[androwolf]

they'll call you anything but a man

boy. tboy. masc. masculine-presenting. person. they. they they they they they.

anything but a man

[marzaid]

Challenge for people to stop acting like testosterone is an evil chemical that turns someone into a monster the second it enters their bloodstream

[tboy-mag]

There’s something extremely harrowing that on the same day I saw a video from a trans man telling other trans men to check their male privilege, and the same day that I read a post from a cis woman telling trans men to stop making everything “about men” was also the same day that another Black trans man had been found dead.

I already made a post on my old blog about how white people need to stop picking and choosing which Black people they think are worthy of protection based solely on progressive points, without actually caring about the material reality, because the consequences of your little game of White Saviour is allowing Black trans people to die without so much as an acknowledgment of their deaths. I saw one post about Danny Siplin. One post cared enough to mention him, and nearly every article misgendered and deadnamed him.

The internet will let his death be forgotten about in a few days, and it fucking infuriates me. You guys need to start caring about Black trans people while they’re still alive, because their deaths are nothing but pawns to you. It’s fucking disgusting. Black trans men on this website have tried to talk about this shit, and no one is listening, because they’re not the Black people that white leftists can use to make themselves look good.

Stop using the deaths of Black trans women as a way to pretend you give a shit about racism, and stop ignoring the deaths of Black trans men entirely.

[intersexcat-tboy]

Some of you have a weakness for liking posts with pseudo feminist language that, for no reason, is aggressive towards trans men and mascs without a second thought

[transfaggism]

"i hate men and love trans people" oh girl .. There is no world in which those two ideas can coexist at the level you'd like them to

[pinkgrimwalker]

Saying that trans men missing sisterhood is "victim blaming" is fucking wild LMAO Yes, actually, it does suck to go from being seen as one of the girls to being seen as a potential threat and trans guys should be able to discuss this without being told they're disgusting rape-happy animals. Actually. Or did you forget that 1 in 2 trans men experience rape themselves?

[impperfect]

Being told I got male privilege coz I use he/him pronouns

Tell that to mah big phhaaaat titties, mate.

Tell that to the governments policing my bodaaayyyyyyy.

Tell that to the onlookers in the bathrooms that gasp and hide their children when I go in there to pIIIISSSSSS.

Tell that to the men who target me on public transport.

I could go on, get the idea?

[yaoigaysexaura]

I don't really like the whole "all transandrophobic posts are psyops" thing because it's? really not that true? i mean historically trans masculine people have been erased and made invisible (think of all the historical figures who identified as a man their whole life just to have supposed queer allies turn around to be like #girlbossss). and it's still an issue. people refuse to use gender neutral terms when talking about reproductive rights even though it'd cost them nothing. news about transmascs being forcibly detransitioned and made into breeders for the state barely make it out there. their deaths are still being labelled as femicides and terfs are still painting them as predators to little girls.

think back to how "transmasc culture" was viewed as cringe (ie: cavetown, ukelele boys, dressing styles) and how even major transmasc posters on other platforms frequently say things like "oh but our problems really aren't that bad compared to x group". think back to how feminism has made a nosedive into radical-feminism in popular culture, making it a culture of hating men and masculine individuals (which doesn't do anything btw) instead of pushing for gender equality. it's really no surprise that it would eventually end with people painting transmascs as predators even within queer spaces, because there was not enough pushback to the things that caused us to end here today. transmasculine issues being erased and out of sight, alongside the perception that men are inherently evil and 'privileged' has led people into believing that transmascs are true oppressers (whatever that means)

[gay-otlc]

Imagine writing an article about the erasure of trans men in abortion conversations and then proceeding to refer to anyone who may need an abortion as a woman. The erasure of trans men & mascs is so fucking severe that we get erased in an article about our erasure, without a hint of self awareness from the author. I'm so tired

[lurkingtman]

If your reaction to a trans man being upset about transandrophobia is "get rid of the gender binary" and "gender isn't real" I'm sorry to say this but you're not really helping anyone

[marshmellowtea]

people don't like when i get on my anti misandry soap box but you simply have to understand that as a trans man who looks functionally indistinguishable from a cis woman by choice it gets a little exhausting to be told that i'll just never understand what it's like to be a woman all the time because men are just so different and evil and i would like that to Stop Now, Please

[the-campiest-camper-of-all-time]

RANT INCOMING

transandrophobia is committed so casually people don't even notice it. what the fuck.

this tiktoker i really liked and thought had REALLY GOOD OPINIONS, just casually dropped the "yeah i am better than a man actually, that's why i became a woman. #transgender pride". for context, she was critiquing the shitty "I'm no better than a man" comments a lot of people leave under women's comment sections. and i hate those for plenty of reasons too. but it's like........ really?

like just casually throw trans men / mascs / masculine gender queer people under the bus i guess?? okay thanks

and i almost feel like i'm being over dramatic ! but it's this fucking feminine supremacy thing all over again !!! in fucking queer communities !!!!!!! WHERE EVERYONE SHOULD BE CELEBRATED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! UGHHHHH

femininity is not inherently better, let alone inherently more progressive, than masculinity / neutrality / androgyny / etc etc !

and it's such a reactionary mindset to have (not using reactionary like most people would, im using it in the commie context here, so) because it sees that femininity is (generally) shamed and made fun of (not even getting into the complexities of queer and non queer femininity) and then see (NON. QUEER.) masculinity getting uplifted and decide to say... oh, all masculinity worse. duh. i am smart because i am basically being a contrarian. overcorrecting is the way that everything should be done. take me so so so so seriously

anyways rant over thanks for reading

[lurkingtman]

I'm sick of everyones language being so cisnormative

[kriminalistic]

omg wowwwww your mpreg joke was soooooooo funny now tell me why you, someone present in queer and trans spaces, have either forgotten or are purposefully ignoring the existence of trans and intersex men. also tell me why you think pregnancy is so inherently demeaning. im waiting

[thetroublesofbeingtrans]

link to original tweet

[thegreenmeridian]

If your feminism believes that trans men were better people or were someone you could care more about before transition, your feminism is anti trans.

[lurkingtman]

It should be seen as extremely transphobic to say "men" instead of cis men when you're specifically talking about cis men but it isn't for some reason

[imthesonofrageandlove13]

Whelp, another trans man missing, possibly dead, with a suicide note. Family looking for him. Transfaguette is missing, and his last post was a suicide note. His family believes he's still alive and fates do I hope and pray that's the case, but regardless of the outcome, this is the situation. To all those who've harassed and tormented him, I would say I hope your proud of yourselves, but the problem is that I know you are. I've seen you celebrating his potential death. So instead, I'll say this;

Fuck you.

I don't care about your reasons, I don't care how you justify yourselves, I don't care what you tell yourselves I order to sleep at night, just fuck you. If the blood on your hands doesn't disgust you, fuck you. If the blood on your hands makes you proud, fuck you. A man is missing and if he's dead, his death is on your hands and your fault. If you contributed to this and are proud of it, proud of possibly killing someone, fuck you.

To his family, I hope you're right, and I hope you find him alive. To him, if he somehow happens to read this, I hope you're okay and safe. And to every single person who pushed him this far, you are a disgrace to this community and to humanity itself.

If anyone knows anything, please turn any information over to his family to help them search for him.