I. LOVE. THIS
Throughout my late teens and early 20s I would go after thin/fit women bc of social “norms” or peer pressure. Even women who were just ‘thicker’ (think Ashley Graham) my friends would say shit like “Eww she’s too fat” 😒. I also dealt with the stigma of being a decent looking dude with an athletic body. Not to toot my own horn, but I would ALWAYS get shit and judged for not going for the “9s/10s”. Yes they were conventionally attractive, but they weren’t my perfect 10. I would always have eyes for the thicker friend and caught so much hell for that.
The first bbw I dated was so fulfilling. Everything about her, not just her body, but also her personality and her nurturing nature. I was smitten. Oh and the sex! When she took off her clothes, I was so overwhelmed. The way she jiggled, her soft dimpled skin was just everything my primal brain wanted! Not that I wasn’t/am attracted to thinner women, but I had to work considerably more just to finish with them. But with BBWs I had to actually try to keep myself from finishing too quickly! Let me tell you, I was thrown for a loop! It was then I knew what I really preferred
To the young dudes that are conflicted, FUCK what your friends and society says. I still kick myself for not pursuing what I desired because of my so-called friends. I guess it really is true that the older you get the less you care. Who the fuck are they to tell you what YOUR dick should and shouldn’t get hard too?!!
I’ll close with this: Attraction to Thick/Fat/BBW/SSBBW women is not a fetish!! It’s a goddamn preference!!!
