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A moment I’m always so (probably weirdly) proud of and feel like 🥹🥰 is this cause even tho at first she said “nothing!” She eventually let herself be a little more honest BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY do you know how easy it is in the moment to think “well I’ve tolerated this stuff before.. and I love them. Could be unfair to push against them or make a thing of it now” ??! and then just brush it off and take it again???? When you LOVE your people?!?!? Or you THINK to “correct” them so they might hopefully learn to stop or act better but they’ve reacted poorly before when you do that and it’s just exhausting to think about doing it again. Which we see Max do that “correcting” stuff A LOT so by this point three seasons later I could see her being done. So the little sad smile before deciding to just move on is sadly too real

And also SOMETHING about Abby asking what’s wrong only to turn around to say don’t be so dramatic I’m like you asked ?!??!? But it kinda sums this sorta stuff up

[moonchildwildheart]

it's literally just so sweet

“You wanna watch a movie? I promise I won’t talk” I’m 99% to 100% I’ve said something EXACTLY like this😭😭🥹🥰

[moonchildwildheart]

there's something about Georgia covering for them here hahahaha

like. their faces here I can’t hahahaha especially Maxine’s 😆😆😆 kind of a mooooood

[tlmgifs]

Bright young women, sick of swimming, ready to stand.

[koodiiz]

[carmelasoprano]

[thelovejournals]

“The things I find most beautiful about a person are almost never physical.”

— Mark Patterson

[themotivationjournals]

“My favorite thing is to go where I’ve never been.”

— Diane Arbus

[daniifanz]

AND YOU KNOW WHAT WHAT ABBY SAID TO NORAH WAS ALL SHE NEEDED TO SAY TO MAX IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!

“I just don’t feel like she needs to know everything. Like this is mine.”

That’s a totally valid boundary to set!! And IT ANSWERS THE QUESTION MAX WAS ASKING THE WHOLE TIME!!!

The thing about Max is that she’s not trying to overstep or pry but she just wants it to be known that her friends can talk to her about anything. She wants to be a support system for them and for them to know that she cares! It’s not that Max wants to know every little thing, though there is an aspect of feeling left out. It’s that she wants to know why they don’t feel comfortable sharing certain things with her in the first place. I’m pretty sure she understands privacy! In fact she does her best to respect said privacy and not pry. With all the things Ginny went through, she didn’t reach out to Max to talk about it. Max didn’t push her to talk, but she was persistent in letting her presence be known if Ginny wanted to. But instead Ginny found support in other people and that’s okay. Max may have felt hurt but her main focus every time was knowing that Ginny was okay at the end of the day. She gets it.

If Abby would’ve just HAD that conversation with her, she would’ve understood that and acknowledged the specialness Abby felt towards her realized feelings for Tris. But from her eyes it’s not all her friends going “I don’t feel comfortable talking about this right now and that’s my choice.” It’s her friends going “I don’t want to talk with YOU SPECIFICALLY about this and would rather talk to and hang out with someone else and lie to you about it.”

How do you not internalize a situation like that?

This aspect of the friend group dynamic just UGHHHH. Cause I can put myself in their situation with my own friends. And I’ve HAD this conversation with one of my best friends who was in Max’s position. I struggle to reach out and confide in my friends when I need to talk but I find myself confiding in certain friends in my circle and at the time this friend was not someone I regularly went to in those situations. And that hurt her feelings, she wanted me to know I could come to her and that she wanted to support me but it was hard to do so if I never gave her the opportunity. AND THAT WAS UNDERSTANDABLE!!! For me, I’m very selective when it comes to being vulnerable cause of ✨trauma✨ and wasn’t used to leaning into that aspect of friendship with her, so that was a bid for us to connect a little deeper. AND SHE UNDERSTOOD THAT! LIKE ABBY do you know how lucky you are to have a friend who would reach out to you in that way because they care about your friendship?!!!?

For someone who has therapists for parents you would think she would get this concept and have a better understanding of emotional intelligence but of course her character is more nuanced than that. Still though like that’s all you had to sayyyyyyy

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That infamous prison escape.

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[fireladyazula]

Maybe they’ll give you the wisdom to win this battle!

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[theangelsnumbers]

Il n'y a qu'un bonheur dans la vie, c'est d'aimer et d'être aimé.

George Sand

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