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Its all about mind and matter. I don’t mind and you don’t matter!!! Agnostic in mid 30s. Looking for people with heart on left, attitude on right n brains in middle. Curator of sensuous, seductive photography and videos; Artistic bent of mind with lots of naughtiness. I offer the blue pill n a red pill. Pick ur choice. The rabbit’s hole awaits... Ping for a sapiosexual😉

[mikado1983]

E2-D2.

How about u?

[mikado1983]

For them, who shall think.

"Is it for me?" 😈

[southernwolf71]

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No more words

[tantralife]

<3 A wonderful shocking answer by Osho….A must read 👇🏻

Question : I love my Husband but I hate sex, and that creates conflicts

Osho : How can you love your husband and yet hate sex…???

You must be playing on words.

How can you love your husband and hate sex…..???

Just try to understand it.

When you love a man, you would like to hold his hand too.

When you love a man, you would like to hug him sometimes too.

When you love a man, you would not only like to hear his sound, you would like to see his face too.

When you only hear the sound of your beloved,

The beloved is far away, the sound is not enough;

When you see him too you are more satisfied.

When you touch him, certainly you are even more satisfied.

When you taste him, certainly you are even more satisfied.

What is sex..???

It is just a meeting of two deep energies.

You must be carrying some taboos in your mind, inhibitions.

What is sex…???

Just two persons meeting at the maximum point

Not only holding hands,

Not only hugging each other’s bodies,

But penetrating into each other’s energy realm.

Why should you hate sex…???

Your mind must have been conditioned by the MAHATMAS, the so-called *Religious* people who have poisoned the whole of humanity,

Who have poisoned your very source of growth.

Why should you hate….???

If you love your man, you would like to share your total being with him: there is no need to hate.

And if you hate sex, what are you saying…..???

You are simply saying that you want the man to take care of you financially,

To take care of the house,

To bring you a car and a fur coat.

You want to use the man… and you call it love…???

And you don’t want to share anything with him.

When you love, you share all.

When you love, you don’t have any secrets.

When you love, you have your heart utterly open; you are available.

When you love, you are ready to go with him even to hell if he is going to hell.

But this happens.

We are very expert with words

We don’t want to say that we don’t love, so we make it look as if we love and we hate sex.

Sex is not all love – that’s true, love is more than sex – that’s true; but sex is the very foundation of it.

Yes, one day sex disappears,

But to hate it is not the way to make it disappear.

To hate it is the way to repress it.

And whatsoever is repressed will come up one way or other.

Please don’t try to become a monk or a nun.

Remember, sex is natural.

One can go beyond it, but not though repression.

And if you repress it, sooner or later you will find some other way to express it;

Some perversion is bound to enter

You will have to find some substitute.

And substitutes are of NO help at all;

They DON’T help, they CAN’T help.

And once a natural problem has been turned in such a way that you have forgotten about it,

And it has bubbled up somewhere else as a substitute,

You can go on fighting with the substitute,

But it is not going to help.

But substitutes never help

They only create perversions,obsessions.

Be natural if you want to go beyond nature some day.

Be natural

That is the first requirement.

I am not saying that there is nothing more than nature,

There is a higher nature

That is the whole message of Tantra.

But be very earthly if you really want to rise high in the sky.

Be rooted in your body if you want to become a soul.

Be rooted in your sex if you really want to become a lover.

Yes, the more energy is converted into love,

The less and less need of sex will be there, but you will not hate it.

Sex is one of the most beautiful phenomena in the world.

Of course, the lowest, that is true,

But the higher moves through the lower

The lotus comes out of the mud.

Don’t hate the mud, otherwise how will you help the mud to release the lotus..???

Help the mud,

Take care of the mud,

So that the lotus is released.

Certainly, the lotus is so far away from the mud that you cannot even conceive of any relationship.

If you see a lotus, you cannot believe that it comes out of dirty mud.

But it comes: it is the expression of the dirty mud.

The soul is released from the body.

Love is released from sex.

Sex is a body thing,

Love is a spiritual thing.

Sex is like mud,

Love is like a lotus.

But without the mud the lotus is not possible,

So don’t hate the mud.

The whole Tantra message is simple

It is very scientific and it is very natural.

The message is that if you really want to go beyond the world,

Go into the world DEEPLY,

Fully alert & aware

-Osho The Tantra Vision, Vol 2 Chapter #2

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NSFW Asks

1:When did you lose your virginity? 2: Rough sex or soft sex? 3: Do you have any unusual kinks/fetishes? 4: Weirdest place you’ve had sex? 5: Favourite sex position? 6: Do you like to be dominant or submissive? 7: Have you ever had any one night stands? 8: Sex on the bed, couch or the floor? 9: Have you ever had sex in a public place? 10: Have you ever been caught masturbating? 11: What does your favourite sexy underwear look like? 12: How often do you have sex? 13: Is there anybody right now you’d like to have sex with? 14: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex? 15: Most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you during sex? 16: A song you’d listen to during hard/rough/kinky sex? 17: A song you’d listen to during soft/slow/passionate sex? 18: Are you into dressing up for sex? 19: Would you prefer sex in the bath or sex in the shower? 20: If you could have sex with anyone right now, who would it be? 21: Have you ever had a threesome? If not, would you? 22: Do you/would you use sex toys? 23: Have you ever sent someone a dirty text/picture? 24: Would you have sex with your best friend? 25: Is there anything you do after sex? (for example, smoke, eat, drink) 26: Something that will never fail to get you horny? 27: Early morning sex or late night sex? 28: Favourite body part on the opposite sex? 29: Favourite body part on the same sex? 30: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find: 31: Weirdest sexual act some has performed [or tried to perform] on/with you: 32: Have you ever tasted yourself? [If no, would you?] [If yes, what did you think?] 33: Is it ever okay to not use a condom: 34: A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience: 35: Worst possible time to get horny: 36: Do you like it when your sexual partner moans? 37: How much fapping is too much fapping: 38: Best sexual complement you ever got: 39: Favorite foreplay activities: 40: What do you wear to bed? 41: When was the first time you masturbated: 42: Do you have any nude/masturbating pictures/video of yourself? 43: Have you ever/when was the last time you had sex outside? 44: Have/would you ever have sex in public? 45: Have/would you ever had a threesome? 46: What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate? 47: Do you watch gay/lesbian porn? why/why not? 48: Do you like oral sex? (why/why not) 49: How do you feel about tattoos on someone you are interested in? 50: How would you feel about taking someones virginity? 51: Is there any food you would NOT recommend using during a sexual encounter? 52: Would you rather be a pornstar or a prostitute? 53: Do you watch porn? 54: Have you ever been called a freak? Why? 55: Do you feel comfortable going “commando”? 56: Would you have a problem with going down on someone if they hadn’t shaved their pubic hair? 57: If you could give yourself head, would you? 58: Booty or Boobs? 59: Have you ever cheated on someone? (Why?) 60: If you were the other sex for a day, what are five things you would do? 61: have you ever watched someone masturbate? 62: has anyone ever watched you masturbate? 63. Have you ever had an erection and someone noticed? 64. What is your method of masturbation? (ie. toys, clitorial, prostate) 65. What is your bra/penis size? 66. What is the strangest thing you have ever put up your vagina/anus? 67. When was the last time you masturbated? 68. When was the last time you had sex? 69. When was the last time you watched porn? 70. Have you ever bought a sex toy? If so, which one did you buy last? First sex toy? If not, which one do you plan on buying when you do? 71. Guys:Circumsized? 72. Which not-genital part of your body do you like being touched? 73. Which genital part of your body do you like being touched? 74. Girls:Are you able to achieve orgasm just through breast stimulation? 75. Have you anonymously sent a sexual ask to someone on tumblr? 76. When was the last time you have had a wet dream? 77. Which wet dream was your favorite? 78. Is there a friend you would willingly have sex with? 79. Is there a celebrity/character you would willingly have sex with? 80. Favorite sexual position? 81. Do you like being called a slut or whore in bed? 82. Are you into any BDSM? 83. Have you ever wanted to have sex with someone but knew you couldnt for any reason? Why? 84. Do you like dirty talk? 85. Are you loud or quiet during sex? Masturbation? 86. Have you ever been inturrepted during sex or masturbation? Who/what? 87. What kind of porn do you like to watch? 88. Have you ever confessed to someone that you got an erection over them? What about masturbated to them? 89. Have you ever masturbated because your sexual partner wasn’t there when you needed them? 90. Have you ever had a one night stand? Do you still keep in contact with them? 91. Have you ever had a friends with benefits? Are they still beneficial? 92. Ask whatever you want

[mikado1983]

Lets talk😉

[curiouscat28]

Emotional yet Sensual…

I want to go beyond the ordinary.. break boundaries for myself and yet learn to love and feel and understand everyone around me. This world is superficial and isn’t easy…. but at times superficial becomes just as real…

No matter what’s said and done… we all have the same ending of this race… some want to b loved intensely , some emotionally, some just wants companionship to feel better and no matter what… don’t ever let anything come in the way of what matters to you.

I want a relation where I can feel free and not tied down…. Where my freedom means I ain’t a victim of my circumstances, where life moves on and you let go, where conflicts should be settled… for how do we know how long we all have on this green earth!

[mikado1983]

Heartfelt

[mikado1983]

To all ppl who can handle humour

[earthchild-gonewild]

Step-By Step Guide to Giving a Yoni Massage

◇◇Yoni Massage works on the levels of healing, pleasure and spirit – while an erotic massage is only dedicated to the pleasure level.

●Step 1: Preparation & Ingredients

Having enough time is crucial. Set aside at least 3 hours to make sure you have enough preparation time and relaxation time afterwards. Get some organic coconut oil for the oil massage and a towel; a plastic cover sheet is optional for under her hips. The plastic sheet will actually make her feel even safer, so she’ll be able to fully relax (crucial for squirting).

●Step 2: Setting the Mood & Breathing

It’s all about worshipping her temple. So make sure you are worshipping her temple in a temple. Set the mood: Turn on some candles, soft music, some aroma oil, velvet soft pillows. Anything to make her feel like a goddess.

Breathing is one of the most important parts of a Yoni Massage; deep abdominal breathing, not hyperventilating, is crucial to letting the energies flow and maximizing the effect. The receiver and the giver should both breathe deeply during the whole process. The giver will gently remind the receiver in case they go back to shallow breathing.

●Step 3: Full Body Oil Massage

Heat the coconut oil in a water bath and massage her full body before you approach her Yoni. Don’t touch her Yoni until you are 100% sure she is fully relaxed (~45 min – 1 hr). Have the receiver lie on her belly and start with massaging her back. Use your intuition, you will know exactly what she needs. Stay in communication with her to find out if she prefers the massage stronger or lighter. Massage her feet, legs, bottom. Rub her sacrum to activate her sexual energies.

Let her turn and continue with her feet, legs, arms, neck, head, face before you start with her breasts. Dedicate a decent amount of time to the breasts, as a breast massage will already awaken some more sexual energy, including beneficial hormones to make the receiver even more relaxed. Then work your way down to the abdomen and make sure you gently do some circles, ensuring that your receiver is not tensing up.

●Step 4: Approaching and Entering the Yoni

Approach the Yoni. Ask the receiver if you are allowed to touch her Yoni. Acknowledge the Yoni by capping her with your hand and just let it be there for a moment to feel into her.

Pour enough coconut oil over her mound, so it naturally flows down towards her entrance.

Spend enough time on the outer parts of the lips, mound and inner tights. Awaken the outer area of the Yoni before approaching the inner parts. Don’t rush. This is really important. You can stretch her outer lips and rub them between your fingers. Gently squeeze the outer lips between the thumb and index finger. Slide along each outer lip and then along each inner lip (in case your receiver has them developed). Check in with your receiver. How much does she feel? What does she feel? How much pressure feels good? How fast? etc. (don’t talk too much either, it can mentalize the process and create a buzzkill). Every now and then you can slide your hands up her breasts and connect her Yoni with her heart.

Once you see that her outer lips and clitoris are swollen you will know that she is ready. Ask if you are allowed to enter. Slowly and with presence insert your middle finger of your right hand into her Yoni. If the Yoni is truly ready she will naturally draw you into her temple. Very gently explore her inner parts. Feel her. Take all the time you need. Be super present. Press down, press towards the sides and up.

●Step 5: Yoni Mapping

Start with a reflexology massage just a few centimeters inside the entrance wall of her Yoni. Press your index and middle finger up against the 12 o’clock position, just below the pubic bone (stay on each point a little bit and let her breathe into this area). Feel to find out whether she is holding anything physically or emotionally stored in each clock space. Then move to the 1 o’clock position, press, hold and breathe in. Feel. Do this with the entire clock rotation until you return to 12 o’clock again. On the 6 o’clock position it’s easiest to use your thumb, pressing down towards her anus. Move your fingers around her vaginal walls (with your index and middle finger), in circles, circling deeper and deeper inside. massage-entering

You want to gently touch every part of her vaginal walls. Check for tension, numb areas and knots. Stay there if she doesn’t feel anything, until she does feel something. Massage all knots out. Breathe through it, all the time, especially important in case she feels pain.

●Step 6: Going Deep

Go to her G-spot (the G-spot is right inside the upper front wall). Use your middle and ring finger. You can press on the G-spot zone gently. Can you feel a spongy area? If you see that she is having pleasure, continue to press on it a bit harder, yes, even harder. g-spot

Then start stimulating the area with a come-hither motion till she gets the feeling that she has to pee. Start moving your whole arm up and down, creating a vacuum around her G-spot (with the movement coming from the shoulders); it’s a bouncing sensation, the vagina might even smack a little. Then you’ll know you’re doing it correctly. yoni massage technique

When she gets the peeing feeling she has to ‘bear-down’ and almost ‘push out a little’. Her body will manifest sexual energy through the squirting orgasm. Don’t worry, it’s not pee. And if it is you have all those towels – remind her that she is safe to do it. After exploring the G-Spot, go deeper and continue to explore. There is so much to discover!

●Step 7: Pushing Boundaries

Yoni massage is a therapy which can sometimes push our boundaries because it can release oceans of tears, anger and other emotions connected with our pain – both physical and mental – but it can also release great laughter, joy and deep pleasure which can in turn produce a heightened state of awareness.

A Yoni massage can enable the receiver to become aware of her creative feminine energy.

This energy is very powerful and sometimes we, the receivers, are not ready for it. So we can feel confronted by all sorts of obstacles. But with a certain determination and willingness to be healed, we can push those boundaries and have beautiful breakthroughs. These experiences are not just ecstasy-like states, they are highly spiritual.

●Step 8: Stillness

Once you arrive in a state where both of you feel that the massage is over, slowly fade out of the practice. You can meditate together, or she can stay lying in stillness while the giver meditates or contemplates the experience.

[mikado1983]

Amazing

[mikado1983]

Any scope for singles when you will active in near future ?

Singles nope...

[mikado1983]

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Hello you from which city?

[mikado1983]

Lovely vdo... dekho dekho

[mikado1983]

Quite a few of the couples who are interested in this lifestyle, start by sexting? Are you interested in it?

Still exploring

[mikado1983]

To all my Dearies, Lets post/pm the most kinkiest confessions (anonymously or by your name) that gives u goosebumps. C'mon no one is judgmental here… gonna be fun😜

[mikado1983]

Hi guys. Would love to connect with you both. Give me a follow back?

Sorry buddy... we r very new n currently looking only for good friends to connectPreferably a bi fem or a fun cpl...

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