@lovinomogai is a blog dedicated to the coining of mogai/liom terms, ranging from xenogenders to mental health terms. this blog is not focused on queer discourse or system discourse, so don't go into our ask box hounding us to give a stance on such topics! the only thing you need to know is we do NOT want radqueers or xenosatanists interacting.
our tags are as follows:
#⎯⠀ coining
#⎯⠀ reblog
#⎯⠀ lovino talks
#⎯⠀ ask replies
#⎯⠀ me (<- specific tag for reblogs. i relate to a term or it's a character i kin or am a fictive of? throw on the me tag)
below is our dni:
᧔ෆ᧓ 𓂃 ABOUT LOVINO
hi my name is lovino/romano, i use essentially any pronouns i dont care much if i'm being honest. i'm sixteen years old, queer and transgender. i am the host of a dissociative identity disorder system and a multisource fictive. interact with caution/care at all times. when referring to the blog as a whole, i will use we/us, but if i'm just talking about myself it will be limited to i/me. i have a visual impairment that can hinder my reading if i don't have my glasses on, so don't mind any missed spelling errors. i am also nonhuman, but i do not mind being referred to as a human. if you wish to refer to me as nonhuman, my nonhumanity is specific to being an angel, zombie and robot :-) so do with that what you will. i will likely be the only alter posting to this blog, but don't be shocked if someone else chimes in. below is an image of all my identities
Anti-masculinity and Transandrophobia within Mogai.
Trigger warnings for discussion of the following: transandrophobia, terfism, racism, and bigotry under the cut.
Note: I, Calypso, have been out as a trans guy for 8+ years and have been the victim of transandrophobic aggression, including hate crimes and IRL longterm harassment. do not come onto this post and argue with me about the usage of 'transandrophobia'.
If sentences seem jumbled, this is because I struggle a lot with stringing together sentences that make sense or are grammatically correct. I apologize if parts of this are difficult to read due to this. Tagging @radiomogai for reach.
There is a large transandrophobia shaped elephant in Mogaiblr. I've noticed it, others have noticed it, you've probably noticed it, but nobody wants to talk about it. We all tiptoe around it instead.
With the rise in discussions about misogyny within mogaiblr, there have been folks who looked at the very much valid discussions that have been held and, instead of walking away with the thought of 'we should uplift, support, and cherish the women and girls within in our community', they walked away with the idea that trans men & masculinity in general are to blame for the misogyny in mogai.
It's no secret that there has been a very sharp, very dangerous increase of bigotry towards trans men&mascs (especially tmoc) on tumblr, we've seen it with large bloggers like isuggestforcefem, pocket-deer-belly, yay-bunnies, and others encouraging sexual harassment, cyber-stalking, abuse, and cruelty towards trans men, especially those of us whom they deem to be "transandrobros".
Hell, accusations of rape, nazism, racism, transmisogyny, and being a terf are routinely trotted out against the coiner of transandrophobia! Even though these allegations have been proven false about a dozen times over!
How does this tie into mogaiblr? Well, mogaiblr has an anti-masculinity issue - not just when it comes to men, but when it comes to women as well. Notice how few terms for masculine-aligned women there are compared to the abundance of terms for feminine-aligned women? How a lot of feminine-centered coiners seem to treat 'masculinity' as interchangeable with 'man'?
This anti-masculinity that is rampant in the mogai community is intertwined with racism, as well. Have you noticed how many Black coiners are automatically assumed to be masculine/man-aligned without any thought? How many asian coiners (especially coiners who are east asian and/or southeast asian) are denied the option of masculinity and instead automatically assumed (and pressured) to be feminine/woman-aligned?
I do not bring this up in an attempt to stir drama, I bring this up to try and combat transandrophobia within a community that I love with every inch of my heart and soul. Mogai is so important to me, it's deeply integrated into my daily life and thoughts, amd Mogai helps me cope with my chronic suicidalness and gender dysphoria. I want to help this community and the folks within be the best we can be.
╋━━━ㅤㅤㅤ a term describing those who feel as though they have a hole in their heart. created with those who experience chronic emptiness / similar or identity struggles in mind ( such as pwbpd , pwszpd , etc.. )ㅤㅤㅤ✶
an alter role/term inspired by our habit ficive (hence the purple) whom i definitely do like (sarcasm), as i very kindly put his alter role on our simply plural as 'evil bitch' and 'rabid animal'
this is of course a term made for fun/as an inside joke, and not meant to be taken seriously. it's all for jokes and has no set meaning, but if i were to give one to evil bitch it would be 'a role for an alter who acts in a way that could make them be considered evil'. rabid animal is just rabid animal i feel like it's quite self explanatory (and as a disclaimer our habit fictive finds these labels funny and is nonhuman). the flag can be used for either term it doesn't matter much
tags (feel free to ask for removal or to be added! this list differs from my promopost list and unless you ask to be added it is just mutuals): @keingender @comicbookluv3r
hi, my name is lovino or romano. i run this blog dedicated to coining mogai/liom terms and anything similar that has to do with identity. my primary focus is things like mental health related terms, xenogenders, neogenders, lesbian terms, aspec terms and npts (name/pronoun/title). i may do other things from time to time as i do take requests for what people would like to see! (taglist below cut)
tags (feel free to ask for removal! i won't take it personally at all) @rwuffles @radiomogai @pupcoins @angelomour @keingender (thats oomf) Thats all i can think of now MYBAD
an [x]cognen (link) term; for those who feel more comfortable, grounded, secure, or generally at-ease with their perception of self while calling with ones partner.
A term for those who enjoy filling out surveys, participating in research, answering polls, and so on. This may be due to a desire to talk about one's experiences, a love for the concept of data collection, a strong interest in the final results, or any other reason!
Inspired by the wave of LIOMOGAI surveys, but can be applied to any topic. "Trap-happy" is a reference to the same term in ecology/biology where an individual animal is more likely to be caught repeatedly, which could be out of desire for the reward (bait) or a lack of fear. Respondent is an alternate name.
Stripe color meanings: research, surveys, enthusiasm/love/enjoyment, ones own input, & processed/collected data. Symbol by me! Plus bonus content (credit appreciated but not required):
[ID: Five versions of the same userbox. It has dark blue text on warm off-white, outlined in warm browns. The icon on the left is a cardboard box propped up by a wooden stick, which has a string tied to the bottom. Underneath it is a white clipboard with some scribbles and a pen beside it. They read: 'this user loves taking surveys', 'this user enjoys taking surveys', 'this user is trap-happy', 'this user will be such a good data point', and 'mmmmm surveys ,,,'. /End ID]
Tagging @sabzalltheabove , @radiomogai
A five stripe flag with thinner stripes towards the middle. In the center is a symbol of a cardboard box propped up by a wooden stick, which has a string tied to the bottom. Underneath it is a white clipboard with some scribbles and a pen beside it. The stripe colors are warm off white, light beige, warm dusty orange, dark brown, and dark greyish blue.
an x-prone(link) term for when one is prone/sensitive to attention seeking/being an attention seeker. made with cluster b disorders in mind, but not exclusive!
taglist – @radiomogai @omiag-esp @honey-makes-mogai @spectrral @rroard @queergutz, x-prone by @insomniic, colours from the attention seeker reclamation flag(link) and symbol from the attention seeker role flag(link).
flag ids in alt text & under cut.
[id 1: a rectangular flag with 9 horizontal stripes. all the stripes are straight except for the top, bottom, and middle stripes which are spiky, the middle stripe with smaller and closer together spikes than the outer stripes. from top to bottom, the flag colours are purplish-blue, pale pink, pale yellow-green, magenta, pale cyan, magenta, pale yellow-green, pale pink, and purplish-blue. in the middle of the flag is a dark purple spiked circle with a white outline. in the middle of this circle is a dark purple warning symbol with a pale cyan outline and pale cyan exclamation mark. the flag has a dark purple border with quarter-circles of the same colour at each corner. end id.]
[id 2: a rectangular flag with 9 horizontal stripes. all the stripes are straight except for the top, bottom, and middle stripes which are spiky, the middle stripe with smaller and closer together spikes than the outer stripes. from top to bottom, the flag colours are purplish-blue, pale pink, pale yellow-green, magenta, pale cyan, magenta, pale yellow-green, pale pink, and purplish-blue. in the middle of the flag is a dark purple spiked circle with a white outline. in the middle of this circle is a cyan icon of a megaphone. the flag has a dark purple border with quarter-circles of the same colour at each corner. end id.]
[id 3: a rectangular flag with 9 horizontal stripes. all the stripes are straight except for the top, bottom, and middle stripes which are spiky, the middle stripe with smaller and closer together spikes than the outer stripes. from top to bottom, the flag colours are purplish-blue, pale pink, pale yellow-green, magenta, pale cyan, magenta, pale yellow-green, pale pink, and purplish-blue. in the middle of the flag is a dark purple spiked circle with a white outline. in the middle of this circle is a warning symbol, coloured in a gradient from magenta to purplish-blue, with a pale yellow-green outline and pale cyan exclamation mark. the flag has a dark purple border with quarter-circles of the same colour at each corner. end id.]
Newsie - a term for beings who present in a masculine way related to youth, being “scrappy”, cities, brotherhood, fighting, musical theater, and the musical Newsies. Prn may also relate to other Newsies attributes and aesthetics and base prns presentation on that.
Opera Mask- a term for beings who present in a masculine way related to opera, love, obsession, secrets, horror, elegance, musical theater, and the musical Phantom of the Opera. Prn may also relate to other Phantom of the Opera attributes and aesthetics and base prns presentation on that.
Revolutionary- a term for beings who present in a masculine way related to history, politics, debate, writing/literature, musical theater, and the musical Hamilton. Prn may also relate to other Hamilton attributes and aesthetics and base prns presentation on that.
Muses’s Son- a term for beings who present in a masculine way related to music, romance, activism, flowers, the concept of “waiting”, musical theater, and the musical Hades Town. Prn may also relate to other Hades Town attributes and aesthetics and base prns presentation on that.
Red Slush- a term for beings who present in a masculine way related to violence, being unstable, highschool, being an outcast, musical theater, and the musical Heathers. Prn may also relate to other Heathers attributes and aesthetics and base prns presentation on that.
Warrior of the Mind- a term for beings who present in a masculine way related to sailing, the ocean, ancient Greece, charisma, yearning, musical theater, and the musical Epic. Prn may also relate to other Epic attributes and aesthetics and base prns presentation on that.
