Motivated By Being Kept Chaste

Excerpts, stories, and captions of F male chastity as a motivational tool. My wife keeps me locked to stay productive. Stories are mine, captions and images come from other sources. 18+ only.

[sexercise-chastity]

Sexercise Chastity -

An idea I've been thinking about for a while now, and is designed to - hopefully - help keep me more motivated and disciplined in keeping up with my fitness goals...

That is, I stay caged (using numbered locks) until I ~complete~ four FIVE individual Exercise/Fitness activities.. Once that is completed and recorded here, I am allowed to uncage / edge / ejaculate for the next 24 hours..

These activities would include: Walking 3+ miles (using a weighted vest) Lifting weights - complete Burpees - 60 reps Round of golf Sailboat racing (I will uncage before the actual race, but re-cage when I get back home. Believe me, it's the prudent thing to do) May add more things to do, and required to do, but the point is to be fit ~and~ productive.. Which is definitely a win.... It's also a bit of a fitness diary as well... Probably helpful... Also giving thought to going to FIVE-Day Lockups, once I get 50 followers.. UPDATE: I'm there!! :-O

Regardless, after the free 24 hours, I'll re-cage myself, with a new numbered single-use lock... Then the required-activity "clock" starts over again..

Any comments and encouragement are much appreciated.... Thanks!!

[chastity-as-motivation]

Here's an interesting take on chastity as exercise motivation. A little different from my current program, but seems solid too. He's up to 5.

I work out 6 days a week - I wish I got to orgasm every week!

Meanwhile, in my denial land, I got with .6 pounds of my milestone before I had to go out of town on business for an entire week. Back now, back in my routine - 1.4 pounds left. Last milestone orgasm was Oct 1, but the wife decided to ruin a couple around my trip - one right before I left, and then one the night I got home. I'm hoping to hit this goal this week, and then my next is scheduled for 6 more pounds of weight loss - probably about 3-4 weeks. So, give @sexercise-chastity a follow - he's up to 5 workouts between releases, but I think he can do better than that!

[malechastitycaptions]

[chastity-as-motivation]

Cute that you thought pleading would help. Here’s how this actually works: You shrink. You scrub. You submit. Maybe then I’ll consider loosening the lock for a single, controlled reminder of why you’re kept. Until then — be useful, pet. That ache is the point.

#locked #chastity #denial #service #miss

[blueballs-forever]

[chastity-as-motivation]

43 days locked, almost 20 lbs gone, tighter habits and sharper focus than I’ve ever had. The ache hasn’t broken me—it’s made me better. Miss was right: I’m clearer, calmer, and more useful without release than I ever was with it.

[malechastitycaptions]

[chastity-as-motivation]

“Sweetheart…” 37 days locked. 16.8 lbs gone. Five weeks under Miss’ leash and you’re leaner, sharper, and finally useful. Every chore done without a word, every log precise, every glance at Me met with obedience. That cage? It aches on purpose. Those aching balls are the small, delicious cost of what you’ve become—and you will keep this up for Me.

[grumpy2017-deactivated20230101]

[chastity-as-motivation]

Here we find ourselves, yet again. I need to get motivated and take proper care of myself. This fall, we did about 6 weeks of this, and I lost about 15 pounds as a result. Now that the holidays are over, I’ve asked for “the program” to return. It has, stricter than last time.

I’m responsible for tracking the points. Every day I close all 3 rings on the Apple Watch is worth a point. Every pound I lose is 5 points. My first reward is at 50 points. Last time, that took almost 4 weeks, and the rules were easier - I got a point each for Exercise and Move rings. So, here we go...

[chastity-as-motivation]

Back(ish)

As I’ve mentioned before, we swap roles from time to time. A couple weeks ago, after being the dominant partner in our relationship since before thanksgiving, I found myself craving.

But not her sultry lips, or the feel of her grasping pussy as I thrust into her, our even the sweet whimpers and begging of her approaching orgasm. I wanted to feel the restriction of steel & the return of frantic desire again.

As seems to be the case, it started with an unusually busy couple weeks where we didn’t get a chance to play but once or twice. I needed a connection, so I slipped a device around my cock one day before work, then left the keys on her vanity. Nothing mentioned about it, and we both went on for over a week. Me locking every morning, wearing all through the day until almost bed time. That weekend, when time was more fluid, we got down to a long session, and I found myself dangling on the edge very quickly. I stopped, and started, and stopped again...

“What’s got you so close so soon?”

“Well, it has been about a week, and I’ve been pretty horny, but the late nights haven’t allowed any time, and now I’m just quick.”

“I know you can last longer than a week, you do it all the time!” (This made it MUCH worse)

One thing lead to another,I talked about how I had been wearing the device during the day, and how I wasn't sure what I wanted right now, if it was to finish, or be told no, or just to let her have that control either way. She laughed, and remarked "not like it's your decision, I'll decide for you" then sped up until wi was barely hanging on. "Let's get you empty for tonight, but I want you locked when we're done" that did it, out came the torrent. That was almost 2 weeks ago. Since, we've aged almost every night, and I've been locked every so how day and through several overnights.

She's been much more verbal in her teases. More than ever before. I'm teetering on an edge this past weekend, she's telling me how I'll be back in the cage as soon as she grows bored watching me squirm. Then she tells me that my next tease should probably be while caged, with no release, then describes how she wants to make me cum in the cage, how that is a goal of hers - "then I could just leave you locked up and use other methods to occasionally relieve the pressure (as her finger pushes it's way into my ass)"

A couple days later, we are playing and she pushes a good size plug into my ass with a little warm up. I'm still in the cage, and she's been sucking my balls and licking exposed portions of my cock while I tremble and drop. This, of course intensifies the dripping, and she decides to unlock me for more thorough edging. First one finger up and down the underside of the shaft. I squirm, and beg, and a second finger glides alongside it. Eventually her whole hand gives just one firm stroke and I use everything I have to avoid losing 8 days of pent up cum.

One more stroke, same result. The next produces a large amount of precum, which makes the next ones smoother and more intense. She build a rhythm up and has me incoherent. Then she slaps the base of the plug and I nearly lose it. Another slap, and another, and another. Several in rapid succession. I'm completely lost at this point and she tells me "that's it, cum now" and the strokes stop but the slaps don't. This doesn't quite do it. After 20 seconds or so, she scolds me for not listening, and starts stroking again.

Even closer this time, and I'm begging to be allowed to cum now. She says I should have done it earlier and keeps going. As I thrash about, I feel her hand pull away from my cock just as she gives me permission again. This time, I erupted. Well, as much as an orgasm without penile stimulation can be an eruption. Most of it just dropped from the tip for what seems like minutes. "I really didn't plan on letting you do that for another week or so, but when I hit that plug and you reacted, I knew I just had to give it a try. Hope you liked it, it'll be a while before you get another. Maybe before our vacation trip, but probably not until after. I think weekly is too much for you."

That was tuesday. Here I sit on Thursday. Locked. Ready and eager for more. The edge really never went away. Still feel like I'm over a week denied horny. We leave on Sunday, maybe before the trip? During? After?!?

[chastity-as-motivation]

Hmmm... I was thinking I should hit the weights again, may just be the nudge (shove) I need.

[grumpy2017-deactivated20230101]

[maledenial]

[strugglingchastity]

Thats the way to live. This evening my footstool made me dinner and made me cum. What more could I want? Should probably untie before bed.

[humiliationfantasy-deactivated2]

[chastity-as-motivation]

I can honestly say, enjoying might beer the wrong word this morning. In the last week, I've gotten very comfortable in the cage. Overnights are no longer a problem, and my wife knows this.

Last night, I ate her out and fucked her with a dildo. She got off - hard. I strained within a metal cage less than a quarter the size of my erection (I'm a grower).

After I finished pleasing her, she started in on my tender balls and trapped cock. After informing me it wasn't coming out tonight, she asked "Do you want to leave this here tomorrow?" (I'm speaking at an out of town event). I thought she meant this = my cock and here = the tiny cage it is fully occupying. She actually meant I could have the day free if I wanted. Too bad I begged her to stay locked in the tight cage...

There is a big difference in chastity when it doesn't come off at night. In earlier variations, I could look forward to an unlocking before bed, even if I got nothing else, I'd be fully and gloriously hard. Last night, I strained against my prison until I drifted off to sleep. This morning I awoke with a saying hard-on in the tiny cage. Now to shower, and face there day locked in chastity

[grumpy2017-deactivated20230101]

[chastity-as-motivation]

We are; well, she is.

An update: I've lost 15 pounds from our last challenge. We cooled it for a month or so, as I was busy with work, and the wife really wanted me in the lead for a bit.

Recently started seeing lots of posts on tumblr about locktober, and mentioned it to her. "Oh, I think that's a great idea; you need to work on wearing the new device overnight though"

So, last Wednesday and Thursday I wore it 7 am - midnight. Locked up again Friday morning and did the first overnight in the new device with no issue Friday night. Saturday we worked on projects around the house all day, then curled up to go to sleep. We discussed how the overnight had gone, and she said "good, your doing it again tonight either way, but first..." The key came out of nowhere. She slipped the cage off, but left the ring around my package and pulled me towards her. I fucked her from behind in a spooning position for about 15 minutes; she came once early on from my thrusts and then started telling me how I wouldn't get mine tonight. Then she grabbed her bullet vive and blasted her clit while I continued to thrust into her. As she worked up to a second orgasm, I was told that I would lock back up straight away When she was done, and remain caged all of Sunday.

I asked if this was how October would shape up, and just as she came, she grinned and said "oh, no...It's going to be a lot worse than this"

So, here we are at day 8. Not sure if I'll cum this week. Pretty sure I won't once October gets here. She implied earlier that this coming Saturday, she'd be giving my cock a going away present. That may be good, or it may be an entire evening of ruined orgasms until I'm dry...

[cei-cum-captions]

[chastity-as-motivation]

Conflicted.

Today marks 3 weeks since my last orgasm. It also marks the first milestone in my weight loss challenge. I woke up, stepped on the scale, and saw 209.8 - so I made it under 210. I got an instant erection, but can't do anything about it until later today. I'll be at a group thing all morning and possibly well into the afternoon. It's early, and love is still getting her beauty rest. And the rules are clear: even on this day, my reward day, i have to ask. So no sneaking of to find sweet release. Besides, she wants the huge load that is due all for her.

But then, in the back of my mind, I love this high. After 3 weeks of nearly daily teasing, I'm buzzing with horniness every single day. I hate to lose that. Yes, a part of me doesn't want to stop now. Wants to ask her to delay my satisfaction even more.

As a consolation - my chance is literally one day. Today. If I let it slip away, too bad. If I cum just once or not at all, too bad. We start the next session tomorrow.

I can't wait.

[chasti-wabbit]

[crissyscaptions]

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[chastity-as-motivation]

My lady likes the new steel device. 2 full weeks of daily wear. Just found out I'm going overnight in it for the first time this weekend. If it works out, don't expect to be getting out much in the weeks ahead.

[chastity-as-motivation]

Aftermath

Yesterday I pushed myself on a workout in the heat. Really got a sweat going. Great healthy dinner by my lovely wife, then had to go over stuff with some friends of mine. Turned down 🍺 and had water instead. Came home, tempted to crack a cold one, but stuck with water and did my chores around the house. We bedded down a little earlier than usual, and after reading for a while, her hand found its way to the cage, which I quickly filled. She played with my turgid member inside its prison for a minute or so, then retrieved the key. My heart kept, knowing I wouldn't have an orgasm (still hovering a pound away...) As she turned the lock and I sprang free. "Go ahead and remove the ring, too" I slipped it off before I became so erect it wouldn't budge, then quicjly swelled to fill mast. And that was it. "So, since you decided to disobey last night and have that little dribbling orgasm, tonight you get nothing. I would like a neck rub, and then you will go to sleep" 20 days without full release today. Drawing closer to goal #1. Maybe this weekend?

[chastity-as-motivation]

Oops...

So last night was date night. We went to dinner, had a great time having real conversations, rather than talking about Pokemon and paw patrol. I had hoped my goal would be reached and we could go find a quiet spot afterwards to relieve some 18 days of pressure. It wasn't. 210.8 came up on the scale. We still planned to go watch the sunset and enjoy each other for a bit after dinner, but then the sitter called because the baby woke up and was screaming. Instead of knocking by the lake like teenagers, we went home to soothe the little guy. Later, after snacks were had and stories were read, we curled up together, and I lamented the blow job she had tauntingly offered to me at dinner that never happened. Instead, I had stayed trapped in the new steel cage since that morning. She said "aww, it's not too late", and took me, cage and all into her mouth. After a few moments, I was bulging from every gap in the cage and absolutely dripping precum. After several more moments filled with pleasure, constriction against the cage, and her tongue reaching places I didnt know were accessable, she stopped. After I calmed down a little, she got the key and unlocked me for the evening, but told me she wouldn't do anything tonight for me freed cock, if I wanted to, I had 3 minutes and could use my left hand, but absolutely no orgasms allowed. As soon as I touched it, she started telling me I needed to hurry up and finish goal 1, that she needed me to take charge for the evening and fuck her senseless, that this didn't bode well for the 8 more 5 pound sessions she wanted me to do...The whole time, precum poured out of my cock. I stopped stroking completely twice to avoid an explosion. TIME...I let go. Then I felt it - a greater than usual tightness down deep in my balls. I flexed to stop it. I held back. Over ten seconds later, 3 drops of cum emerged one after another and simply dripped down my cock to rest at its base. I have had a lot of ruined orgasms, mostly at the hands of my wife. This was the most completely ruined orgasm I have ever had. Almost no sensation of anything. I wouldn't have believed that I'd cum at all if I hadn't seen it with my own eyes. She laughed at my frustration, then told me that I would be punished for not listening, but that would come later. We cleaned up and went to sleep.

[shyexhibitionists]

Getting better, but I had hoped to see more progress by now. Oh well, good luck hubby. Keep trying and I know you’ll get there, or not. Doesn’t really matter to me. (ha ha ha!)

-W

[femdomfitspo]

Love this challenge… Keep at it!

[chastity-as-motivation]

Not me, but at this same place.

I was hoping to get there Sunday. Ate 3 slices of pizza at a birthday party Saturday and rebounded .6 pounds instead. Really pushed myself Sunday though. Worked out for about an hour, pushing myself pretty good. The wife rewarded me with a LONG session that evening.

Monday, I was still 210.8. Typical day at work, locked up from 6:30 AM until bed around midnight.

Tuesday 211 even. Typical day, but went out to a tech event. Stayed locked, but had a beer at the event and in-and-out on the way home. No exercise, but the wife wanted sex. We went at it for almost 20 minutes, resulting in two orgasms for her.

Wednesday (today) - 211.8. Locked again, and it's date night. 18 days without an orgasm. Ready for one, but still have to get below 210 to earn it. This week maybe?

[chastity-as-motivation]

Current session update

I started out writing my experiences during week 1. Sad to say, I didn’t do a great job of keeping up with it. I managed workouts every day in week 1, and by Friday was knocking on the door of my first goal weight (210). I weighed in Friday morning at 210.6, and was pretty sure it was in the bag. Turned down a poker game Friday night - always too much whiskey, beer, and snacking going on around the table, and I was tired.

Saturday I slept in, and ended up at 210.4 that morning. From there, things got worse; I had a full day of work to do on the house, my wife went and picked up breakfast for us because I had debris all over the kitchen (remodeling sucks). She left with the kids for the day, me secured in the Ghost and the key in her pocket for the day. I got a ton done, but then we had another unhealthy meal for dinner, and I ate way more than I needed to. Was very active all day, but woke up Sunday at 212.2 from too much carbs the day before and water bloat.

Saturday night after we played for a while, she decided I should try an overnight in the Ghost (we haven’t had success in the past). I tossed and turned for about 3 hours, sleeping lightly but never really getting comfortable. I had a couple “hot” spots where it had irritated my skin earlier in the week (I wore it from 7 AM to bed time all week). I ended up removing it about 4 AM and getting a few good hours sleep.

Sunday was spent working around the house some more and doing activities with the kids again. Stayed uncaged all day due to chafing. The wife and I snuck in a quicky during the babies nap, where I took her doggie style and gave her a strong orgasm. 

Monday I worked all day and had an event that evening, keeping me out until about 9:30. No workout; no fun, but no cage all day either.

Tuesday I worked all day, but got up and went for an interval run in the morning. I spent about 30 minutes running intervals to keep my heart rate at 150+. Home for a bit, and some time out with friends for me in the evening. Home about 9, and a new cage had come in the mail. I cleaned up a couple rough spots (chinese “stainless” steel) with sandpaper and steel wool, then installed it for her inspection. We both like the fit and I have a much easier time peeing in this one (the biggest downside to the Ghost for me, and I think the cause of some of my irritation problems is the mess made when I go to the bathroom).

She gave me a short caged blow job and poked and prodded my cock as it swelled in its new prison for about 30 minutes, then we unlocked for the night and got some sleep.

Wednesday - body weight was still lingering in the 212 area. I wore the new cage all day, played some sports after work, and got unlocked for a few quick edges right before bed. 

Thursday - 211.8 in the morning. New cage all day once again, and had 2 drinks at happy hour. No workout; no action.

Friday - 211.8 again in the morning. New cage again all day. Got in a good brisk walk at lunch, and took the kids swimming for quite a while. I played with the baby and the older 2 raced each other (usually I’m in the thick of the swim races with the kids). Ate well all day, but then had a too big plate of BBQ for dinner. By the time we got home, got things done, and were ready for bed, we were both exhausted and fell asleep after a few moments of tender kisses and pillow talk.

Saturday - 210.6 morning. I played with the kids all day while my wife was out. Including taking all 3 to a swim party for about 3 hours. Exhausted from the heat, and I got a burn on my nose and stung by a wasp in the pool. It’s getting late, and the baby is down for the night. About to start chores, and get ourselves to bed. I locked up after getting home from the swim party, and will stay that way until released (tonight? tomorrow? later?)