namasté

bisexual, veggie, feminist, lives in Oldenburg (Germany)

[loveisweirdsoami]

[mysharona1987]

But I would actually be fine being stuck in a luxurious 20 million dollar mansion with a large pool, a tennis court and an elaborate garden maze for months on end.

It’s like when that prosecutor argued against house arrest for Felicity Huffman and showed a picture of her massive house: “Not being allowed to leave here is a punishment!?” 

[loveisweirdsoami]

actually this depends! i get that it is tactless of celebrities to dramatize their isolation. but also: celebrities get mental illnesses, too. and they can feel lonely, too - having fans doesn.t mean they can.t. so... idk i guess the more stress one is in, the more difficult it gets to go easy on people that have it/seem to have it way easier, but instead of technically completely invalidating their pain, we should vote for politicians that are trying to achieve a society where it.s not 1 rich percent and a lot of poor people and that want to try establishing good working.conditions for everyone etc * cough * bernie sanders * cough *

[autisticexpression]

Kristen Stewart as everyone in Twilight (PG-13 version)

Bella:

Edward:

Carslisle:

Esme:

Keep reading

[cheese24k]

[loveisweirdsoami]

!!

[astrodidact]

[darkalleysunflower]

[loveisweirdsoami]

me internally when meeting literally any men i don’t know on the street after 8 pm vs. them considering to honk or yell a hey at me but there’s this one guy that openly disagrees

[loveisweirdsoami]

i want to talk about charlotte roche rn. i feel like she kept her inner child in good hands, her style is really colorful ((and) kind of simular to mine) at times. her wrinkles look like laughter and charisma. she recently joined the green party - regardless of what one thinks of this party, she joined it because she feels sorry for the animals in “mass production” and cares about saving the earth from climate change by taking responsibility as a western country and citizen. she thinks it’s actually also a question of feminism to not support how cows are artificially inseminated again and again in the meat-industry just to get their children taken away from them which is such a strong perspective to have, i mean i had thought about that it’s against animal rights but i really felt like she opened my eyes in a new way when she put two and two together like that and reminded me of the artificial insemination-aspect. she is vegan. she is a feminist. <3 !

[loveisweirdsoami]

i wonder if politicians are aware of how irrelevant it actually is if a country produces atomic bombs when the other country has atomic plants they could probably just get to with a rocket or sth and damage them to the point of a catastrophy (or can’t they?)

actually.. i guess so, those debates could be about making people feel safe or showing power

[meiziner]

“i just can’t get you out of my head, girl, your lovin’ is all I think about” 

the one where i couldn’t get the song from their ig stories out of my head so i decided to make an edit 🤷

[loveisweirdsoami]

relationship-status: juliantina-gifs

[loveisweirdsoami]

ifniwfwwniocfwoi why is it so hard to find girls that like girls, i mean what was it 1 percent that is poteeeentially interested and that i am poteentially interested in can’t we all just wear a yes-i-am-button if it’s safe for us at the time.. if you’re l/b/q and from lower saxony pls comment (my account reaches like ten people?? but anyway) or if u know a good online datingsite (i’d download a free app for that anytime but my phone doesn’t stan)

[loveisweirdsoami]

I’m not 100 percent sure if I really just made that up but if I did I am so proud lmao

CARE

Consent - first of all, u should always get a person’s consent as to wheater they really want to try/do what you are thinking of - u can get their consent or non-consent by asking, all other ways are actually less safe but if u and ur [sex]partner have had a convo about how you two specifically want to show each other consent and non-consent, you can choose careful alternatives - there are a lot of possible ways, just talk about it and make sure it’s clear for both and that there is a clear yes-way that involves an response of the other person - “if you do nothing it’s a yes” i personally think is a vague, unsafe way and it’s really not that hard to find a clear response the other person could give without “ruining the mood” and this text is only long because I am trying to be exact so that no-one gets me wrong, also you won’t need to read that everytime after you got it plus practicing it will make it easier for you and your [sex]partner to express ‘no’ and it creates intimacy to know you can feel safe with each other.

Attention - if you both gave consent (otherwise you don’t do what you planned to, that’s the little price to pay for ensuring and creating trust and comfort), i have a reminder that i think the pornindustry made more necessary than ever: pay attention to your [sex]partner - if you notice something odd, example they suddenly look unhappy, just*

Reassurance - *stop and ask if everything is alright. You also need to reassure consent if your [sex]partner had consented to something and now you want to do that again.

Evaluate - the term sounds very formal but what I am actually just talking about is: afterwards, you should talk about what happened. that can be as simple as “are you comfortable? “ and i know even that question takes some guts but it’s  worth it and it gets easier by practicing.

I know it sounds complicated, far away from what some people are used to these days and you may not like how reading this made you feel. if you read to this point i want to thank you that you cared enough to do that and if this phrase catched your eyes but you didn’t read the rest feel free to do so now i’d be glad if you do. if this makes you uncomfortable because of your past, weather you feel like you have been treated poorly by someone (not because they didn’t follow this literally but because they didn’t give you the feeling that they cared) or like you treated someone else poorly (same goes for this one: not because you didn’t follow this but if you feel like if you’re honest with yourself you just didn’t care in the past) : this can be your chance to start doing better, don’t shame yourself like crazy, you can do better, i wholeheartedly believe that.

ps: but please do not take this as an argument to shit on people if they don’t want to restart an old relationship for example. no-one ows you because you are trying to be nicer and you don’t owe anyone because they are trying to be nicer. you can all become happy again anyway! <3

[telnaga]

living has always been a large part of my life. I was born at an incredibly young age, and ever since then, I have been alive

[dialectiddy]

College entrance essays be like…

[loveisweirdsoami]

Geneo Personal by Pollogen

omg i think i’m gonna have nightmares of that intro,

i kinda stan the whole commercial looks like they don’t want to sell this shit lmao,

but actually i don’t stan cause the intro and the sexist roles

[ampervadasz]

A zsenik köztünk élnek

[loveisweirdsoami]

Me when i try to study last minute and finally show my minor issue that i let stop me for hours to anyone else

[babyanimalgifs]

this cat tapped her back in her sleep

[princesstigerbelle]

Pep pep pep pep

[neon-genesis-evandoglion]

They both tapped the same number of times

[fuckyeahcyrus]