sad boi mir ;

Non-binary genderqueer. I often blog about nostalgic bullshit that most people involved have already forgotten. I care about a lot of things

[lyrics-and-music]

June // Tigers Jaw

[kasssshole]

[weltenwellen]

Ada Limón, from “The Great Blue Heron Of Dunbar Road”, Bright Dead Things

[saintd0nna]

“At night/ On the roof top/ I untie my hair/ And watch from my plastic chair/ As my dark hair/ Unleashes the night/ The scent of flowers/ Still in bloom from morning shower/ And I/ Say your name/ In hopes you’ll hear it in the stars”

Mitski, Carry Me Out

[spiritualseeker777]

[fuckyeahpainting]

[cali-cocaine]

this is good

[embyrr922]

I’d just like to add, see how they behave when they’re angry/frustrated/exhausted, and if you see something that concerns you, wait until they’re calm, and then talk to them about it.

My husband used to yell when he got frustrated, but after I explained to him that I found it upsetting, he stopped yelling and started consciously working on asking for help before he got to that level of frustration.

When I’m upset over something, or just in a bad mood, I tend to withdraw. My husband explained to me that it makes him feel like I’m mad at him, so now when I need some space, I’ll tell him what I’m upset about, or that I’m in a bad mood for no particular reason, and I need to be alone for a little while.

See your friends and partners at their worst, but don’t assume that their worst is immutable. If someone loves and cares about you, they’ll try to accommodate you to the best of their ability.

[ladylike-foxes]

^^^^ This is the best advice I’ve ever seen on this site, and it is so important. Communication is everything, and is 80% of the reason my husband and I have such a healthy, strong, and supportive relationship.

[love]

[createandnarrate]

For writing characters grieving a loss. 

[thatgothamguy]

This can also apply to real life, a bit more handily than the Seven Steps thing

[discolor3d]

[selfcare-suggestion]

Progress is different for everyone so don’t make comparisons, just focus on your path.

[preventive]

[mirrrman]

“Drifting away

In my imagination

I see you in a paper airplane

Get a running start

'Cause you're almost there, you're almost flying

You're way up there

Way up in the clouds

So, baby, glide

Right through the sky

'Cause you didn't look back when I said I loved you

Baby, goodbye

And leave me with a sigh

You'll eventually hit the ground, and even then

I'll be waiting for you

I'll be waiting for you

I'll be waiting for you

My runaway man

Falling asleep at night

Was never easy to me

When I know

There are shining stars above my head

So I get a running start

Cause I'm almost there, I'm almost flying

I'm way up there

Way up in the clouds

So I'm gonna glide

Right through the sky

Cause you didn't look back when I said I loved you

So, baby, goodbye

And leave me with a sigh

You'll eventually hit the ground, and even then

I'll be waiting for you

I'll be waiting for you”

[mirrrman]

“I can’t shake it off.

Always a fight between my past,

My head and my heart.

You can cut me up,

And spread me all over [Arizona].”

[qoa]

lost without you pt. 6

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[nawaffs-deactivated20200221]

fall in love with someone who wants you, who waits for you. who understands you even in the madness, someone who helps you, and guides you, someone who is your support, and your hope. fall in love with someone who talks with you after a fight. fall in love with someone who misses you and wants to be with you. do not fall in love only with a body or a face or with the idea of being in love

[officialskylerwhitestan-deactiv]

[nikeypapi]