May 19
for future reference:
no bumpers is mod (me, i, dorian.)
THIS means the aragni avatar. he/they. they're warming up to using "it". proper punctuation, but no capitalization.
And this means the sugarsn@p avatar, which you have not met yet. She/her. She uses proper grammar, and seems sweeter than Aragni—or more charitable, at least.
aragni and sugarsn@p are the same person! different accounts. sugarsn@p is just aragni masking as a cis neurotypical woman, and they are fearful of what it means to leave the closet and be loved, moreso to love themself.
also, you may be inclined to trust sugarsn@p! this is how she Gets You.
#both personas are anxious-avoidant#sugarsn@p does you the disservice of pretending she isn't#mostly because she feels morally and socially obligated to do so#aragni dodges emotional connection out of fear#they know they hurt people in their “past life” but they don't know how to be better yet#so he just hides from love#platonic romantic or otherwise
