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I know I have a tolerant relationship to incest in media, but can incest lovers get a fucking life

#PAGES of comments calling sister other paranoia a flop just bc theres no incest #like bruh get over it. you are not entitled to incest in media about siblings.#actually. kys actually.

Insane tags to put on an eating disorder post. "You CAN control yourself, so stawwwwwp!! Stawp having an eating disorder! Don't you know you're an influencer and you're making other people around you anorexic 🥺🥺 Seriously, stawwwwwp"

#INSANE thing to say to someone who has. A Mental Illness.#''you CAN control it so the fact that you have symptoms shows you actively CHOOSE to be a bad person''#like gurl go to saneism 101. like you fucking need to.#saneism #tw eating disorders

Every day I make a vent post where someone reprimands me in comments because they misread what I said, and so I reply clarifying my stance and that I agree with them, and then they respond saying I was right and that IS a messed up thing I went through. Like girlie poppins, why did you have to stress me out just because you couldn't fucking read 😭

#can't post this on main bc COINCIDENTALLY!! it's one of my mutuals who found a vent post on a burner blog from last year #also like. gurl.#you make a vague on your blog about my vent post (where i didn't disagree with your stances btw)#about how people 'gatekeeping' drives you wild #you ONLY found my post because you were in a disk horse tag hatereading/triggering YOURSELF.#that's the ONLY way you could've found my post bc it wasn't reblogged by anyone and i tagged the discourse for filter purposes.#don't digitally self harm by hatereading a tag you hate and then white knight/keyboard warrior in the comments then vague on main.#YOU did that to yourself?? hello??

Sleeeeeeepy today. Probably making up for the dream I had last night where I tried getting a job 😷

#yaaaayyyy severe disabling chronic pain ive had since i was too young to work!!

fuwaprince

Consent is not convinced.

Consent is not coerced.

Consent is not manipulated.

tealhairandamateurnouns

Consent is not “afraid to say no”

Consent is not “because I didn’t want to disappoint you”

Consent is not “because I didn’t want you to give me the silent treatment again”

ilamb-333

hairclips i finally finished !!!

clleanlliness

life is better when you're not malnourished btw

Every time I have to sit and listen to someone talk for 3 minutes it makes me legitimately want to kill myself

#im high as fuck on pain meds and your voice is like sandpaper to my brain SHUT THE FUCK UP

letsbelonelytogetherr

— Time passing isn’t an apology. (via letsbelonelytogetherr)

lazytownlane

rose-chateau

I can't with people calling that addition to that one post ableism. Like gurl sometimes someone with extreme rsd DOES become abusive, and you need to be mindful of your behavior so you don't unintentionally become that. It's not fucking ableism to say that!! It's not fucking ableism to say that sometimes your mental health DOES impact the way you treat people in a way that can become abusive if you don't manage your symptoms.

"Oh well then tell me how to manage my symptoms then!!" I don't know what you need and it is not my responsibility or the point of this post. Fucking type "rsd coping mechanisms" into ANY search bar or social media of your choosing and fucking learn how to do shit by yourself without burdening strangers with no-note blogs on the internet.

rose-chateau

The way people on this site genuinely act like being neurodivergent absolves them of harm whilst claiming they're not doing that drives me fucking insane. Sometimes an autistic person DOES sexually abuse someone because they can't understand what they're doing. Some people with rsd end up being toxic and abusive because their friends are forced to tolerate anything they do or get berated, gaslit, or have to deal with said friend with rsd crashing out or THREATENING SUICIDE if they push back at all. Some people with childhood trauma, audhd, rsd, did, gender dysphoria, whatever whatever CAN be abusive in a way that's heavily impacted by their mental health and past experiences. We are a product of what we've been through. Being abusive doesn't just come out of nowhere. I understand the harm in making a blanket statement like "people who have been abused may become abusers themselves" without context, but sometimes it is true. And by blanket waving that away as ableism or discrimination silences victims. You don't fucking care about victims. All you care about is not being the bad guy.

"That's ableist!! You can't stereotype a minority by saying they're more likely to harm people!" That is not what I'm fucking saying or doing. If YOU don't fucking do this shit, then I am not fucking talking about you. There are people in the world who experience your conditions differently than you. Stop making every post about you.

moetivation

anzuhan

x-days-till-sp-shutsdown

10 Days until Simply Plural shuts down.

movedaccounts111

Yes, your friend will "change" if they come out as a system to you. They seem like they're changing because they're trying to unmask around you and let their alters be themselves and not hide amnesia and other aspects of the disorder as much.

I understand it can be hard to realize your friend isn't exactly how you thought they were, but they're still you're friend. It's likely you've met their other alters, they just didn't say who they were.

Please support you friend, even if it's seemed like they've changed.

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p-chan will soon become p-orb...the roundening begins....

sicklybaby

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