The chancellor of Bishops U, introduced Laura, as the spouse of Poulin, and also acknowledge Poulin’s mom and dad. Then he said stand up. Laura did not stand up right away because she thought it was only Poulin’s parents who were invited to. Then the chancellor said Laura you too, stand up and kept saying it until she did.
I’m smiling because the way Laura is trying to stay the most invisible is exactly how they were to each other when we all did not know they were a couple. It is both sad and sweet.
Sad because queer people often hide the person who supports them the most in their day to day life, and this reminded me of that. Sweet because you see a wife trying to stay as small as possible so that the day is about her wife.
Side note: Laura Stacey’s has been called : Poulin’s partner, Poulin’s spouse, Poulin’s teammate, Poulin’s life partner…😅😅😅
Now can they find a single name to call her?








