minah's self-ship sideblog

welcome! minah, she/her, adult ♡ follows/interacts from pastel-chrysalis ♡ icon by me, banner commissioned from the-dream-pawners-canvas

[minahsloves]

Hi I'm Minah! I've been self-shipping in some way or another for like twenty years and am super happy to interact with others who do it too~

A few things to know:

I am chronically mentally and physically ill and find a lot of comfort in self-shipping; a lot of my self inserts and personal characters will also have these traits.

I use age regression as a coping mechanism and view some of my f/os as caregivers, so I may talk about them in that context. (I will tag as 'little stuff')

There may be mentions of kink dynamics/bdsm/power exchange relationships and sexual content. This will be tagged accordingly as well, along with general tags of 'suggestive' or 'nsft'.

There may also be some darker content in the context of my fictional ships (unhealthy relationships, extreme age gaps, etc), which will be tagged and warned for as best I can.

I am always fine with sharing, but definitely understand when other people aren't! If you ship with the same character as me or with characters from any of my fandoms I would LOVE to chat 🩷

I go through phases of activity sometimes; I might be super active for a while, and then disappear for a while. I will be back eventually, and I'm still smooching my f/os and supporting all your ships in the meantime ^-^

❤️‍🔥 F/O that's currently on my mind most: Mui.chiro from D.emon S.layer

FULL F/O LIST under cut (will likely be updated from time to time)

Romantic f/os:

🩷 Lan Xichen, MDZS

🩷 Cirrus, Obscura visual novel

✨ Obscura s/i: Aster

🩷 Sanji, one piece live action

🩷 Mui.chiro from D.emon S.layer

✨ s/i: Lillie

🩷 Shadow the hedgehog

♥️ Sir Lancelot, Sonic and the Black Knight

🩷 Sonic the hedgehog

✨ Sonic s/i: Chime the Tenrec, Mimi the human

♡ Holga, Dungeons & Dragons Honor Among Thieves

♡ Haurchefant, ffxiv

♡ Emet-selch & Hythlodaeus, ffxiv

(my xiv ships mostly show up on my bluesky, if anyone wants the link let me know~)

Platonic f/os:

♡ Xie Lian & Hua Cheng, TGCF

♡ Wei Wuxian & Lan Wangji, MDZS

♡ Luo Binghe, SVSSS

♡ Alastor & Rosie, Hazbin Hotel

Minors, please don't follow. Otherwise, the only thing I'll say in that regard is that I care how people treat real living things, not how they treat fictional characters. There will be no discourse here, and if you post a lot of it I likely won't follow back, but it's nothing personal~ otherwise feel free to interact whether we're mutuals or not!

[minahsloves]

Very funny to me that my newest ship has the smallest age gap of any of my mains (BY FAR in most cases), and yet would by far be considered the most 'problematic'

[minahsloves]

My d.emon sl.ayer self insert who had all the children under her care die horribly and is traumatically determined to name sure mui.chiro stays alive and healthy at any cost including her own well-being VS mui.chiro who suddenly lost both his parents because his mother ignored her own well-being and got sick and his father died trying to help her get better .. no they're fine why do you ask

[thinkingabout-girls]

i am so so normal about media and have exactly zero mental illnesses

[minahsloves]

Why have a relationship that's only one thing when you could have a relationship that's friendly, romantic, sexual, parental, and filial all at once

[minahsloves]

I realized yesterday how incredibly world-shattering my d.emon s.layer s/i's italicized oh moment of realization would be. I'll write full notes on her later but she started out as a healing assistant and spent years helping care for mui.chiro and viewing him as a child she looks after, and then after he gets his memory back their relationship begins to shift and one day she looks down at him laying beneath her, hair fanned out around him and soft smile on his face as she soothes his wounds, and just thinks oh . Oh no

[minahsloves]

I need Tumblr to have customizable dashboard tabs soooo bad so i can actually see posts from my beloved mutuals. I follow so many blogs i only see like 2 hours worth of dash a day max and i know I'm missing all the posts but also i have too many interests and dont wanna unfollow anyone

[rottenraccoons]

hello, i don't know if this was asked before but i wanted to ask if there's a reason why Cirrus has extremely pale skin and fangs!

We think it's hot.

[ariawins]

''Fake anime screenshot'' but make it a reference to *that one* scene in Fleabag

[us-angels-together]

Your f/o wants to both destroy you and marry you. You drive them up the wall, you comfort them. They don't know how to feel around you. They hate how much they care for you, and want you. They find you annoying. They find they can't live without you.

Divider by @uzmacchiato

[inklizard]

(wakes up) i need to look at jpegs of those characters

[us-angels-together]

Shout out to selfshippers who have unhinged fictional others.

The kind of f/os where you can't fix them but only make them worse

The kind of f/os that you'd have a mutually assured destruction with

The kind of f/os that would make you cry

Divider by @toastray / 𝐓𝐎𝐀𝐒𝐓𝐑𝐀𝐘

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

reblog if you’re a sick fuck

[have-an-fo-who]

Do you have an F/O who has died in their source material?

Do you have an F/O who died in their source material?

I do

I do not

Voting ended onAug 22, 2025

[minahsloves]

Thought too hard about fictional boyfriend while driving and completely overshot my exit for work ... Selfshipping is dangerous 😔

[minahsloves]

I feel like every so often i disappear for a few weeks and then reappear with a new f/o. I'm like the 'shows up 15 minutes late with Starbucks' meme of selfship blogging lmao

[minahsloves]

Sigh. The double edged sword of wanting to know more self shippers who also ship in your fandoms versus the terror of anyone in said fandoms finding you and taking issue with your ships