I am not saying that PoJ had flawless writing, no it did not, but I see a lot of Lin’An slander in the criticism of the drama and how Changyu does not want to grow. And I do not exactly agree with the take?! She absolutely does grow up after the Lin’An massacre and wants to rebuild the place that has seen her childhood to adulthood. Lin’An is where she fell in love too. And they are not rich people cosplaying to be poor in Lin’An. From what I have gathered (and I could be wrong because I am not native Chinese) they visit Lin’An as escapade from their regal duties. When they are not defending the country or are not in Capital (because these are commitment-heavy roles and not just title) they visit Lin’An to unwind. To go back to their simpler days that they love and cherish so much. Especially because of their extremely demanding job they need a safe place and Lin’An is their safe place.
Also while we are at it, I really do not think that Changyu was wishy-washy about Xie Zheng. She loves that man, for who he is. It is not like she disrespects him as the Marquis of Wu’an or loves him any less?! Xie Zheng without those burdensome titles is Yan Zheng at his core (heck that's something he wants for himself too. He loves being her matrilocal husband — safe to say this man is secure in his masculinity). While he crafted that identity during his time of misfortune he bloomed into it. She was ready to marry Xie Zheng because she loves her man regardless of his identity or title. It just took her a while and in Episode 36 she accepted him entirely for himself (no turning back from that moment onward).
I also do not agree with doormat Xie Zheng allegations, the man is as ruthless as ever everywhere else minus when with Changyu (as it is repeatedly stated she is the sheath to his sword, where he relaxes and rejuvenates.) He still did cut off the Eunuch’s ear defying the royal decree to marry the Princess Royal Qi Shu, he still valiantly fought and escaped the trap despite being dr*gged and k!lling the Eunuch in one strike in the still inebriated state. The show did not have to explicitly show us him in war scenes to establish how skilled of an warrior he is. His precision, his skill spoke on his behalf. It is in the way he conducts himself, the way he walks, and talks that you know he is the Marquis of Wu’an. The only reason he tolerates Jin crossing line is because his wife is fond of her Squad, trust me he would not have tolerated it otherwise. The wine glass breaking scene was telling enough when he put Jin in his place without even touching his neck or killing him. By crushing the wine glass he let it be known that he is the Marquis of Wu’an and Fan Changyu is his wife and they should tread extremely carefully. He wielded his power and aura with subtlety in the show and that was killer in its effectiveness.
The drama also chose to focus on the emotional aspect of Xie Zheng and his love for Fan Changyu, who is his sun, warmth, home, hope and joy and I think it is beautiful how he never played when it came to his wife since day 1 until the very end.
Again all of this is entirely my perspective and my takeaway from the drama.
















