“You’re being a brat”
yeah bc I want you to choke me duhhhh
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“You’re being a brat”
yeah bc I want you to choke me duhhhh
Giving Aftercare to Doms
I’ve seen a lot of writing on aftercare for subs, but never seen anything about Dom drop or the kind of aftercare that D-types need. Consequently, many people assume that aftercare is only necessary for subs, and many people don’t know what kind of aftercare to ask for or provide.
It’s natural to feel guilty when you’re inflicting pain or cruelty to someone you care about. And like with everybody, a lack of adequate aftercare can be discouraging or even dangerous. Here’s some aftercare talking points I tend to like hearing from my subs that you can use as jumping off points:
Reassure your Dom that everything they said and did during the scene was wanted and consensual. Go over and discuss anything that ended up being less than pleasurable or any sore spots that they hit if not.
If the scene went smoothly, reassure them that you are capable of saying no and/or using your safe word. Reassure them that despite roleplaying a loss of control, you know that you still were able to consent during your scene.
Reassure your Dom that you aren’t actually scared of them; and reassure them that you don’t feel like you’re being taken advantage of, nor do you think that they will.
Reassure your Dom that you trust them, you know that they are a responsible dominant, and that you don’t feel afraid that they will abuse their power over you.
Reassure your Dom that they are a good person, and that they are not evil or bad for exercising restrained and consensual cruelty during a scene.
Reassure your Dom that they don’t need to feel guilty for enjoying themselves when they are dominant with you, and that you enjoy your scenes with them as much as they do.
And some other things to keep in mind regarding aftercare as a whole....
Make sure you end the conversation/evening properly. Even if the Dom doesn’t experience Dom drop immediately, it’s very easy for Doms to feel used or like pleasure machines if they feel like they’ve been left hanging.
^^ Especially if you’re sexting or doing BDSM long distance! Do not stop responding without giving closure and reassuring your Dom that you’re okay! If you disappear without saying anything, it’s very possible that your Dom will get anxious and worry that they’ve upset or hurt you.
Check in later. Aftercare doesn’t always have to take place immediately after a scene, especially if they felt like they didn’t need much aftercare afterwards or you’ve had an informal scene and decided to skip it. Dom drop can still settle in a while after a scene has ended, so don’t ever assume you’re automatically on the same page and that care won’t be needed.
Make sure to always offer regardless. Nobody should ever have to ask for aftercare! Don’t assume that your Dom is okay and needs nothing just because they’re in control during your scenes.
And finally, Doms: don’t be afraid to ask for reassurance on the specific points you worry about! Subs can’t read your mind, and they can’t always know if the aftercare they’re giving is enough unless you tell them. You will not lose your submissive’s respect by asking for aftercare as long if they are committed to engaging in conscientious kink.
Stay safe, take care of each other, and practice kink responsibly! ♡
I think I’ll never say this loud enough, Doms mental health is as important as the Sub’s! Even tho we are dominants we are still human being.
If you’re a dominant and need help is okay, if you need comfort is okay, if you need to express your thoughts and feelings is okay! Because being a Dom doesn’t mean that we are invincible!
Will forever boost, this is so important.
Thus. All. Of. This.
hormones? uh yeah, I sure hope she does
Degradation V Praise
I'm going to end this debate right here right now. Use both.
"Look at how wet you are. You're just a cock hungry whore aren't you? You are so pathetic for being turned on by being used like this. You are nothing more than a disgusting slut, aren't you.
...Good girl."
Like... Just...
Straight to subspace. Best. Foreplay. Ever.
how am i a masochist and hate working out? i thought pain was supposed to turn me on?
Name a movie that changed you forever with just a gif. I'll go first.
He's a 6 but he thinks you look prettiest with some consentual bruises and also some bombass forehead kisses.
True control happens without collars or restraints. It's the "you are in trouble" look in his eye from across the room when you know you are doing something you're not supposed to.
It's following the command of one single beckoning finger.
It's how your body reacts to thet deep guttural growl as he rolls his sleeves upto his elbow.
After so many years of this, you know each others body language better than you know your own.
She's a 10 but she can't cum without first being slapped senseless, spanked raw, and called a dumb whore.
It's me but... I'm more like a 6 on a good day. 😆
We Don’t Want To Choose
Being a a man who wants to choke a woman on your cock, and also pull out her chair is not contradictory. Drying her tears when she burns dinner, and wanting to beat her ass with a paddle until she cries, are not contradictory. It’s okay to care about her favorite book, what happened at work, and why she thinks she doesn’t deserve that new sweater. It’s also okay to enjoy that whimpering sound she makes when you pull her hair, and want to smear her makeup with your cock while she edges herself for you. You can hold her when she stubs her toe, and still want to fuck her ass so hard she begs you to stop.
These are the men masochists crave. Men who understand that caring, loving, and tenderness are not weakness. Men who are also not afraid they will break us. Who know that we can be both strong and vulnerable. Men who satisfy our needs and give life to our dark desires. We don’t want to choose. Masochists are greedy, and we want both.
The Punishment
Part 2
I only lasted two days before my tingling and seemingly continuously dripping pussy found me knocking at his office door, hoping I caught him in a good mood. Or possibly a bad mood. Whatever motivated him to touch me, or atleast, have the mercy to allow me to touch myself.
I needed release and if I didn't get it soon, I felt as though I was going to break from the inside and transform into a slobbering, panting thing just begging on her knees.
Him: "I won't do that to you! I'm a feminist! I refuse to hurt women."
Me: "Well then, respectfully choke me out while you fuck my ass and call me a dirty whore."
You know what's even better than having sex with kinky men? Corrupting vanilla men into becoming kinky.
Push me down into the sheets and take what you want from me. Ignore my cries and smack my ass if I trying wiggling away from you. Pound me into the bed till I scream out your name as we cum together.
Then hold me afterwards when I thank you for letting me be your Slut.
One thing about me... once I like you I love making you cum 🤤
The Punishment
Part 1 of 2
He caught me yesterday.
I thought he had already left for work and I was horny so I... well you know...
The Office Slut
Part 3
"Don't. Move."
Even as his hands grasp the back of my neck, holding my bent-over body onto his desk, my hips just don't want to obey his grunted command. They move in a circular motion, rubbing the glistening head of his hard cock against my wet pussy lips. He has been teasing me for hours. The least that I could do was return the favor.
I gasp at a sharp sting against my raised bare ass, as his hand slaps across my bare flesh.
"I said don't move, Slut, or you are going to find out what happens to office whore's who don't do what they are told."