Camilo

[miloissleepyyaps]

Camilo's Intro

This is a side blog for opinion posts. I won't be able to follow back from here. My main is @miloissleepyy

♱ he/him / ISFP / Catholic / Mexican American / diagnosed autistic / transgender male / bisexual

♱ DNI: People who use the terms TME and TMA, transandrophobia deniers, radical antitheists, TRASH or basic criteria

♱ I'm not comfortable with DMs but feel free to send me asks as long as they're respectful and non-sexual.

[miloissleepyyaps]

Even though I've read a few omegaverse manhwas and enjoyed them I think it's kind of ridiculous that people made up a whole alternate universe so they could jerk off to traits that most trans men have without actually putting trans men in their stories

[doubleca5t]

Futanari Gooner son vs Omegaverse Gooner daughter

[fujoshirealness]

Not to take away from the widespread nature of transphobia or the hilarious doublecast joke but I have read a lot of omegaverse fic that had trans characters in it. ...But also... I am trans masc... I did not know that made me also capable of heat or being claimed by an alpha... I will be more vigilant about my cycle

[miloissleepyyaps]

I feel like fics are a bit different.

Also I'm starting to wonder if I should have specified that I was talking about male pregnancy.

[miloissleepyyaps]

Even though I've read a few omegaverse manhwas and enjoyed them I think it's kind of ridiculous that people made up a whole alternate universe so they could jerk off to traits that most trans men have without actually putting trans men in their stories

[doubleca5t]

Futanari Gooner son vs Omegaverse Gooner daughter

[brazenautomaton]

I was unaware trans men had knots and went into heat you would think that'd be a bit more prevalent in the education

[miloissleepyyaps]

I literally just went into heat last weekend...

[transand]

a vicious cycle

[miloissleepyyaps]

Even though I've read a few omegaverse manhwas and enjoyed them I think it's kind of ridiculous that people made up a whole alternate universe so they could jerk off to traits that most trans men have without actually putting trans men in their stories

edit: guys I'm talking about male pregnancy not knotting

[miloissleepyyaps]

"Hating on transids is transphobic!"

[oceanamethyst]

i saw the most stupid take ever

someone was talking about how it's weird that their tmasc friend is uncomfortable using the men's restroom when they pass and this is an example of "afab privilege"

like gee i wonder why he would feel uncomfortable

it's almost like transmascs have the highest assault rates

it's almost like the discrimination/misogyny one has faced from not being born a perisex man doesn't go away simply from being trans and transitioning into a man

it's almost like going into spaces that were technically built for cisgender perisex men is subjecting yourself to more situations where abuse can happen due to not being born a perisex man

it's almost like the very idea of "afab privilege" being a thing is misogynistic in itself

[miloissleepyyaps]

I hate people that say "gender is a social construct!" and then try to push the idea that there's a valid and invalid way to be trans.

[miloissleepyyaps]

"Well, trans men are biologically female so I shouldn't have to specify when calling out 'males' and talking about 'females' in a medical sense. You need to learn to use context clues."

🔄 Translating 🔄

"I'm either too lazy to say the one syllable word 'cis' and replace 'female' with 'people with a uterus,' or trans men are just women to me and referring to them as anything else makes me uncomfortable, but I still want to seem woke, so I won't actually say that. What do you mean the language I use erases all of the discrimination trans men have faced under the patriarchy? And it causes trans men to be denied medical care when they're struggling with medical issues that only affect 'females'? No, you people just have to start making assumptions."

[riv3rboychaos]

"transmasc is regarded as the default trans gender" SHUT THE FUCK UP AT THIS POINT YOU'RE JUST ACTIVELY LYING

[riv3rboychaos]

shut the fuck up. shut the actual fuck up. is this person genuinely fucking stupid.

i remember the first time i bought any clothes from the "mens" section a couple of years back. i remember growing up begging my parents to let me buy the "boys" version of whatever we were buying. i remember swapping the little pink or blue based on what gender you are bags from birthday parties and shit with the little boy in my primary school who preferred the colour pink because i felt uncomfortable being labelled as a girl before i even knew what a trans person was. i remember wondering around the "boys" section in shops and telling strangers who would look at me funny i was "shopping for my little brother" even though i was actually looking at what i would want if i was allowed it. i still wish my parents would let me buy stuff from the "mens" section when im out with them instead of having to wait until i can go back to the shop alone. i miss the period of about a month when i had a binder that vaguely fit me that was a friend's old binder and i wont be able to get another one until i move out. i fucking miss being able to be comfortable in my own skin and i only got a taste of it for a month. i remember being in primary school and wishing i could be on the boys team when we would be split into boys vs girls for activities despite not knowing what that meant about me. i learnt about misogyny and then thought that me wanting to be seen as a boy was misogynistic and hating myself sometimes for it to the point where i suppressed it until i met another trans man and realised "oh maybe this doesn't mean im misogynistic it just means I'm not a girl". i remember begging my parents to let me keep the same duvet cover on my bed for as long as theyd let me because i had two duvet covers and one was a pretty pink princess one that said "sweet dreams princess" and the other one was (still 'girly' but less so) pastel elephants and spots and i didn't want to sleep in a bed with the word princess on it. i remember making sure i wouldnt have the princess sheets on whenever a friend came round so that they wouldn't see me as a princess. i remember about two years ago being so happy when my parents decided that i was too old for either of those duvet covers anymore and getting a red tartan fleecy sheet which is snuggly and less 'girly'. i remember even as a child hating summer because it meant i had to stop wearing baggy jumpers and cardigans and go back to t-shirts. i still hate summer because of this and literally the second its cool enough to put a jumper back on i do so. i remember buying the baggy shorts im wearing while writing this last summer and trying them on in the shops changing room and making my mum take me to the bathroom in the shopping centre immediately after buying them so i could change into them because i liked wearing them so much better than the skinny jeans a friend had given to me because they "thought it would help me be more fashionable". i remember going to a country for medical reasons) and it being so hot and me not being prepared for heat (i only had black trousers) so we had to buy shorts and my parents trying to get me to look in the women's section but not wanting to and keeping wondering over to the mens aisle because that was were the only pair of shorts that was long enough for me to be comfortable wearing them were (i hate showing my legs because people often say they "look feminine"). i remember first realising there was a trousers version of my school uniform and begging my mother for a full year to get it for me and being so so happy when i finally got it

so yeah actually trans people who aren't trans women or transfem probably do know the feeling of wearing clothes that "match" your gender presentation

if you genuinely think this shit then im sorry but you're fucking delusional and shouldn't be allowed to say anything about trans men and transmasc's experiences until you learn that this shit is fucking delusional to say

[miloissleepyyaps]

There’s nothing wrong with someone transitioning because of their desire to be in a mlm or wlw relationship. Fetishization looks like giggling over Heated Rivalry just to go and get weirded out by queer people in real life, not wanting to be happy and comfortable in your love life.

[miloissleepyyaps]

The belief that trans men are equal to cis men in terms of how they're affected by the patriarchy is transphobic. It blows my mind how people seem to think that denying how a marginalized group is negatively affected by misogyny is gender affirming. Not to mention y'all are basically agreeing with the blatantly transphobic cisgenders and their whole belief that cis man = real man, even if it's unintentional.