[loveridden1999]

top 3 hobbies for young adults:

1. borrowing misery from future

2. carrying grief of the past

3. agonizing over the present

[lovino666]

20 years from now on when I dream about my friends I will look like I could be someones parent and they will still look like kids.

[lovino666]

My intelligence was always my favourite thing about myself but sometimes I really wish I was less gifted so that I would'nt feel the guilt of wasting my potential everytime I catch myself dreaming about spending my life painting and writing instead of using my brain for something that could change the world of science

[batsandboba]

“scientists don’t want you know” is a phrase that always cracks me up because if you actually meet a scientist they will be shaking and crying like an overstimulated chihuahua with the need to let you know

[lovino666]

I'm a biology major and I can't even describe how accurate this is. We will be in a lecture about some random ass protein and the proffessor will almost start stuttering due to pure ectasy because they have the chance to tell us about the time they worked on said protein 30 years ago. They do the same lecture every year. They tell 200 students about their involvement every single year and they are still "crying shaking chihuahua" about it.

[lovino666]

Xue Meng: *is so disgusted about the possibility of a student in his mid 20s dating his 30 yo teacher that he can't bear to think about it*

Also Xue Meng: *kinda lowkey is in trouple with 2 twins*

[pakhnokh]

Chu Wanning's phoenix eyes sketch practice

Taxian Jun, when he's motivated by (what he thinks is) hate towards his shizun, but then sees those phoenix eyes and they drive him crazy

[raineofthedragons]

Welcome to danmei! We have:

- Guy who’s in love with his pet fish

- Guy whose boyfriend has been dead for 16 years

- Guy whose boyfriend nearly committed genocide

- Guy whose boyfriend actually committed genocide

- Luo Binghe

- Guy who accidentally fell in love with the dude he intended to manipulate into villainy & evil

- And more!

[lovino666]

I don't like how jacked Mo Ran is. Like I'm bawling my eyes out, throwing up, crying over how beautifully heart wrenching this story is and then I turn over the page and there it is.... MO RANS GIANT FUCKING TITS STARING AT ME, RUINING MY CRYING SESSION

[its-not-fate-its-destiny]

Fandoms stopped being a fun escape from reality when people started spreading the belief that you should prioritize purity over pleasure and the art you create must be a reflection of your moral standards at all times.

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

I need tiktokers to understand that ao3 has been home for the freaks (affectionate) ever since the day it was created. the entire site was created because “dark and fucked up fics” were banned and removed from other platforms, so us freaks came together and created a site for other freaks — a site where nothing is censored, a site with no algorithm, no capitalism, no ads, and again, absolutely no censorship.

this has been our house for decades. you newbies don’t come into our house and tell us how to arrange our furniture. either be nice and respect our house, or leave and build your own house elsewhere.

[lovino666]

I think the answear to all of my problems is living and acting like 13 yo me again because that guy was full of joy and whimsy while actively walking through hell.

[depsidase]

[lovino666]

Starting to feel more and more disgusted with myself because I don't pass anymore. I thought I was over it and accepted that I had to wait for medical transition (which I'm actively working on getting) and not giving a fuck until then but it's gettig worse every day. I know it sounds bad but I mainly feel this way because I feel like all of my friends think I'm faking being trans and that they just view me as a ugly, disgusting women who fetishizes the fact that she is able to have a gay bf... But starting to put in more effort would kinda make it worse. I still would'nt pass and I would have to deal with my bfs family being gross to me again (when I was passable they constantly made up shit about me, called me disgusting and tried kicking my bf out for being with me. Now that I look like a girl, they are so sweet to me... ) I just can't do this shit anymore. I live in a country with access to gender affirming care, I was lucky enough to live my whole childhood and teenage years as a boy. I don't have parents so I can do whatever I want. I will work in a field where noone gives a fuck but I somehow still live in a situation where just looking somewhat like a guy again would ruin my life in a way. I honestly don't know how 5-18 yo me did it. I just couldn't deal with the psychoterror from everyone anymore. I'm just so over everyone not letting me be. This is what people mean when they say that most detransitioners are trans and just doing it because of their curcumstances. I just can't handle loosing the peace and quit. I'm so tired over everyone hating me for simply existing. I wish I could just wake up in a life where it wasn't this way. I'm so jealous of transpeople who actually have supporting spcial circles and that can transition without having to keep it secret from certain people

[lovino666]

Just downed 2 iced americanos after taking my adhd meds. Pray for me

[lovino666]

jsyk the apostrophes in didn't and wasn't go in-between the n and t because it's did not and was not, the apostrophe replaces the missing letter(s) (would've is correct though, it's replacing the ha in have) ☺️ /not mean

I'm german and my autocorrection doesn't correct english words so when I'm sleepy or f-ed up I'm on my own with spelling stuff but thanks for the note haha

[immortalsarcasm]

Can we stop making a cis man’s interest in something not stereotypically marked as ‘masculine’ a sign that he’s an egg and *actually* just a closet trans woman? Can we stop making a trans man’s continued interest in things he enjoyed pre-transition as a sign that he’s *actually* not really a trans man and just a confused girl who needs to be reprogrammed and detransitioned?

Can we stop trying to make men that don’t identify as women be women because some folks have decided Woman is the Only Valid and Superior gender? It’s really *not* the elevated take you dipshits are trying to spin it as.

It’s just gender essentialism.

[lovino666]

I feel like not enough people grasp the importance of this so I'll add my 2 cents. My boyfriend is a cis man who has stereotypical feminine taste in almost everything. He loves everything cute and pink. He never felt dysphoric or anything like that but 2 years ago there was a phase in his life where he was miserable because this exact rhetoric pushed him to believe that he HAS to be a trans women. He started to socially transition, which made him feel uncomfy. It took around 4 months for him to realize that he practically gave himself "reverse gender dysphoria" by trying to force himself to be a women. He is fine and happy now but he could just as well have ended up with some unreversable stuff done to his body which he would have deeply regreted just because we still push those ideas in the 21th century...(And before anyone tries to say that I'm a terf or something along those lines: I'm a bisexual trans guy. I would'nt have minded if he was actually trans at all. I supported him when he identified as a women and even tho I did feel like something was'nt right I gave him space to figure it out instead of being a gatekeepy asshole about it.)

[lovino666]

It has been barely 6 weeks of cold wheather and I'm currently on my 3rd cold. My imune system ist so fucked