Mia Mayham

Yo, welcome to my blog! 24/ trans woman/ Sapphic/ shield to protect and care for the sapphic artists of the world (just ask my wife :)) Feel free message, send asks, or reblog almost all my stuff.

[miamayhemthespider]

Gone of my spiro due to needing antibiotics and i got to say. Shit git me closer to sobbing then any of the terf hate has. Depression is acting up hard. Fuck dysphoria.

[miamayhemthespider]

Back in period days, and the vibes will be extended do to an ER trip, but I wanted to pop in and just say it's ludicrous how unsafe ER doctors are with treatment. Like I don't blame them, over worked and everything.but fuck. I got prescribed antibiotics that could have killed me due to medical interactions. Why did this happen? because no one asked what I was already on! Is so unsafe.

[xenosagaepisodeone]

Public schools should teach you how to parry

[funnytwittertweets]

[miamayhemthespider]

Can we talk for a moment about how weirdly pedophilic and predatory transphobes(terfs included) are like we see the conservative men and women fantasizing about sexual assault and condoning the idea that women are just objects that will be taken by any “man” that want, like rape isn’t illegal? (yes we have a problem with enforcement, as a survivor, I am well aware)

Then we also have this “feminist” moms that absolutely obsessed with how beautiful their Afab children are and how they will ruin their genitals and such but transitioning.

The whole thing is creepy transphobes. You creepy

[mithliya]

im so confused, your argument is that mothers are pedophiles for being concerned that their children could face vaginal atrophy? or is there something im missing?

[honeypotting]

This seems like two different, extremely half-baked arguments that are not connected by much at all

[miamayhemthespider]

Yeah maybe read some of the shit yall say.

[mithliya]

so do u think mothers are pedophiles for being concerned about side effects their kids may experience? or did u mean smth else?

[goblinous]

"Mothers who care about their children's health are pedophiles" is the tumblrest take I've seen in a while.

[miamayhemthespider]

Yall want to read what i acctualy wrote and stop ship of theseusing here

[mithliya]

so what DID you write? what did you mean?

[miamayhemthespider]

Like i said in the actual post. Mothers being obsessed with the beauty of their daughters is pedophilic it is infact a very well known form of incest. Look it up. Or better dont. And by extension saying them considering bottom surgery when older is runing their genitals. I never said anything about side effects.

[mithliya]

mothers being obsessed with the beauty of their daughters is worthy of criticism (bc it places importance on the appearance of their daughters rather than important qualities), but no it’s not pedophilia. it’s an aspect of misogyny that they experienced and are redirecting at their daughters.

and mothers being concerned over experimental surgeries isnt somehow pedophilic. as for the other stuff u said about women “fantasising about sexual assault”, that shit is just insensitive and gross. women don’t have some sexual assault fetish, many of us have been sexually assaulted and are wary as a result.

[miamayhemthespider]

Listen you are trying very hard to read the worst take out of what I wrote. And no the beauty obsesion can very well be and frequently is pedophilic. Its called immeshment. Its very common

Also i am a surviver and i was talking about how certain men and women talk about it is very preditory. Read before posting.

[mithliya]

no it is not pedophilic and u need to learn what pedophilia is. unless these mothers are sexually attracted to their daughters and trying to turn their daughters into someone they (the mothers) would sexually be into, no it is not to do with pedophilia. it’s the same misogyny girls are always subject to, being told our beauty and looks is what matters.

survivour or not, arguing women are “fantasising about sexual assault” is insensitive at its core when 1 in 4 of us (maybe even more) are sexually assaulted. your post isn’t even clear in what you’re arguing is “fantasising about sexual assault”.

[outofspace43]

Someone is fantasizing about sexual assault, and I’m pretty sure it’s OP, not any hypothetical mothers. 🙄

[miamayhemthespider]

Find new matterial and also read a post once in awhile

[outofspace43]

I read all of your word salad. Mothers being concerned about their children undergoing experimental medical “treatment” is not pedophilia nor incest, but you putting way too much thought into fantasy situations about little girls is gross.

[miamayhemthespider]

Thats not what i said. As i said please read the material before responding.

[outofspace43]

As I said, I read all of it. If you’d like to try again, perhaps write your thoughts out before you spew them like vomit into the ether, I’d be more than happy to lend an ear. As of right now you seem very confused.

[miamayhemthespider]

Please read the material before commenting.

[outofspace43]

There’s literally nothing to parse, dude. You tried to go hard on hating women and got caught looking a fool. You’re not a brilliant theorist - there’s nothing to get out of your drivel.

If you get yourself together and stop putting out word salad, I’m sure the women you’re trying so desperately to position yourself over will be here to mock whatever you *do* come out with.

[055u4ry]

You don’t need to put “trans woman” in your profile. We know. Literally everyone knows.

[miamayhemthespider]

Congrats on revieling youself as a misogynist who enforces racist beauty standards 👏🏻👏🏻

[055u4ry]

Congrats on being a man who can’t experience misogyny 👏👏

[anti-coincidencecircuit]

Or experience racism as the victim. All these straight white guys tell on themselves when they call it racist to recognize him as a man pushing Eurocentric gender roles. I don't look like a man next to men of my ethnicity. If he sees women of color as closer to men like him than other women, that's his bigoted opinion. And it still doesn't apply to him at all, who is white.

[miamayhemthespider]

The hell is a m*n*l*z?

[freeewheeling]

😂

[miamayhemthespider]

I shall never understand transphobes.

But please do explain the term i am curious from a sociology point of view.

[miamayhemthespider]

Can we talk for a moment about how weirdly pedophilic and predatory transphobes(terfs included) are like we see the conservative men and women fantasizing about sexual assault and condoning the idea that women are just objects that will be taken by any “man” that want, like rape isn’t illegal? (yes we have a problem with enforcement, as a survivor, I am well aware)

Then we also have this “feminist” moms that absolutely obsessed with how beautiful their Afab children are and how they will ruin their genitals and such but transitioning.

The whole thing is creepy transphobes. You creepy

[mithliya]

im so confused, your argument is that mothers are pedophiles for being concerned that their children could face vaginal atrophy? or is there something im missing?

[honeypotting]

This seems like two different, extremely half-baked arguments that are not connected by much at all

[miamayhemthespider]

Yeah maybe read some of the shit yall say.

[mithliya]

so do u think mothers are pedophiles for being concerned about side effects their kids may experience? or did u mean smth else?

[goblinous]

"Mothers who care about their children's health are pedophiles" is the tumblrest take I've seen in a while.

[miamayhemthespider]

Yall want to read what i acctualy wrote and stop ship of theseusing here

[mithliya]

so what DID you write? what did you mean?

[miamayhemthespider]

Like i said in the actual post. Mothers being obsessed with the beauty of their daughters is pedophilic it is infact a very well known form of incest. Look it up. Or better dont. And by extension saying them considering bottom surgery when older is runing their genitals. I never said anything about side effects.

[mithliya]

mothers being obsessed with the beauty of their daughters is worthy of criticism (bc it places importance on the appearance of their daughters rather than important qualities), but no it’s not pedophilia. it’s an aspect of misogyny that they experienced and are redirecting at their daughters.

and mothers being concerned over experimental surgeries isnt somehow pedophilic. as for the other stuff u said about women “fantasising about sexual assault”, that shit is just insensitive and gross. women don’t have some sexual assault fetish, many of us have been sexually assaulted and are wary as a result.

[miamayhemthespider]

Listen you are trying very hard to read the worst take out of what I wrote. And no the beauty obsesion can very well be and frequently is pedophilic. Its called immeshment. Its very common

Also i am a surviver and i was talking about how certain men and women talk about it is very preditory. Read before posting.

[mithliya]

no it is not pedophilic and u need to learn what pedophilia is. unless these mothers are sexually attracted to their daughters and trying to turn their daughters into someone they (the mothers) would sexually be into, no it is not to do with pedophilia. it’s the same misogyny girls are always subject to, being told our beauty and looks is what matters.

survivour or not, arguing women are “fantasising about sexual assault” is insensitive at its core when 1 in 4 of us (maybe even more) are sexually assaulted. your post isn’t even clear in what you’re arguing is “fantasising about sexual assault”.

[outofspace43]

Someone is fantasizing about sexual assault, and I’m pretty sure it’s OP, not any hypothetical mothers. 🙄

[miamayhemthespider]

Find new matterial and also read a post once in awhile

[outofspace43]

I read all of your word salad. Mothers being concerned about their children undergoing experimental medical “treatment” is not pedophilia nor incest, but you putting way too much thought into fantasy situations about little girls is gross.

[miamayhemthespider]

Thats not what i said. As i said please read the material before responding.

[outofspace43]

As I said, I read all of it. If you’d like to try again, perhaps write your thoughts out before you spew them like vomit into the ether, I’d be more than happy to lend an ear. As of right now you seem very confused.

[miamayhemthespider]

Please read the material before commenting.

[outofspace43]

There’s literally nothing to parse, dude. You tried to go hard on hating women and got caught looking a fool. You’re not a brilliant theorist - there’s nothing to get out of your drivel.

If you get yourself together and stop putting out word salad, I’m sure the women you’re trying so desperately to position yourself over will be here to mock whatever you *do* come out with.

[055u4ry]

You don’t need to put “trans woman” in your profile. We know. Literally everyone knows.

[miamayhemthespider]

Congrats on revieling youself as a misogynist who enforces racist beauty standards 👏🏻👏🏻

[055u4ry]

Congrats on being a man who can’t experience misogyny 👏👏

[anti-coincidencecircuit]

Or experience racism as the victim. All these straight white guys tell on themselves when they call it racist to recognize him as a man pushing Eurocentric gender roles. I don't look like a man next to men of my ethnicity. If he sees women of color as closer to men like him than other women, that's his bigoted opinion. And it still doesn't apply to him at all, who is white.

[miamayhemthespider]

The hell is a m*n*l*z?

[godtrauma]

say it george!!

[brainless-moe-white-lotus]

Being autistic should entitle you to window seats on the train

[miamayhemthespider]

Can we talk for a moment about how weirdly pedophilic and predatory transphobes(terfs included) are like we see the conservative men and women fantasizing about sexual assault and condoning the idea that women are just objects that will be taken by any “man” that want, like rape isn’t illegal? (yes we have a problem with enforcement, as a survivor, I am well aware)

Then we also have this “feminist” moms that absolutely obsessed with how beautiful their Afab children are and how they will ruin their genitals and such but transitioning.

The whole thing is creepy transphobes. You creepy

[mithliya]

im so confused, your argument is that mothers are pedophiles for being concerned that their children could face vaginal atrophy? or is there something im missing?

[honeypotting]

This seems like two different, extremely half-baked arguments that are not connected by much at all

[miamayhemthespider]

Yeah maybe read some of the shit yall say.

[mithliya]

so do u think mothers are pedophiles for being concerned about side effects their kids may experience? or did u mean smth else?

[goblinous]

"Mothers who care about their children's health are pedophiles" is the tumblrest take I've seen in a while.

[miamayhemthespider]

Yall want to read what i acctualy wrote and stop ship of theseusing here

[mithliya]

so what DID you write? what did you mean?

[miamayhemthespider]

Like i said in the actual post. Mothers being obsessed with the beauty of their daughters is pedophilic it is infact a very well known form of incest. Look it up. Or better dont. And by extension saying them considering bottom surgery when older is runing their genitals. I never said anything about side effects.

[mithliya]

mothers being obsessed with the beauty of their daughters is worthy of criticism (bc it places importance on the appearance of their daughters rather than important qualities), but no it’s not pedophilia. it’s an aspect of misogyny that they experienced and are redirecting at their daughters.

and mothers being concerned over experimental surgeries isnt somehow pedophilic. as for the other stuff u said about women “fantasising about sexual assault”, that shit is just insensitive and gross. women don’t have some sexual assault fetish, many of us have been sexually assaulted and are wary as a result.

[miamayhemthespider]

Listen you are trying very hard to read the worst take out of what I wrote. And no the beauty obsesion can very well be and frequently is pedophilic. Its called immeshment. Its very common

Also i am a surviver and i was talking about how certain men and women talk about it is very preditory. Read before posting.

[mithliya]

no it is not pedophilic and u need to learn what pedophilia is. unless these mothers are sexually attracted to their daughters and trying to turn their daughters into someone they (the mothers) would sexually be into, no it is not to do with pedophilia. it’s the same misogyny girls are always subject to, being told our beauty and looks is what matters.

survivour or not, arguing women are “fantasising about sexual assault” is insensitive at its core when 1 in 4 of us (maybe even more) are sexually assaulted. your post isn’t even clear in what you’re arguing is “fantasising about sexual assault”.

[outofspace43]

Someone is fantasizing about sexual assault, and I’m pretty sure it’s OP, not any hypothetical mothers. 🙄

[miamayhemthespider]

Find new matterial and also read a post once in awhile

[outofspace43]

I read all of your word salad. Mothers being concerned about their children undergoing experimental medical “treatment” is not pedophilia nor incest, but you putting way too much thought into fantasy situations about little girls is gross.

[miamayhemthespider]

Thats not what i said. As i said please read the material before responding.

[outofspace43]

As I said, I read all of it. If you’d like to try again, perhaps write your thoughts out before you spew them like vomit into the ether, I’d be more than happy to lend an ear. As of right now you seem very confused.

[miamayhemthespider]

Please read the material before commenting.

[outofspace43]

There’s literally nothing to parse, dude. You tried to go hard on hating women and got caught looking a fool. You’re not a brilliant theorist - there’s nothing to get out of your drivel.

If you get yourself together and stop putting out word salad, I’m sure the women you’re trying so desperately to position yourself over will be here to mock whatever you *do* come out with.

[055u4ry]

You don’t need to put “trans woman” in your profile. We know. Literally everyone knows.

[miamayhemthespider]

Congrats on revieling youself as a misogynist who enforces racist beauty standards 👏🏻👏🏻

[055u4ry]

Congrats on being a man who can’t experience misogyny 👏👏

[anti-coincidencecircuit]

Or experience racism as the victim. All these straight white guys tell on themselves when they call it racist to recognize him as a man pushing Eurocentric gender roles. I don't look like a man next to men of my ethnicity. If he sees women of color as closer to men like him than other women, that's his bigoted opinion. And it still doesn't apply to him at all, who is white.

[miamayhemthespider]

You are stretching to attribute things to me that 1: I don't say or do and 2: has largely be said by the person you are agreeing with. Take a moment and actually question yourself and what you are trying to see. We are all susceptible to propaganda and being locked down a political path. I hope you find your way out.

[anti-coincidencecircuit]

It's the mansplaining for me. Every woman who rejects the essentialism you use against us and fetishize on yourself has thought more about gender than any reactionary straight white man who pretends to be sapphic.

Gender is a tool of oppression against the female sex. We know why you like these regressive roles and stereotypes and why you're willing to medicate and mutilate gender non-conforming children to strengthen your claim to this misogynist costume.

There is no lack of thought on our end. You're only asking for us to reconsider our disobedience because you see women as submissive to the male opinion, which is why you also do not recognize yourself as a woman either.

[miamayhemthespider]

You recognize that I am gender non-conforming right. I support gnc kids/adults always. Outside of some specific circumstances (which I am also opposed to) no one is being forced or pressured by the trans community to transition.

Your movement is propigated on assumptions about your targets and conservative propaganda as your science. Please inform yourself.

[anti-coincidencecircuit]

The conservative propaganda is that which suggests gender is real enough to exist within and outside of us, intrinsic enough to our very being to require significant physical alterations to best portray it. It is not conservative to be a woman and reject all male attempts to deny the material reality of our existence as female and redefine our personal attributes in relation to themselves. But you know that. This is DARVO. This is the same as when you whine about reverse racism or heterophobia.

You are literally a straight white man lecturing women about how you know better than us who we are. It's beyond conservative propaganda. It's positively authoritarian.

As a bisexual Latina, I am far more informed than lazy men like yourself invested in the privilege you hold over women enough to be believed in the most outlandish claims. Nothing shocked me further out of the empathy I had for the dysphoric homosexuals of the past like Sylvia Rivera than reading the grosteque dehumanization of women from men like you such as Susan Stryker, Julia Serano, and Andrea Long Chu. It takes a terrible man to decide gender is a soul to colonize women in mind and body.

Stop condescending to me because that's your standard response as a straight white man. I have firsthand experience of womanhood and you're nothing more than a colonizer. A man in makeup is not gnc when your attitude and view of women, particularly woc and lesbians, is the same as Donald Trump's.

[maldosecul0]

nightmare material

[miamayhemthespider]

Good to see that you are keeping the conservative anti feminist movement alive with this post.

[maldosecul0]

Who, me? I cannot be conservative for I am a communist and, as one, I recognize material reality including that of sex-based oppression. There's nothing anti-feminist or conservative about seeing that women (adult human females) are oppressed around the world due to their anatomy, not because of some self-id bullshit. You know what's anti-feminist here? You, a man. A man opting to uphold the values of a patriarchal society and actively colonizing a movement meant for the LIBERATION of women and girls around the world. Oh, and you sure as hell are more conservative than you think considering that you accept gender stereotypes, instead of criticizing them and actively looking to dismantle it.

I don't expect you to understand any of that, though. You're a male and it seems you're a first worlder. Your head is up your arse, gringo imundo. Our oppression is not a costume and it's not optional.

[miamayhemthespider]

Yeah sex-based oppression is really. It's also the core of gender-based oppression. When a trans woman is victimized as a woman. It's because they are being viewed as all of the values placed on the sex most associated with their gender. Think your shit though if you are a communist. (side note. Yeah communists can be conservative friend. Ever heard of tankies.)

You have no perspective on feminism or my life. I don't uphold gender role in any way. It's just another assumption y'all throw around. Get off of the anti-feminist lap and actually look into shit before you try to make shit up about who I am, what I am, or what I stand for.

[miamayhemthespider]

Can we talk for a moment about how weirdly pedophilic and predatory transphobes(terfs included) are like we see the conservative men and women fantasizing about sexual assault and condoning the idea that women are just objects that will be taken by any “man” that want, like rape isn’t illegal? (yes we have a problem with enforcement, as a survivor, I am well aware)

Then we also have this “feminist” moms that absolutely obsessed with how beautiful their Afab children are and how they will ruin their genitals and such but transitioning.

The whole thing is creepy transphobes. You creepy

[mithliya]

im so confused, your argument is that mothers are pedophiles for being concerned that their children could face vaginal atrophy? or is there something im missing?

[honeypotting]

This seems like two different, extremely half-baked arguments that are not connected by much at all

[miamayhemthespider]

Yeah maybe read some of the shit yall say.

[mithliya]

so do u think mothers are pedophiles for being concerned about side effects their kids may experience? or did u mean smth else?

[goblinous]

"Mothers who care about their children's health are pedophiles" is the tumblrest take I've seen in a while.

[miamayhemthespider]

Yall want to read what i acctualy wrote and stop ship of theseusing here

[mithliya]

so what DID you write? what did you mean?

[miamayhemthespider]

Like i said in the actual post. Mothers being obsessed with the beauty of their daughters is pedophilic it is infact a very well known form of incest. Look it up. Or better dont. And by extension saying them considering bottom surgery when older is runing their genitals. I never said anything about side effects.

[mithliya]

mothers being obsessed with the beauty of their daughters is worthy of criticism (bc it places importance on the appearance of their daughters rather than important qualities), but no it’s not pedophilia. it’s an aspect of misogyny that they experienced and are redirecting at their daughters.

and mothers being concerned over experimental surgeries isnt somehow pedophilic. as for the other stuff u said about women “fantasising about sexual assault”, that shit is just insensitive and gross. women don’t have some sexual assault fetish, many of us have been sexually assaulted and are wary as a result.

[miamayhemthespider]

Listen you are trying very hard to read the worst take out of what I wrote. And no the beauty obsesion can very well be and frequently is pedophilic. Its called immeshment. Its very common

Also i am a surviver and i was talking about how certain men and women talk about it is very preditory. Read before posting.

[mithliya]

no it is not pedophilic and u need to learn what pedophilia is. unless these mothers are sexually attracted to their daughters and trying to turn their daughters into someone they (the mothers) would sexually be into, no it is not to do with pedophilia. it’s the same misogyny girls are always subject to, being told our beauty and looks is what matters.

survivour or not, arguing women are “fantasising about sexual assault” is insensitive at its core when 1 in 4 of us (maybe even more) are sexually assaulted. your post isn’t even clear in what you’re arguing is “fantasising about sexual assault”.

[outofspace43]

Someone is fantasizing about sexual assault, and I’m pretty sure it’s OP, not any hypothetical mothers. 🙄

[miamayhemthespider]

Find new matterial and also read a post once in awhile

[outofspace43]

I read all of your word salad. Mothers being concerned about their children undergoing experimental medical “treatment” is not pedophilia nor incest, but you putting way too much thought into fantasy situations about little girls is gross.

[miamayhemthespider]

Thats not what i said. As i said please read the material before responding.

[outofspace43]

As I said, I read all of it. If you’d like to try again, perhaps write your thoughts out before you spew them like vomit into the ether, I’d be more than happy to lend an ear. As of right now you seem very confused.

[miamayhemthespider]

Please read the material before commenting.

[outofspace43]

There’s literally nothing to parse, dude. You tried to go hard on hating women and got caught looking a fool. You’re not a brilliant theorist - there’s nothing to get out of your drivel.

If you get yourself together and stop putting out word salad, I’m sure the women you’re trying so desperately to position yourself over will be here to mock whatever you *do* come out with.

[055u4ry]

You don’t need to put “trans woman” in your profile. We know. Literally everyone knows.

[miamayhemthespider]

Congrats on revieling youself as a misogynist who enforces racist beauty standards 👏🏻👏🏻

[055u4ry]

Congrats on being a man who can’t experience misogyny 👏👏

[anti-coincidencecircuit]

Or experience racism as the victim. All these straight white guys tell on themselves when they call it racist to recognize him as a man pushing Eurocentric gender roles. I don't look like a man next to men of my ethnicity. If he sees women of color as closer to men like him than other women, that's his bigoted opinion. And it still doesn't apply to him at all, who is white.

[miamayhemthespider]

You are stretching to attribute things to me that 1: I don't say or do and 2: has largely be said by the person you are agreeing with. Take a moment and actually question yourself and what you are trying to see. We are all susceptible to propaganda and being locked down a political path. I hope you find your way out.

[anti-coincidencecircuit]

It's the mansplaining for me. Every woman who rejects the essentialism you use against us and fetishize on yourself has thought more about gender than any reactionary straight white man who pretends to be sapphic.

Gender is a tool of oppression against the female sex. We know why you like these regressive roles and stereotypes and why you're willing to medicate and mutilate gender non-conforming children to strengthen your claim to this misogynist costume.

There is no lack of thought on our end. You're only asking for us to reconsider our disobedience because you see women as submissive to the male opinion, which is why you also do not recognize yourself as a woman either.

[miamayhemthespider]

You recognize that I am gender non-conforming right. I support gnc kids/adults always. Outside of some specific circumstances (which I am also opposed to) no one is being forced or pressured by the trans community to transition.

Your movement is propigated on assumptions about your targets and conservative propaganda as your science. Please inform yourself.

[anti-coincidencecircuit]

The conservative propaganda is that which suggests gender is real enough to exist within and outside of us, intrinsic enough to our very being to require significant physical alterations to best portray it. It is not conservative to be a woman and reject all male attempts to deny the material reality of our existence as female and redefine our personal attributes in relation to themselves. But you know that. This is DARVO. This is the same as when you whine about reverse racism or heterophobia.

You are literally a straight white man lecturing women about how you know better than us who we are. It's beyond conservative propaganda. It's positively authoritarian.

As a bisexual Latina, I am far more informed than lazy men like yourself invested in the privilege you hold over women enough to be believed in the most outlandish claims. Nothing shocked me further out of the empathy I had for the dysphoric homosexuals of the past like Sylvia Rivera than reading the grosteque dehumanization of women from men like you such as Susan Stryker, Julia Serano, and Andrea Long Chu. It takes a terrible man to decide gender is a soul to colonize women in mind and body.

Stop condescending to me because that's your standard response as a straight white man. I have firsthand experience of womanhood and you're nothing more than a colonizer. A man in makeup is not gnc when your attitude and view of women, particularly woc and lesbians, is the same as Donald Trump's.

[maldosecul0]

nightmare material

[miamayhemthespider]

Good to see that you are keeping the conservative anti feminist movement alive with this post.

[miamayhemthespider]

Can we talk for a moment about how weirdly pedophilic and predatory transphobes(terfs included) are like we see the conservative men and women fantasizing about sexual assault and condoning the idea that women are just objects that will be taken by any “man” that want, like rape isn’t illegal? (yes we have a problem with enforcement, as a survivor, I am well aware)

Then we also have this “feminist” moms that absolutely obsessed with how beautiful their Afab children are and how they will ruin their genitals and such but transitioning.

The whole thing is creepy transphobes. You creepy

[mithliya]

im so confused, your argument is that mothers are pedophiles for being concerned that their children could face vaginal atrophy? or is there something im missing?

[honeypotting]

This seems like two different, extremely half-baked arguments that are not connected by much at all

[miamayhemthespider]

Yeah maybe read some of the shit yall say.

[mithliya]

so do u think mothers are pedophiles for being concerned about side effects their kids may experience? or did u mean smth else?

[goblinous]

"Mothers who care about their children's health are pedophiles" is the tumblrest take I've seen in a while.

[miamayhemthespider]

Yall want to read what i acctualy wrote and stop ship of theseusing here

[mithliya]

so what DID you write? what did you mean?

[miamayhemthespider]

Like i said in the actual post. Mothers being obsessed with the beauty of their daughters is pedophilic it is infact a very well known form of incest. Look it up. Or better dont. And by extension saying them considering bottom surgery when older is runing their genitals. I never said anything about side effects.

[mithliya]

mothers being obsessed with the beauty of their daughters is worthy of criticism (bc it places importance on the appearance of their daughters rather than important qualities), but no it’s not pedophilia. it’s an aspect of misogyny that they experienced and are redirecting at their daughters.

and mothers being concerned over experimental surgeries isnt somehow pedophilic. as for the other stuff u said about women “fantasising about sexual assault”, that shit is just insensitive and gross. women don’t have some sexual assault fetish, many of us have been sexually assaulted and are wary as a result.

[miamayhemthespider]

Listen you are trying very hard to read the worst take out of what I wrote. And no the beauty obsesion can very well be and frequently is pedophilic. Its called immeshment. Its very common

Also i am a surviver and i was talking about how certain men and women talk about it is very preditory. Read before posting.

[mithliya]

no it is not pedophilic and u need to learn what pedophilia is. unless these mothers are sexually attracted to their daughters and trying to turn their daughters into someone they (the mothers) would sexually be into, no it is not to do with pedophilia. it’s the same misogyny girls are always subject to, being told our beauty and looks is what matters.

survivour or not, arguing women are “fantasising about sexual assault” is insensitive at its core when 1 in 4 of us (maybe even more) are sexually assaulted. your post isn’t even clear in what you’re arguing is “fantasising about sexual assault”.

[outofspace43]

Someone is fantasizing about sexual assault, and I’m pretty sure it’s OP, not any hypothetical mothers. 🙄

[miamayhemthespider]

Find new matterial and also read a post once in awhile

[outofspace43]

I read all of your word salad. Mothers being concerned about their children undergoing experimental medical “treatment” is not pedophilia nor incest, but you putting way too much thought into fantasy situations about little girls is gross.

[miamayhemthespider]

Thats not what i said. As i said please read the material before responding.

[outofspace43]

As I said, I read all of it. If you’d like to try again, perhaps write your thoughts out before you spew them like vomit into the ether, I’d be more than happy to lend an ear. As of right now you seem very confused.

[miamayhemthespider]

Please read the material before commenting.

[outofspace43]

There’s literally nothing to parse, dude. You tried to go hard on hating women and got caught looking a fool. You’re not a brilliant theorist - there’s nothing to get out of your drivel.

If you get yourself together and stop putting out word salad, I’m sure the women you’re trying so desperately to position yourself over will be here to mock whatever you *do* come out with.

[055u4ry]

You don’t need to put “trans woman” in your profile. We know. Literally everyone knows.

[miamayhemthespider]

Congrats on revieling youself as a misogynist who enforces racist beauty standards 👏🏻👏🏻

[055u4ry]

Congrats on being a man who can’t experience misogyny 👏👏

[anti-coincidencecircuit]

Or experience racism as the victim. All these straight white guys tell on themselves when they call it racist to recognize him as a man pushing Eurocentric gender roles. I don't look like a man next to men of my ethnicity. If he sees women of color as closer to men like him than other women, that's his bigoted opinion. And it still doesn't apply to him at all, who is white.

[miamayhemthespider]

You are stretching to attribute things to me that 1: I don't say or do and 2: has largely be said by the person you are agreeing with. Take a moment and actually question yourself and what you are trying to see. We are all susceptible to propaganda and being locked down a political path. I hope you find your way out.

[anti-coincidencecircuit]

It's the mansplaining for me. Every woman who rejects the essentialism you use against us and fetishize on yourself has thought more about gender than any reactionary straight white man who pretends to be sapphic.

Gender is a tool of oppression against the female sex. We know why you like these regressive roles and stereotypes and why you're willing to medicate and mutilate gender non-conforming children to strengthen your claim to this misogynist costume.

There is no lack of thought on our end. You're only asking for us to reconsider our disobedience because you see women as submissive to the male opinion, which is why you also do not recognize yourself as a woman either.

[miamayhemthespider]

You recognize that I am gender non-conforming right. I support gnc kids/adults always. Outside of some specific circumstances (which I am also opposed to) no one is being forced or pressured by the trans community to transition.

Your movement is propigated on assumptions about your targets and conservative propaganda as your science. Please inform yourself.

[anti-coincidencecircuit]

The conservative propaganda is that which suggests gender is real enough to exist within and outside of us, intrinsic enough to our very being to require significant physical alterations to best portray it. It is not conservative to be a woman and reject all male attempts to deny the material reality of our existence as female and redefine our personal attributes in relation to themselves. But you know that. This is DARVO. This is the same as when you whine about reverse racism or heterophobia.

You are literally a straight white man lecturing women about how you know better than us who we are. It's beyond conservative propaganda. It's positively authoritarian.

As a bisexual Latina, I am far more informed than lazy men like yourself invested in the privilege you hold over women enough to be believed in the most outlandish claims. Nothing shocked me further out of the empathy I had for the dysphoric homosexuals of the past like Sylvia Rivera than reading the grosteque dehumanization of women from men like you such as Susan Stryker, Julia Serano, and Andrea Long Chu. It takes a terrible man to decide gender is a soul to colonize women in mind and body.

Stop condescending to me because that's your standard response as a straight white man. I have firsthand experience of womanhood and you're nothing more than a colonizer. A man in makeup is not gnc when your attitude and view of women, particularly woc and lesbians, is the same as Donald Trump's.

[miamayhemthespider]

You don't know what I look like beyond the fact the I am white and I was figuring my shit out in an several year old picture. You don't know if I wear makeup, how I dress, or behave.

You only have assumptions about me. Just like everyone one else from your side that has commented here. I don't think gender should effect how you need to look or behave or be. Once again that's your side. Funny how you all will ignore each others stances as long as you can tear down trans women.

By the by. I am actually bisexual, you don't know me. Stop pretending like a fucking republican.

[miamayhemthespider]

Can we talk for a moment about how weirdly pedophilic and predatory transphobes(terfs included) are like we see the conservative men and women fantasizing about sexual assault and condoning the idea that women are just objects that will be taken by any “man” that want, like rape isn’t illegal? (yes we have a problem with enforcement, as a survivor, I am well aware)

Then we also have this “feminist” moms that absolutely obsessed with how beautiful their Afab children are and how they will ruin their genitals and such but transitioning.

The whole thing is creepy transphobes. You creepy

[mithliya]

im so confused, your argument is that mothers are pedophiles for being concerned that their children could face vaginal atrophy? or is there something im missing?

[honeypotting]

This seems like two different, extremely half-baked arguments that are not connected by much at all

[miamayhemthespider]

Yeah maybe read some of the shit yall say.

[mithliya]

so do u think mothers are pedophiles for being concerned about side effects their kids may experience? or did u mean smth else?

[goblinous]

"Mothers who care about their children's health are pedophiles" is the tumblrest take I've seen in a while.

[miamayhemthespider]

Yall want to read what i acctualy wrote and stop ship of theseusing here

[mithliya]

so what DID you write? what did you mean?

[miamayhemthespider]

Like i said in the actual post. Mothers being obsessed with the beauty of their daughters is pedophilic it is infact a very well known form of incest. Look it up. Or better dont. And by extension saying them considering bottom surgery when older is runing their genitals. I never said anything about side effects.

[mithliya]

mothers being obsessed with the beauty of their daughters is worthy of criticism (bc it places importance on the appearance of their daughters rather than important qualities), but no it’s not pedophilia. it’s an aspect of misogyny that they experienced and are redirecting at their daughters.

and mothers being concerned over experimental surgeries isnt somehow pedophilic. as for the other stuff u said about women “fantasising about sexual assault”, that shit is just insensitive and gross. women don’t have some sexual assault fetish, many of us have been sexually assaulted and are wary as a result.

[miamayhemthespider]

Listen you are trying very hard to read the worst take out of what I wrote. And no the beauty obsesion can very well be and frequently is pedophilic. Its called immeshment. Its very common

Also i am a surviver and i was talking about how certain men and women talk about it is very preditory. Read before posting.

[mithliya]

no it is not pedophilic and u need to learn what pedophilia is. unless these mothers are sexually attracted to their daughters and trying to turn their daughters into someone they (the mothers) would sexually be into, no it is not to do with pedophilia. it’s the same misogyny girls are always subject to, being told our beauty and looks is what matters.

survivour or not, arguing women are “fantasising about sexual assault” is insensitive at its core when 1 in 4 of us (maybe even more) are sexually assaulted. your post isn’t even clear in what you’re arguing is “fantasising about sexual assault”.

[outofspace43]

Someone is fantasizing about sexual assault, and I’m pretty sure it’s OP, not any hypothetical mothers. 🙄

[miamayhemthespider]

Find new matterial and also read a post once in awhile

[outofspace43]

I read all of your word salad. Mothers being concerned about their children undergoing experimental medical “treatment” is not pedophilia nor incest, but you putting way too much thought into fantasy situations about little girls is gross.

[miamayhemthespider]

Thats not what i said. As i said please read the material before responding.

[outofspace43]

As I said, I read all of it. If you’d like to try again, perhaps write your thoughts out before you spew them like vomit into the ether, I’d be more than happy to lend an ear. As of right now you seem very confused.

[miamayhemthespider]

Please read the material before commenting.

[outofspace43]

There’s literally nothing to parse, dude. You tried to go hard on hating women and got caught looking a fool. You’re not a brilliant theorist - there’s nothing to get out of your drivel.

If you get yourself together and stop putting out word salad, I’m sure the women you’re trying so desperately to position yourself over will be here to mock whatever you *do* come out with.

[055u4ry]

You don’t need to put “trans woman” in your profile. We know. Literally everyone knows.

[miamayhemthespider]

Congrats on revieling youself as a misogynist who enforces racist beauty standards 👏🏻👏🏻

[055u4ry]

Congrats on being a man who can’t experience misogyny 👏👏

[anti-coincidencecircuit]

Or experience racism as the victim. All these straight white guys tell on themselves when they call it racist to recognize him as a man pushing Eurocentric gender roles. I don't look like a man next to men of my ethnicity. If he sees women of color as closer to men like him than other women, that's his bigoted opinion. And it still doesn't apply to him at all, who is white.

[miamayhemthespider]

You are stretching to attribute things to me that 1: I don't say or do and 2: has largely be said by the person you are agreeing with. Take a moment and actually question yourself and what you are trying to see. We are all susceptible to propaganda and being locked down a political path. I hope you find your way out.

[anti-coincidencecircuit]

It's the mansplaining for me. Every woman who rejects the essentialism you use against us and fetishize on yourself has thought more about gender than any reactionary straight white man who pretends to be sapphic.

Gender is a tool of oppression against the female sex. We know why you like these regressive roles and stereotypes and why you're willing to medicate and mutilate gender non-conforming children to strengthen your claim to this misogynist costume.

There is no lack of thought on our end. You're only asking for us to reconsider our disobedience because you see women as submissive to the male opinion, which is why you also do not recognize yourself as a woman either.

[miamayhemthespider]

You recognize that I am gender non-conforming right. I support gnc kids/adults always. Outside of some specific circumstances (which I am also opposed to) no one is being forced or pressured by the trans community to transition.

Your movement is propigated on assumptions about your targets and conservative propaganda as your science. Please inform yourself.

[miamayhemthespider]

Can we talk for a moment about how weirdly pedophilic and predatory transphobes(terfs included) are like we see the conservative men and women fantasizing about sexual assault and condoning the idea that women are just objects that will be taken by any “man” that want, like rape isn’t illegal? (yes we have a problem with enforcement, as a survivor, I am well aware)

Then we also have this “feminist” moms that absolutely obsessed with how beautiful their Afab children are and how they will ruin their genitals and such but transitioning.

The whole thing is creepy transphobes. You creepy

[mithliya]

im so confused, your argument is that mothers are pedophiles for being concerned that their children could face vaginal atrophy? or is there something im missing?

[honeypotting]

This seems like two different, extremely half-baked arguments that are not connected by much at all

[miamayhemthespider]

Yeah maybe read some of the shit yall say.

[mithliya]

so do u think mothers are pedophiles for being concerned about side effects their kids may experience? or did u mean smth else?

[goblinous]

"Mothers who care about their children's health are pedophiles" is the tumblrest take I've seen in a while.

[miamayhemthespider]

Yall want to read what i acctualy wrote and stop ship of theseusing here

[mithliya]

so what DID you write? what did you mean?

[miamayhemthespider]

Like i said in the actual post. Mothers being obsessed with the beauty of their daughters is pedophilic it is infact a very well known form of incest. Look it up. Or better dont. And by extension saying them considering bottom surgery when older is runing their genitals. I never said anything about side effects.

[mithliya]

mothers being obsessed with the beauty of their daughters is worthy of criticism (bc it places importance on the appearance of their daughters rather than important qualities), but no it’s not pedophilia. it’s an aspect of misogyny that they experienced and are redirecting at their daughters.

and mothers being concerned over experimental surgeries isnt somehow pedophilic. as for the other stuff u said about women “fantasising about sexual assault”, that shit is just insensitive and gross. women don’t have some sexual assault fetish, many of us have been sexually assaulted and are wary as a result.

[miamayhemthespider]

Listen you are trying very hard to read the worst take out of what I wrote. And no the beauty obsesion can very well be and frequently is pedophilic. Its called immeshment. Its very common

Also i am a surviver and i was talking about how certain men and women talk about it is very preditory. Read before posting.

[mithliya]

no it is not pedophilic and u need to learn what pedophilia is. unless these mothers are sexually attracted to their daughters and trying to turn their daughters into someone they (the mothers) would sexually be into, no it is not to do with pedophilia. it’s the same misogyny girls are always subject to, being told our beauty and looks is what matters.

survivour or not, arguing women are “fantasising about sexual assault” is insensitive at its core when 1 in 4 of us (maybe even more) are sexually assaulted. your post isn’t even clear in what you’re arguing is “fantasising about sexual assault”.

[outofspace43]

Someone is fantasizing about sexual assault, and I’m pretty sure it’s OP, not any hypothetical mothers. 🙄

[miamayhemthespider]

Find new matterial and also read a post once in awhile

[outofspace43]

I read all of your word salad. Mothers being concerned about their children undergoing experimental medical “treatment” is not pedophilia nor incest, but you putting way too much thought into fantasy situations about little girls is gross.

[miamayhemthespider]

Thats not what i said. As i said please read the material before responding.

[outofspace43]

As I said, I read all of it. If you’d like to try again, perhaps write your thoughts out before you spew them like vomit into the ether, I’d be more than happy to lend an ear. As of right now you seem very confused.

[miamayhemthespider]

Please read the material before commenting.

[outofspace43]

There’s literally nothing to parse, dude. You tried to go hard on hating women and got caught looking a fool. You’re not a brilliant theorist - there’s nothing to get out of your drivel.

If you get yourself together and stop putting out word salad, I’m sure the women you’re trying so desperately to position yourself over will be here to mock whatever you *do* come out with.

[055u4ry]

You don’t need to put “trans woman” in your profile. We know. Literally everyone knows.

[miamayhemthespider]

Congrats on revieling youself as a misogynist who enforces racist beauty standards 👏🏻👏🏻

[055u4ry]

Congrats on being a man who can’t experience misogyny 👏👏

[anti-coincidencecircuit]

Or experience racism as the victim. All these straight white guys tell on themselves when they call it racist to recognize him as a man pushing Eurocentric gender roles. I don't look like a man next to men of my ethnicity. If he sees women of color as closer to men like him than other women, that's his bigoted opinion. And it still doesn't apply to him at all, who is white.

[miamayhemthespider]

You are stretching to attribute things to me that 1: I don't say or do and 2: has largely be said by the person you are agreeing with. Take a moment and actually question yourself and what you are trying to see. We are all susceptible to propaganda and being locked down a political path. I hope you find your way out.

[miamayhemthespider]

Are you one of the many white trans women who went through a Nazi phase before you decided to stalk lesbians?

I don't stalk anyone, also I don't know if that's a many thing as I haven't personally met any but also no. I have never been a white supremacist, neo nazi, and anti-feminist/anti-sjw type.

[miamayhemthespider]

Some women have surgically constructed vaginas. Lets stop calling that a wound or mutilation. Sound good.

[miamayhemthespider]

Trans woman periods can fucking suck, as (I don't know about anyone else. But for some reason I get a massive amount of dysphoria and imposter syndrome. In too of fatigue, circulation issues, and cramps. Good times ✨

[stupid-pig-45]

There's menstrual blood gushing out of my vagina RIGHT THIS FUCKING SECOND.

You don't have a vaginal canal, YOU DON'T HAVE A UTERUS, YOU DON'T HAVE OVARIES, YOU DON'T HAVE FALLOPIAN TUBES. You as a man physically cannot have a period or menstrual cycle!!

YOU HAVE a prostate gland, YOU HAVE seminal vesicles! You have a penis and testicles, unless some perverted surgeon flipped them inside-out for you 🤮🤮🤮

YOU'RE A MAN, YOU DON'T HAVE PERIODS. MENSTRUAL BLOOD DOES NOT POUR OUT OF YOUR MUTILATED DICK AND BALLS.

End of the fucking discussion!!

[miamayhemthespider]

If its gushing please see a doctor. My spouse had the same issue and it ended up being pmdd. Please look out for yourself.

Now… Trans women often have hormonal cycles their whole life that get exaggerated into a psudo period. Soooo I have a period. That all i ever claimed.

Lastly i am female. That is all

[miamayhemthespider]

Anyway, hope you have a wonderful day! Keep being beautiful ♡ and it's super late but, happy international women's day

You to friend!