Melancholy of Taciturn

"The scream of a silent person"

[cosmicwizdom]

Almost every successful person begins with two beliefs: the future can be better than the present and I have the power to make it so.

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[hplyrikz]

You have to do what is right for you. Nobody else is walking in your shoes.

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[hplyrikz]

I need a life that isn’t just about needing to escape my life.

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[jihadofthesoul]

Noble goals for any of us!

[hplyrikz]

“She was my dream. She made me who I am, and holding her in my arms was more natural to me than my own heartbeat. I think about her all the time. Even now, when I’m sitting here, I think about her. There could never have been another.”

Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook (via hplyrikz)

[kushandwizdom]

Be patient. Good things take time.

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[lostflwrs]

Hidup ini tak seindah macam novel. Tak secantik dalam drama. Tak segembira dalam filem. Setenang-tenang air di lautan, ada masanya mesti bergelora juga.

Sebab itu, harus berpegang pada Yang Satu.

Manusia datang dan pergi. Sentiasa meninggalkan atau ditinggalkan. Jatuh bangun kita, hanya Allah yang tahu.

[gadispianist]

[gadispianist]

Assalamualaikum awak! saya sebenarnya suka pada seseorang. Tapi saya dah berazam pada diri untuk x akan ucap saya suka awak pada sesiapa pun selagi belum ada ikatan sah. namun hati ini kadang lemah. kerana fitrah hati ingin mencintai dan dicintai. dan memendam tu sakit.jadi boleh x nasihat saya? supaya saya sabar? nak kahwin x leh, sbb masih belajar. n asingment banyak. n cita2 pun ada. huhuuhuuuhuuhuhuuuhhhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuh. cedih ciked.

Waalaikumussalam awak.! Sorry lambattt saya (bukan) Dokter Cinta hahaha tapi apapun saya cuba jawab jugak soalan awak tu.

Yess, Perasaan itu fitrah dan setiap perasaan yang baik akan membawa kepada hal yang baik. Percayalah.

Saya respect awak sebab awak kata ‘saya berazam takkan beritahu saya suka awak pada sesiapa pun sehinggalah ada ikatan yang sah. ’ hehehe.

Orang tak akan tahu apa isi hati kita selagi kita sendiri tak cakap. Cuba awak bayangkan sekiranya manusia boleh membaca isi hati orang lain, apa akan jadi kat dunia ni?

Haa tak best lah jawabnya. Takkan ada lagi lah rahsia-rahsia yang kita simpan rapat dalam hati. Semua orang akan tahu.

Takkan ada lagi cerita bagaimana rasa rindu yang tak tersampaikan.Bagaimana rasanya menunggu. Bagaimana rasanya mendoakan diam-diam.Bagaimana rasanya saat bertemu dan berpapasan.

Seperti kata saudara Hilal Asyraf “sekiranya benar cinta, mesti kita mahu bersama hingga ke syurga. Apa-apa yang membawa ke neraka itu bukan cinta namanya “.

Yup. Itulah definisi cinta yang sebenar.

Cinta itu suci. Tetapi manusia yang merosakkan erti cinta itu sendiri. Dan cinta mampu dikawal sekiranya kita faham definisi sebenar cinta.

Andaikata awak seorang lelaki, jangan pernah sekali-kali memberikan harapan kepada seorang perempuan kerana hati mereka mudah terusik. Jangan jadikan mereka pilihan awak, bila awak suka, awak pilih dia, bila dah tak suka, awak tinggalkan dan cari lain. Tapi jadikanlah mereka tujuan awak kerana dengan tujuan itu awak tahu nak bawa mereka ke mana.

Seorang lelaki harus bersedia dalam keadaan apapun, dari segi ilmu, kewangan, dan sebagainya. Jadilah lelaki yang matang. Jika benar awak sudah yakin terus berjumpa orang tuanya atau gunakan orang tengah. Ingat, mengajak seorang perempuan kepada hubungan yang tidak jelas akhirnya akan mendekatkan kepada zina. Dan bukan itu yang seorang perempuan mahukan. Melainkan keberanianmu.

Andaikata awak seorang perempuan, tabahlah. Dalam lingkungan umur 19-24 tahun, biasalah perasaan ingin nikah muda, nikah awal itu selalu wujud. Dan yup itu fitrah tapi diri sendirilah yang kena pandai jaga hati, jaga diri.

Seperti awak kata, awak masih belajar dan mungkin ibu bapa awak juga menuntut awak supaya menghabiskan pelajaran dan setelah itu barulah fikir soal nikah. Mungkin. Ingatlah, perjalanan menuju impian itu lebih utama. Awak ada cita-cita dan itu yang lebih utama.

Suatu hari nanti, awak akan bertemu dengan orang yang mempunyai impian yang sama dengan awak. Awak takkan tahu cara bagaimana dipertemukan, jalan yang bagaimana awak lalui. Justeru, mungkin jalan itu jugalah yang akan mempertemukan awak dan dia. Dia dengan jalannya. Awak dengan jalan awak. Gigih lah dan teruslah bersemangat mengejar impianmu. Suatu hari, awak pasti bertemu dengan orang yang benar dan berjalan bersama untuk satu impian yang sama. Maka jadikanlah impianmu itu sebagai titik pertemuan, bukan keinginan untuk mencari teman perjalanan dari awal.

(Awak faham ke apa yang saya cuba sampaikan? 😁)

Dah jangan sedih-sedih, genggamlah cita-cita awak dulu mesti ibu bapa awak nak lihat anaknya berjaya kan. Muah ciked. Hahaha.

Pernah dengar tak, kita tidak perlulah meminta sesuatu itu dipercepatkan atau diperlambatkan. Kerana waktu itu pasti bergerak, dia akan datang dengan cara tersendiri dan ia tidak akan datang jika belum waktunya. Bersabarlah setiap detik maka seluruh hidupmu akan dipenuhi kesabaran.

ni baca bawah ni 👇

1- sorry kalau tak menjawab soalan, ini cuma pendapat peribadi dari apa yang saya rasa, baca, dan perhati 2- saya ada masalah nak membezakan anonymous ni lelaki ke perempuan 😂 huwaaaa3- harap lah si anon ni baca, penat aku taip pepanjang hahahhahaha4- kbai.

[fallenpeach]

There is a right way and a wrong way to get to know someone for marriage. The wrong way is to get caught up in the excitement and nuance of a budding relationship and in the process completely forget to ask the critical questions that help determine compatibility.

One of the biggest mistakes that...

[islamicrays]

Salaam. I want to do more good deeds than I already do, is there any other good deeds I can do besides praying and reading the Quran?

Walaikum Assalaam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu,

Follow the Sunnah:

Following are some sunnah that if we implement these in our lives, we will get tremendous reward in shaa Allah.

Drinkingwater:

1.Tosit and drink.(Sahih al-Bukhari Hadith6452 and Sahih Muslim Hadith5242, 5247) 2.Todrink with the right hand. (Sahih al-BukhariHadith5380; Sahih Muslim Hadith5233)3.Totake 3 sips (or more in odd numbers). (Sahih al-BukhariHadith5631; Sahih Muslim Hadith5255)4.Tosay Bismillah before drinking. (Sahih al-Bukhari andal-Azkaar; Fath al-Baarivol.10 pg.117)5.Tosay Alhamdulillah after drinking. (Ibnus-sunni Hadith472;Majmauz-zawaaid vol.5 pg.81; Sunan al-Tirmidhi Hadith1885; Fathal-Bari vol.10 pg.117 Hadith5631)6.Ifthere are several people who are going to share the drink, it should be givento the one on the right. (Sahih al-BukhariHadith5612; Sahih Muslim Hadith5257)7.Theone who is distributing the water (or food) should himself drink aftereveryone. (Sunan al-Tirmidhi Hadith1894)8.Torecite this Dua, after drinking water (not other drinkables) is also SunnahAlhumdollilahhil lathee sakaana, uthban foraatun, bi rahmatihi, wa lam yaj alhu milhanujaajan bi thunoobina Allpraise is due to Allah, Who of His Mercy has granted us sweet and pleasantwater to drink and did not make it bitter and salty due to our Sins.(Roohul Ma’ani, pg.149, 27th Para )

Eating:

'Umarbin Abu Salamah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:Messenger of Allah (ﷺ), said to me, “Mention Allah’s Name (i.e., say Bismillah beforestarting eating), eat with your right hand, and eat from what is near you.” [Al-Bukhari and Muslim].'Aishah(May Allah be pleased with her) reported:Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “When any of you wants to eat, he should mention theName of Allah in the begining, (i.e., say Bismillah). If he forgets to do it inthe beginning, he should say Bismillah awwalahu wa akhirahu (I begin with theName of Allah at the beginning and at the end).”[At-Tirmidhiand Abu Dawud].

Sneezing:

It was also reported from AbuHurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessingsof Allaah be upon him) said: “If any one of you sneezes, let him say ‘Al-hamduLillaah,’ and let his brother or his companionsay, ‘YarhamukAllaah.’ And if he says to him, ‘YarhamukAllaah,’ let him say, ‘Yahdeekum Allaahu wa yuslihabaalakum (May Allaah guide you and correct yourthinking).’” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, 10/502)

Naturecalls (going to toilet)

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith1.146 Narrated by Abu Aiyub Al Ansari (May Allah be pleased with him)Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) said, “If anyone of yougoes to answer the call of nature he should neither face nor turn his backtowards the Qibla (when relieving himself).’Anas reported that when the Messenger of Allah (peace be uponhim) entered the privy to relieve himself, he (peace be upon him) wouldsay, “In the name of Allah. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from male and femalenoxious beings (the Shayateen).”This is related by Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood, Tirmidhi.Al-Tirmidhi Hadith359 Narrated by Aisha (May Allah be pleased with her)When Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) came out from theprivy, he said: ‘(I seek) forgiveness from Thee, O Allah.’Al-Tirmidhi Hadith374 Narrated by Anas ibn Malik (May Allah be pleased with him)When Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) came out from theprivy, he said: ‘Praise be to Allah Who has removed injurious things from me,and kept me in health.’

Sleeping

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith8.326 Narrated by Hudhaifa (May Allah be pleased with him)When the Prophet (peace be upon him) retired to bed at night, he(peace be upon him) would put his hand under his (right) cheek and then say,“Allahumma bismika amutu wa ahya (O Allah, by Your Name I die and I live)”and when he (peace be upon him) got up (from sleep), he (peace be upon him)would say, “Al-Hamdu lil-lahi al-ladhi ahyana ba’da ma amatana, wa ilaihian-nushur (Praise be to Allah Who gave us life after death, and to Him isthe return.” Sunan of Abu-DawoodHadith 5027 Narrated by Hafsah, Ummul Mu’minin (May Allah be pleased with her)When the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) retired to go tosleep, he (peace be upon him) would put his right hand under his cheek andwould then say three times: ‘O Allah, guard me from Thy punishment on the Daywhen Thou raises up Thy servants.’ Al-Tirmidhi Hadith4718 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah (May Allah be pleased with him)When Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) saw a man lying onhis stomach he said, “This is a method of lying down which Allah does notlike.” Al-Tirmidhi Hadith4731 Narrated by Abu Dharr (May Allah be pleased with him)The Prophet (peace be upon him) came upon him when he was lyingon his stomach, jerked him with his foot and said, “Jundub, only those who goto Hell (the Shayateen) lie like this!” Other than sleeping on one’s stomach, one may sleep in anyposture one wills. The normal posture of the Messenger (peace be upon him)when he retired to bed was to sleep on his right side with his right hand underhis cheek.

Rememberance of Allah (Dhikr)

1.Some dhikr that is light on tonguebut heavy on the scales:

·   HadhratJaa’bir [Ra] narrated that Rasulallah(Peace be upon him) said: “For the person who recites SUB-HAN’ALLAH HIL AZEEM WABI-HAM’DIHI, [Pure andperfect is Allah in his glory and praise], - A date palm will be planted forhim in Paradise” (Tirmidhi)Another Narration says:Forgiveness for Sins Even Though they arelike the Foam of the Sea: Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah’s Apostle said, “Whoever says, ‘Subhan Allaahi Wa bihamdihi, {Allah is free from imperfection and His isthe praise}. One hundred times a day, will be forgiven all hissins even if they were as much as the foam of the sea. (Bukhari, Book #75, Hadith #414)·   ProphetMuhammad (Peace be upon him) said: ”Is anyone of you incapable of earning one thousandHasanah (rewards) a day?” Someone from the gathering asked, "How can anyone of us earn athousand Hasanah?" ProphetMuhammad (Peace be upon him) said: “Glorify Allah a hundred times by justsaying “Subhanallah” and a Good deeds will be written foryou, or a thousand sins will be wiped away.” (Muslim 4:2073)·   Narrated‘Ubaadah that the Messenger of Allah said, “Whoever seeks forgiveness for the believing menand believing women, Allah will write for him a good deed for each believingman and believing woman.” (Tabarrani) 

2.There are indeed some verses or smallSurahs of the Quran which the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) guided andencouraged the believers to recite on a daily basis:

The 112th SurahAl-IkhlaasThe 113th SurahAl-FalaqThe 114th SurahAn-NaasThe ‘Aayat ul-Kursi’ Verse 255 of Surah 2 Al-BaqarahThe verses 285 and 286 of Surah 2 Al-Baqarah Narrated by Jubayr ibn Nufayr(May Allah be pleased with him)Allah’s Messenger (peace beupon him) said, "Allah finished Surah al-Baqarah with two verses (285 and286) which I have been given from His Treasure which is under the Throne; solearn them and teach them to your womenfolk, for they are a blessing, a meansof a approach (to Allah) and a supplication."(Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 2173)     Abu Umamah reported that theProphet (peace be upon him) said, "….For whoever recites the ‘Aayat –ulKursi’  (Surah2 al-Baqarah 255) at the end of every prayer, nothing will prevent him fromentering Paradise except that (he must) die (first)."Related by an-Nasa’i andat-Tabarani. 

Abu Sa’id reported that theProphet (peace be upon him) asked, “Can anyone of you recite a third ofthe Qur’an during the night?”  Thecompanions considered this rather difficult and they said, “Who among uscan do so, O Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him)?”  Thereupon the Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “(Say:)He is Allah, the One and Only; Allah, the Eternal, Absolute; He begetteth not,nor is he begotten; and there is none like unto Him.”  (The reference here is to the recitation of Surah 112 SuratulIkhlaas of the Qur’an, which the Prophet (peace be upon him) described asequivalent to reciting one-third of the Qur’an.) Related by Bukhari, Muslim, andNasa’i.

Narrated by Aisha (May Allah bepleased with her)Whenever the Prophet (peace beupon him) retired to bed every night, he (peace be upon him) used to cup hishands together and blow over it after reciting Surah Al-Ikhlaas, Surah Al-Falaqand Surah An-Naas, and then rub his hands over whatever parts of his body hewas able to rub, starting with his head, face and front of his body.  He (peace be upon him) used to do that three times.Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith6.536A       

I hope it will be helpful. May Allah guide us all to thestraight path.

Ameen

[halal-love-stories]

A man asked the wise man, how would I know if my wife loves me? The man replied, when she does 12 things be assured that she loves you. The man asked, so what are the 12 things? The wise man answered:

1. If she likes to hear about your demeanour be sure that she loves you.

2. If she didn’t get angry when you contradicted her opinion.

3. If she becomes sad because of your sadness or anger.

4. If she always tries to create topics to make conversation with you.

5. If she always consults you before she makes something or takes a decision.

6. If she gets very happy when you give her a gift even if it’s something very simple.

7.If she always tries to help you or even do some of your tasks.

8. If she worries about you in your absence.

9. If she cares to do what pleases you, and tries to not repeat what angers you.

10. If she doesn’t care about how little you earn (money).

11. If she likes to share whatever you like and cares to become a part of your world and your hobbies.

12. If she prays for you!

We ask Allah to bless us with true love and to assist us in maintaining it. Ameen

[halal-love-stories]

Watch your wife’s beauty secretly. Whenever you have the opportunity, offer her a flower or a bouquet of flowers with a smile. Rather than trying to satisfy her too much, feel and say that YOU are satisfied with her. Your own satisfaction will satisfy her. On coming back home every time, give her a hug and a kiss on the forehead. Tell her that she looked really nice when she was asleep last night. Feel that you have never seen anybody like her and let her know it. Don’t look for her body. That’s already yours. Rather look for her mind. She’s looking for opportunities to offer it to you. Sometimes act like a child and let her teach you something. She can teach you some things that nobody else can. Look her into the eyes and smile! <3

[thejewelyouare]

[halal-love-stories]

MEANING OF 9 WORDS WOMEN USE: 1. Fine This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up. 2. Five Minutes If she is getting dressed, this means half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house. 3. Nothing This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine. 4. Go Ahead This is a dare, not permission. Don’t Do It! 5. Loud Sigh This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing). 6. That’s Okay This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That’s okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake. 7. Thanks A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you’re welcome. (I want to add in a clause here: This is true, unless she says ‘Thanks a lot’ - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say ‘you’re welcome’. That will bring on a ‘whatever’). 8. Whatever Is a woman’s way of saying…Go to Hell! 9. Don’t worry about it, I got it Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking ‘What’s wrong?’ For the woman’s response refer to #3.  It’s a fact, women are Extremely Complicated! But whatever they are, women are the most beautiful creation of Allah. Smile, it’s Sunnah! :)

[halal-love-stories]

Out of curiosity, he takes a peek. Out of modesty, she looks away. Two in love but cannot say.  She has been saving herself for the one and only. And in her eyes he can see innocence and purity.  Out of this, his desire grows, the fire in him almost shows. He keeps his distance, stays far away, He wouldn’t want what is bad for the one who took his breath away.  Late at night the door bell rings, Her heart beats loud and her soul sings. The talking below, she hears. So clear in her mother’s eyes. She can see a tear. He has finally come to take her away. In the play ground of love they will finally play. He will protect her and treat her well like a real man should. She would try to love him, please him, And care for him as best as she could. This is love and how it should be. How Allah intended it to be. Love is love and it shouldn’t change. But everyday its meaning seems to fade away. Love is sweet and should have an innocent start. And later on, it will pour endlessly from your heart. Guard your heart, love, body, and soul. And In Shaa Allah release them only to the one, Whose name is written in the sky, Beside yours! 

[halal-love-stories]

Find a Husband who calls you beautiful instead of hot. Who calls you back when you hang up on him. Who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat. Or will stay awake just to watch you sleep…

Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead.  Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats. Who holds your hand in front of everyone. Who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on.

One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares. And how lucky he is to have you as a wife. The one who says to everyone, ‘that’s my love’ And who will always love you for the sake of ALLAH.