[cis woman, she/her] Welcome to Aurora Bay, [LYDIA SAELI]! I couldnât help but notice you look an awful lot like [AMBER MIDTHUNDER]. You must be the [TWENTY EIGHT] year old [SOCIAL WORKER]. Word is youâre [EMPATHETIC] but can also be a bit [MELANCHOLY] and your favorite song is [AMERICAN TEENAGER BY ETHEL CAIN]. I also heard youâll be staying in [CRYSTAL COVE]. Iâm sure youâll love it!
â from small town south with big city dreams, Lydia knew she was destined for the bright lights, she just had to figure out how to get there. working hard in school, joining committees both in her high school and the community, she found herself taking part in teen advocacy groups and gaining traction on movements she was passionate about. she left high school with multiple volunteer spotlights and recommendations for multiple schools.
â pursued her bachelorâs in social work at Fordham in NYC and then her MSW at NYU and worked as a case manager while she finished everything else. she enjoyed continuing to advocate for her community and provide a sounding board that had a bit of pull. still, she struggled to make ends meet in college and even with scholarships, she needed to find a better way to get through her undergrad. Lydia took on the alias Lola and started an OnlyFans account where sheâd perform pole dance routines, take photos and eventually video. careful not to show her face the allure of her page became the unknown. before she knew it, she had more money than she knew what to do with after bills were paid.
â she put that funding towards community groups and charity, to her familyâs farm and stored some away to move once more to a different coast. NYC had been a fun adventure and she grew a lot both in her career(s) and as a a person, but she needed a change.
â moved to LA for the better weather and bc she was doing OF on the side, it gave her more collab opportunities. the community she was in was pretty tight knit, but even so it was clear to her it was pretty toxic. the industry is the industry and while she enjoyed the financial freedom she had, she knew it was time for her to start winding down. in LA she volunteered counseling and trauma services, worked with underserved communities, and supported shelters under her pseudonym.
â when she finished her supervisional hours, she was able to start working for a practice in LA, soon moving to AB when she decided the trauma of big cities was too much for her and the case load was overwhelming and she wanted balance. the toxicity of the sex work industry had finally gotten to her, and while she knew it was a larger problem and she had made a few good friends, it was time to bow out. besides, she wanted to start focusing on her career and being a pillar for other people without having a secret of her own hanging over her. she enjoys the time she gets to spend with people one on one and providing a safe space, when she got the opportunity to work with an individual counseling practice in AB, she jumped on it.
â upon settling into AB, she easily built up a caseload for individual counseling but also continues case management on a PRN basis since itâs still something she enjoys; just wants less of. Still has her OF but itâs very sporadic and sheâs bringing that chapter to a close as soon as she finishes paying off her condo, which sheâs very close to doing.
Fast Facts
â close with her mother but not so much her father. they never understood each other and itâs something sheâs trying to reconcile. they do not know about her work in the sex work industry she started in or her work in the porn industry and she chooses to keep it that way.
â has a toy aussie named gus that is trained as a therapy dog
â pays her mortgage in cold hard cash
â an emo kid at heart, for awhile in her teen years she thought she was going to be a pop punk queen. while that has since faded, she still enjoys singing and blasting the good stuff
â a little melancholy, a little lovesick without a lover, but very well meaning
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