that you should be asking yourself constantly how you could make it worse and sexier